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Connecticut - 3/9/2005 6:46:04 PM

torrsub

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Hello all. i am torrsub, from Connecticut. i have been interloping around the east coast for close to 20 years now, visiting pro dommes. i have become very fond of one. She has moved away from my area now. i still love being submissive, but i may be at a crossroads in my life. I tell myself that i am all done with this stuff. I am quite comfortable with that thought, and feel it is right for me to quit. Then it comes back with a rush...torrsub

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RE: Connecticut - 3/10/2005 7:37:29 AM

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Welcome torrsub!

I am not sure why you would want to give up something so fun. You are still young - why there is any reason to make a permanent decision? We aren't doing vasectomies after all.

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RE: Connecticut - 3/10/2005 12:55:39 PM

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Hi Torrsub and welcome to the forums at CM!

Here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle!

I have decided i cant give it upm, it is a physical need at times the pain and the play, i wondered why nilla sex was so boring and did nothing for me until i became active in BDSM. I could never give it up.

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RE: Connecticut - 3/11/2005 6:53:27 AM

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Thank you for the very nice welcome. I like your picture. It is a pretty classy shot. Why would i want to give it up at times? High frustration levels. Also, the other areas of my life greatly suffer because of my never ending search. It is not good for family life when you suffer from such a strong addiction. I still maintain though, that i could be cured if i had somebody fairly close (but not too close) that would play for fun. Maybe i expect too much. If i could find that one discreet person, i would never waste so much time online...

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RE: Connecticut - 3/11/2005 6:54:34 AM

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Hello to you too..... Good answer!!! I feel the same way at times...torrsub

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RE: Connecticut - 3/11/2005 6:44:28 PM

onceburned

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Thank you for the compliment on my avatar. I wish you all the best in your search for a partner.

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RE: Connecticut - 3/12/2005 4:47:40 AM

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Welcome torrsub. I think we all time to time fall into that mindframe where we wonder if it's worth the aggrevation. Sure it is...we are different because we chose to be different, that is what makes the lifestyle so intriguing. We do not accept that nilla in normal, we figure our pleasure is derived from our notoriety and the feeling we get from deterring from the "norm". You will get the spark back..it is not a flame that goes out, it just flickers sometimes. Welcome to collarme...I do hope you enjoy your stay and get to meet some of the simply amazing people here (tips hat to the crowd..lol).

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RE: Connecticut - 3/12/2005 12:05:07 PM

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Welcome to Collarme torrsub.
Am not sure why you want to give it up so bad, instead of maybe trying to integrate it into family life. M

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