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what your Master first said to you... - 2/9/2007 10:08:13 PM   
makemeslavepleez


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Joined: 7/5/2006
Status: offline 		Hello,

i am new to this website. i am wonding what was that attracted female sub to Master from site? what they say you first? i get lot of emails.
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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 1:03:48 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Joined: 2/5/2007
From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		Daddy found me when i wasn't really looking for Him. we met on another site - He messaged me first since He was interested in meeting a woman like me(actually He was searching for a submissive type who was intelligent, strong, etc). it was something in His wording and how He spoke that caught my eye. i think we chatted all day long because He took the time and effort to getting to know me.  He was the first guy who treated me like a woman and not the site's "daily special".

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 4:26:04 AM   
sleazybutterfly


Posts: 2801
Joined: 5/15/2006
Status: offline 		I wasn't looking either when I met Master.  I had ran into a lot of liars on here in a row and needed to take some time for me.  I stayed on here to post on the boards and keep in touch with friends, thats about it.

He was from the same state, he mentioned some things that were in my journal and that he had been reading them for a while, that really touched me.  We met within a few weeks, I then got his collar, followed by moving in with him.  We are going to be married this year.

I loved the fact that he treated me like a person with intelligence, and also wanted a monog. relationship (so many didn't).  I am so glad I found out the players before more happened, and so blessed that I opened my heart to him after being hurt so much.




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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 5:06:10 AM   
goodpet


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Joined: 6/8/2005
Status: offline 		I frist met the Captain in  vanilla dating site 9 years ago when we both just stepping in to the kink world.  What He said was a simple comment about all the common interests we have. We dated, vanilla, and both thought the other was too nice and 'pure' to be interested in kink, so neither of us told the other about our interests. But we liked each other, had lots of common interests and dated for a few months, but due to distance (80 miles) and over time we just drifted apart, with only a few random e-mails that dropped off as we both got more into the kink community.

hen 4 years later, we met at a play party three states away from us.. WOW what a surprise.  i have been collared to Him now for 9 months and very happy.

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 5:31:09 AM   
kyraofMists


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Joined: 7/29/2005
Status: offline 		The first time I interacted with him at all was in a chat room and the first thing he said was "Hi".  When we met in person the first time, his first words were "You were nervous; they picked up on that".  For those who have read the story of how I was questioned by Canadian Immigration that line makes perfect sense  *g*

Knight's kyra

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 6:27:19 AM   
viperess


Posts: 290
Joined: 11/6/2006
Status: offline 		Greetings,

For me, i had just read a couple of messages from some Dom's who were being very rude about my age and size. i was about to the point of deciding this site was so not right for me when i noticed a journal entry Master had warning BBW's of Masters who were being very rude and unkind. i messaged a quick note thanking Him and well within two weeks i had moved halfway across the US and begged His collar. It has just gotten better and better since then.

viperess slave of CTDOM4sub

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 6:59:38 AM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		Well my Daddy is handsome...smiles, but what he said that attracted me was he asked what I planned on going to graduate school to do.

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 11:50:33 AM   
velvetvixen68


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Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline 		Master and i used to go to a voice chat program and we actually met through His ex-wife.  they were still together at the time but was getting ready to seperate.  i had a friend that i used to moderate a room with and Master would come in under different names to pick at us to see how long it would take for me to boot His butt out of the room..He was very obnoxious lol..anyways we kept running into each other online and eventually took the time to find out niether of us were with anyone else and actually interested in each other but too stubborn to say anything before lol..oh i should mention we lived in different states too.  well He mentioned wanting to collar me so i told Him the only way i would beg for the collar would be if He was here in California with me so i could look into His eyes as He put the collar on me.  a few months later He was here and i have been His since Dec 17 2004..i do have to say though that i tell people He chased me for 6 years but i stopped to tie my shoes and He tripped over me..lol

velvetvixen68
slave and slut to CTDOM4sub
heart sister to viperess

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 12:06:35 PM   
MaryT


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Joined: 12/8/2006
Status: offline 		We didn't meet online.  The first thing he said was:  "Hi.  You have very pretty eyes." 

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 1:04:27 PM   
michaels4evr


Posts: 184
Joined: 8/8/2006
Status: offline 		We met on yahoo personals through our vanilla accounts and basically he sent me the most original email I'd ever received. I had only been on the site a few weeks but mostly I received one liners. You got me to reminscing..so I went back and found the first email he ever sent me..it was probably the last line..or even the p.s. that made me want to write back..

3/16/2005
"............Just a note of encouragement to you- I don't give very many so take this as it is, a blessing from God. Hope you find the man who doesn't complete you, but rather complements the beauty that you have within. Peace out, -Michael  ps - I'd bring back Janis Joplin.  She helps me to REALLY appreciate those who CAN sing...or maybe Elvis- the world really could use another pharmacy technician.  lol There is also this guy I know.  Not too many people like him (although they're hypocrites 'cuz they say that they do) because he was really into body piercing.  He's had a tremendous influence on my life in spite of (or maybe because of) the holes in his palms and feet. 
We met a couple weeks later..and the rest is history...or rather we are still writing our story...

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 3:03:53 PM   
toservez


Posts: 1733
Joined: 9/7/2006
From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline 		My Master wrote an actual fairly short but very personal message. It was very clear he had read my profile and was written in this wonderfully confident with no hint of arrogant tone that I am a total sucker for.

I think the kicker was that he asked several questions that were not generic but were very much based on my profile and his that it made me want to rush to answer him back. I have actually printed out the message laminated it and read it multiple times a week.


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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 3:10:15 PM   
BabyNyla


Posts: 578
Joined: 9/15/2006
Status: offline 		My Hubbie/Master and I met here on CM.  He sent me a cut and paste letter (yuck) and I told him, ever so politely, to F*** Off.  However, he is a persistent little bugger ... and harassed me non-stop for my number.  So I told him if he waited a week I would give it to him.  He was (is) 19 and good looking, so I figured he'd find some new ass to chase and would go away... oh how very wrong wrong wrong I was.  7 days later like clock work he asked me for my number and we spent about 10,000 minutes talking that first month, lol.

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 4:39:01 PM   
Zsuzsanna


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Joined: 12/17/2006
Status: offline 		The first thing my Master said to me on that fateful day was: "Thank you for admiring Me. I hope we can talk sometime."  Because I had read His profile and liked what I saw. I liked His way with words.  We began talking and within a short amount of time I knew that He was the one I wanted to serve, and would be very unhappy if I didn't get to.


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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/10/2007 6:33:20 PM   
myobedience


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quote:

ORIGINAL: makemeslavepleez

Hello,

i am new to this website. i am wonding what was that attracted female sub to Master from site? what they say you first? i get lot of emails.


It is NOT attaction to their first email IMHO, it is how they respond to your first question that is attractive or not............  JMHO 
 
me

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/11/2007 9:02:37 AM   
cjenny


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Joined: 11/27/2006
Status: offline 		The first time I finally met R I was waiting in his hotel room. He'd been in a meeting & I picked my key up at the desk. I fell asleep in a big comfy chair, not hearing R enter the room until he actually scooped me up and kissed me awake.
'You're mine, you are beautiful & I love you. Now strip.'

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/11/2007 9:23:26 AM   
twicehappy


Posts: 2706
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline 		I emailed him first because of his nic, ScooterTrash, said it all........

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/11/2007 9:26:09 AM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Well, this is Domme to male sub, but my first message to Angel was
"Damn those system admins, how dare they block this site! How am I supposed to tell you how cute you look if you cant read your CM email?" AS  a response to a journal entry.
We have been chatting ever since, and he was mine about a month and a half later.

DV

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Snarko Ergo Sum
If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/11/2007 10:25:33 AM   
afeathr


Posts: 248
Joined: 6/1/2006
From: Southern California
Status: offline 		Actually, it wasn't something that Sir said, but the pic that was on his profile.  It was so intimate (a pic of him and his hawk) that I couldn't help but to be attracted.  We met on a different site, he contacted me first with a fairly generic email (nothing over the top, iow) with an invite to chat.  We started instant messaging pretty regularly, and getting to know each other, but it wasn't until I met him in person that I knew he would own me.  We met for dinner and he walked me to my car (he's very much the gentleman).  He pushed me against the car (gently) and after our first kiss he whispered, "is this what you want?"  We've been together about 9 months now, so you can guess what my answer was...

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-Going where the wind blows me...

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/11/2007 10:27:39 AM   
grlneedstolearn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: makemeslavepleez

Hello,

i am new to this website. i am wonding what was that attracted female sub to Master from site? what they say you first? i get lot of emails.


First off, welcome. My Dom and i exchanged a few messages through CM since we both liked each others profiles, and he was what I was looking for; since I also have a criteria to begin with when i first started my search. And as we grew more comfortable, took a few weeks before we started sending messages we moved onto instant messagings for a while (couple months). And than we decided to meet and he knew a little about my past and was told by him that we would take it at my pace so i can trust him, a big issues for me. Ever since than i've been in training and i love sceneing with him whenever we can.
   Best of luck 

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RE: what your Master first said to you... - 2/11/2007 12:20:55 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		He asked me about something I had written on my profile.  I answered, and he told me I was wrong.  I gave him a sarcastic retort and he still told me I was wrong.

He piqued my interest and I continued the conversation with this arrogant man who would come to own me...

Edited to add:  Um, he was right.  I was wrong.

< Message edited by ownedgirlie -- 2/11/2007 12:34:56 PM >

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