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behindmirrors -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/11/2007 1:04:03 PM)

I first met my Master in real life, so I can't say much for online things he said to me to make me feel like I wanted to be with him for always, and be his for always.
But, the first thing we ever talked about was teaching drawing. He was talking to someone else I knew, and so I decided to ask him some questions about art.
He gave me his number on a napkin at the end of the night, when I was dancing to the last band playing at a party. My friend told me to call him, and I did, after some cajoling, because I'm shy and even more so on the phone.
We went out on a date, and I knew it was wonderful when we realized that we had so many silly little things in common. We became a vanilla couple, and then, six months later, Master and slave.
behindmirrors.




AquaticSub -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/11/2007 8:50:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: makemeslavepleez

Hello,

i am new to this website. i am wonding what was that attracted female sub to Master from site? what they say you first? i get lot of emails.


I believe his exact words were "Hi, how are you? Would you like a beer?"

Ok so it's not from the site but I couldn't resist. *holds out her wrist for smacking*




Areflectionofyou -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/12/2007 2:50:46 AM)

I met My Master in a aol chat room. I saw his screenname and looked at the profile and was intriqued...but i wasn't really looking .  He apparently looked at mine as well. because i wandered away from the computer and came back to a nasty instant message. He said "fine ..be rude , ive been talking to you and you don't bother answering". Lol the rest was history... The first thing he said was i love you in person. and almost a year later i am moving in with him. We bought "our" house.




sweetgill -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/12/2007 3:27:46 AM)

met my master through chit chat but due to ill health he released me,we are now fantastic friends and am hoping when he is well again he will take me back.his first words were hello i am fine after a plucked up courage to message him for the first time.  




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/12/2007 6:43:45 AM)

He was polite and a gentlemen. He didn' t send an email saying "kneel bitch" or "my cock is 10 inches". Those are a big turn off to me and I never responded to those. Master a gentlemen and thats what mad me respond to him and was the beginning of a long relationship.




littleone35 -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/14/2007 1:18:54 PM)

Well Master first e mail did not bowl me over it was.  " hi, where in NY do you live".  Well i answerd him and we started to e mail and that was gettin annoying so i gave him my Number and he gave me his and we started to talk.  Now it iwll be a year in 1 1/2 weeks

Matt's littleone




touchthesky -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (2/15/2007 2:46:09 AM)

met my former Master who indocrinated me into all this long time ago at a concert; I felt a firm grip on my arm... he said " i long to romance you" he reached under my dress and grabbed my cunt hard and asked me if i liked to be dominated in bed. i said yeah. my cousin Dan was with me and staring at me like i was nuts




slave2trace -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 11:03:43 AM)

Master and i met on a vanilla type dating site...i winked at him first i think...then he wrote me simply.."how far are you....willing to go?" (meaning travel to see him)...then we emailed back and forth about where he lived, and where i lived and i did research on what was around his town...and found a wonderful spa and told him about it and 2 weeks later we stayed there....:) and still going strong...we discovered each others common interest in bdsm because in his ad he stated he wanted a "sexxxy adventuror" ask me....so i asked...the rest is history...:)




slaveluci -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 11:27:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: makemeslavepleez

Hello,

i am new to this website. i am wonding what was that attracted female sub to Master from site? what they say you first? i get lot of emails.


i met Master here on CM.  i honestly don't remember the exact words W/we first exchanged but i very clearly remember the gist of our first conversation.  W/we probably talked more about music and books than anything and i was hooked!  W/we had sooooo much in common and He knew about most of my favorites in both categories.  It was like talking with someone who shared the same brain on those topics and i was smitten, for sure [:)]  Since that first chat, W/we never went so much as a day without talking for hours either online or by phone until W/we finally met about 6 weeks later and the rest is sweet, sweet history  [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/banana.gif[/image].....slave luci




junecleaver -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 12:08:28 PM)

He commented on something on my profile about spirituality and BDSM.  I realized that there were a bunch of people who shared my philosophies and could meet my needs, but I hadn't bumped into one until him.  He was just kind of everything I never thought I would find---not even in a mooshy gooshy way.....I literally felt that I would never find someone who was at the same place spiritually and lifestyle-wise as I was.




mixielicous -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 12:13:09 PM)

well He contacted me and i thought it was interesting because one of His interests were "your tattoos arent as cool as you think they are" [i think thats the jewish in Him] and yet tattoos are a huge part of who i am [flower tattoo [soon to be a huge piece] that represents my life passion, two bands for passed siblings, and even most recently the mark of Him] - in the site we were using there was no initial msg when interest was declared, so this was what i had to go on. i was very flattered. He has embraced that part of me, and it touches me very personally.




mixielicous -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 12:15:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: behindmirrors

I first met my Master in real life, so I can't say much for online things he said to me to make me feel like I wanted to be with him for always, and be his for always.
But, the first thing we ever talked about was teaching drawing. He was talking to someone else I knew, and so I decided to ask him some questions about art.
He gave me his number on a napkin at the end of the night, when I was dancing to the last band playing at a party. My friend told me to call him, and I did, after some cajoling, because I'm shy and even more so on the phone.
We went out on a date, and I knew it was wonderful when we realized that we had so many silly little things in common. We became a vanilla couple, and then, six months later, Master and slave.
behindmirrors.

very very similar to me, it took about three attempts to make it to the first date [i had never met anyone offline] and we have been basically inseparable ever since, started nilla and 4 months later M/s




curiouslyseeking -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 12:23:10 PM)

Humor grabs my Heart....
 
I wasn't looking for anyone, but was scanning the profiles on Collarme ...came across a blank profile except for height, age.
 
The height caught my attention....So, I sent a one-line zinger...
 
"Not much to the profile, hopefully there is much more to the man than just the nice height"...with a smile of course.
 
At this time, I did not have a profile picture up, but had a profile full of some beautiful slave quotes and  thoughts...really showing "what I thought" my knowledge of slavery is..trying to be impressive...
 
He replied back...
 
"Not much to your profile either"
 
So, this lured me in to finding out more ....he was different from the Doms that seem so desperate for communication.
 
So, this started some playful banter and then we both saw interest there and decided to see where this thing could go...and as he says,
 
"We both leaped"
 
and now we are still jumping in..(grin)




sabis -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 12:53:32 PM)

(said in a baritone, husky Southern drawl)...
 
"Howdy, ma'am. My name's (Cumulus). Pleased to meet you."
 
I melted and have been positively gooey over him ever since.
 
In His service,
 
~sabis
Owned by Cumulus
 




Celeste43 -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 2:27:35 PM)

We met on another BDSM site. He was lucky I was brand new and still sending polite replies to everyone. He sent a one liner saying he thought we had interests in common. I checked his profile and answered with a two liner questioning one thing.

From then on it snowballed. Long emails several times a day, he talked me through installing AIM on my computer, then we added long chats to the long emails. Next came phone numbers and eventually we met. I was scared to death and he knew it, took time to relax me and we were talking and holding hands at the restaurant within half an hour.

Since then it's been like that, as if we were old friends from the first.




BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 3:48:40 PM)

It was a couple of days after I signed up here on CM and had received emails from about 50 doms in that time.  Most sent either "hello", "beautiful", "wanna chat", "do you do anal?" or some long form letter.  Oh and let's not forget the two who wanted to chop off all my hair and the one who wanted to chain me nekkid in his backyard. [sm=rolleyes.gif]

My now Master's email said, "Well hello naughty angel.  How about lunch or dinner?"   Which struck me as funny when I read it for some reason, so I replied with... "Well good morning to you too! ;o)".  We emailed a couple more times here, moved to yahoo chat the same day and the next day we talked on the phone.  We spent many hours on the phone, but didn't meet until 3 weeks later due to schedules and Thanksgiving.






blushingflower -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 4:05:56 PM)

Daddy and I met on another site.  The first email he sent me made me look at his profile.  When he saw that I'd looked at his profile, he sent me another saying "I know you're curious, just respond".  I did, and we chatted.  We talked on the phone, and we clicked in many ways.  When he told me that Buffy the Vampire Slayer was "the best television show ever", I knew I had to meet him, since that's my favorite show.
What gets one girl to respond will turn another girl off.  If you're really a submissive (and not a guy looking for the magic word), create a form letter for the ones you don't want (if you feel you should respond at all), and then respond in the ones you find interesting.  Just like in a bar, if the guy says something you want to respond to, you respond, if he comes across as a moron, you don't respond, or you say "no thanks".




opensoul -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 4:42:21 PM)

I emailed my master on another BDSM site ,asking questions about the lifestyle and any helpful hints. He was so nice to email back asking what I was looking for and it went from there. I quess I found him. I never thought he would answer, but i am soo glad he did. I have never been so happy .




missturbation -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 5:36:51 PM)

I met my Sir at a local munch where i had been restrained in shibari. His first words to me were 'watch it lady!'
Imagine that - me being gobby [:)]




daddysblondie -> RE: what your Master first said to you... (3/17/2007 11:51:26 PM)

He emailed me here on CM and pointed out that i was on his friends list on myspace.




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