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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 7:32:16 PM   
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As a sub, a smoking Domme is a deal breaker.  Grew up with parents that smoked (heavily) and can't stand it.  Dad died from it, mom's on her way (aneuryism and clots).  Plus there is nothing like the smell of clean hair when you are nuzzling her neck. 
I can see why there is such a fetish for it though, specially the objectification of being used as an ashtray.  Just not for me, I would rather be used as a spittoon......not for chew though ewwwwwww

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 9:09:08 PM   
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I don't smoke, I quit last year. Best thing I ever did for myself.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 9:56:05 PM   
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I give kudos to anyone who can quit,  it takes one hell of alot of willpower.  Like any addiction you have to want to quit. 

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 11:17:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I've noticed that many dommes smoke? Even in Los Angeles where smoking is slowly being outlawed and smokers are rare. Is there a reason for this?


I honestly had not noticed that "many" dommes smoke.  I always figured it was about the same percentage as the general population, which is getting smaller and smaller.
I smoke and it has nothing to do with being a FemDom.  *shrug*
 

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/10/2007 11:20:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I've noticed that many dommes smoke? Even in Los Angeles where smoking is slowly being outlawed and smokers are rare. Is there a reason for this?


They smoke because They like it.
A City in Maine has passed the law about No smoking in cars with kids in them.
I think its a great law to protect kids.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/11/2007 7:12:57 PM   
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I don't know what the subject of smoking is doing on a forum pertaining to mistresses, and there's doesn't seem to be a connection but I can speak with authority on the issue of smoking. When I was around 16, I was a heavy smoker. And I was very inconsiderate. I thought that because I enjoyed smoking, everyone did. And so I would light up and blow smoke in people's faces and think I was doing them a favor. Gradually, my weak lungs rebelled and I had to quit smoking. Then I developed asthma.  I quite a while ago.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 8:38:10 AM   
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Because only the COOL dommes and doms smoke....DUH!!


Well shit, there goes any chance I ever had of being cool.


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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 8:44:47 AM   
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I quit in October.  I have been smoking off and on since I was 18. 
I was a smoker a long time before I was a FemDom.  I loved to smoke.  Still would be if I had not seeen first hand how bad my breathing got in the hospital.  I quit for the hospital.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 12:15:18 PM   
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Oh there soooo is a link with Dommes and smoking, i have an terrible fetish for smoking dommes in truth i'd choose a smoking dommes over a non smoking one everytime, i can't help the desire, to me if being ultra healthy and NOT doing this n that is where we are heading then i'm glad il be dead before that happens! Life is for living not for worrying, do what you want but never impose on others, the trouble with the smoking thing is scientists still have not come to conclusions regarding the amount of smoke needed to develop cancer especially amongst passive smokers, some heavey heavy smokers die naturally so where is your evidence now? Wanna know what breeds cancer? I could tell you but you wouldnt believe me... 

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 12:38:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tslaveboy

I've noticed that many dommes smoke? Even in Los Angeles where smoking is slowly being outlawed and smokers are rare. Is there a reason for this?


Because they are not really in control of themselves?

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 12:53:11 PM   
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Remember dommes are people first. Just normal, everyday women.  With feelings and downfalls just like everyone else. But Im sure you know this already, unlike some other patronizing idiots out there. 

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 2:42:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

Because only the COOL dommes and doms smoke....DUH!!


Well shit, there goes any chance I ever had of being cool.




Don't be so hard on yourself,  I still think you are cool 

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:08:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

Because only the COOL dommes and doms smoke....DUH!!


Well shit, there goes any chance I ever had of being cool.



I know its a bit of a let down.

I had to sacrifice my coolness when I quit smoking a month ago.

Perhaps we both can try candy cigarettes so we can hang out with the "in crowd"

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:16:33 PM   
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Of course I smoke.

With all the money I extract from stupid male subs online, how else am I meant to spend it all?

E


You mean they send you money

I smoke, and yes I will give up, when I'm ready to.  If you aren't interested in becoming my sub because I smoke, its your loss not mine

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:17:26 PM   
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You can't ask a question like that, and get a definite answer. That's like asking - '
"Why do so many subs cry?"

I guess I missed the part in the handbook that said I had to smoke.


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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:21:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Subject2Approval

I guess I missed the part in the handbook that said I had to smoke.



Its after the part where your required to wear tight latex 24/7 and before the part where your supposed to modify your personality to become a "Bitch Goddess" stereotype.

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:26:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GuidingLite

Remember dommes are people first. Just normal, everyday women.  With feelings and downfalls just like everyone else. But Im sure you know this already, unlike some other patronizing idiots out there. 



ahahhahahahah hoooheeeeehhaaa what a great post, Dommes are people first...are you MAD!? Dommes own the universe as they should, they invigorate the submissive side, they breathe life into the carbon form, they are more than people....espcially those who smoke cos if you dont smoke then you just aint cool, everyone knows that!

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:39:47 PM   
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espcially those who smoke cos if you dont smoke then you just aint cool, everyone knows that!



See? More people speak the truth!



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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 4:52:58 PM   
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Well they sought the truth....and sometimes people can't handle the truth! (coughs)

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RE: Why do so many dommes smoke? - 2/12/2007 6:57:22 PM   
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Well they sought the truth....and sometimes people can't handle the truth! (coughs)


Never a truer phrase was spoken.



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