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CelticPrince -> You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 6:50:36 PM)
Lots of Masters around but consider this if your carrying that title. Are you available 24/7 [even on line] to help your "s" with a r/t problem? Are you ready to wire some emergency funds to your "s" to help when needed? Do you let it be known when visiting a new site/chat that you already have "s" and are pleased? Do you devote as much time to after care as you did for the interaction? If on line do you take the time to travel to your "s" when time permits? Do you make that time? Are you open to your "s"s input re technique? These are key items but there are many more. Unless the above answers are principally yes, perhaps Sir might be a better way to go, re salutation. CP

SimplyMichael -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 6:52:52 PM)
Let me guess, YOU of course meet all your standards right? Can I ask which chat room you gained all this wisdom in so I can go tell them to fucking go somewhere else?

Carameldomme -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 6:56:35 PM)
huh????? So... a master must travel to his slave... and send him/her money - or he isn't really a master?? This sounds like the doctored resume of an online Dom... CD

SimplyMichael -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 6:58:10 PM)
Oh it gets better, if you really want a laugh, read his profile!

MsLadySue -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:00:36 PM)
Fantastic post.

smilezz -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:00:56 PM)
Yo! Jeff Foxworthy representin'! laughs it's all i could envision when i saw that title. ~smilezz~

gooddogbenji -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:02:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Oh it gets better, if you really want a laugh, read his profile! Sounds like Dilbert on crack. We need to optimize our synaptic tactics to maximize net gains on pre-productive measures in a symbiotic relationship between power and the duality of positive potential. To think, this guy might even seem credible to some. Yours, benji

SimplyMichael -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:05:33 PM)
This is why I rail against online...not the rare exceptions like Noah, 99.9999% are fluffballs. If you are in San Francisco where you can't go out to dinner without meeting perverts, where they shut down a major avenue to have a BDSM party in PUBLIC, if you play online, you aren't even a player!

findmedaddy -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:16:47 PM)
Michael, Benjy: As a relative newcomer to this, I wonder if you could elaborate a little on your reactions? I've really liked a lot of your posts, and some of the time I can keep up and understand, but here, I don't. Thanks, findme

SimplyMichael -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:37:57 PM)
What I object to is twofold. The OP hasn't added anything to a debate, or shared deeply of himself, instead he has done what I call "chest thumping" which is to come in and in a thinly veiled way announce how wonderful he is in a pathetic attempt to impress anyone stupid enough to buy into it. Plus, the guys profile reads like "uber dom" and yet he is clearly a cyber player. Lastly, what he posted sort of sounds good but is fluff, its like the political game of who isn't for protecting children. Is he a jerk for not listing "don't maim them"? Mainly though it is a cheesy way of saying "I am better than everyone else" and it is tiresome.

goodpet -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:45:14 PM)
Hmmm ... Griffin is not available to me 24/7, like this weekend He is out of town at a lifestyle event and training and i have to wait for Him to call me.. Griffin would not 'wire me funds', more likely would tell me to remember to deposit my paycheck in His account at the bank on my way home from work Griffin's profiles do not always mention me, but gee, i thought the Master could decide when and where to discuss His property with others. i was so wrong.. Griffin does not give me aftercare much. usually i go clean and put stuff away, helps keeps me in subbie headspace longer to do service and take care of Him more, or i take care of His other needs and we both fall asleep. does Griffin make time? Hmm seems it is my job to take care of His needs and wants. is He open to my imput re technique?.. Oh sure, right.. "Sir if You hit the other side a bit more it would feel more balanced".. "Oh Sir, that flogger needs a bigger arch to land correctly".. and i want to wear a drool gag all night for what reason? good thing we only live together and are not online cause i guess Griffin is not much of an online master after all. Sounds like you have to be online to be a master, grin

MasterFireMaam -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:49:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince Lots of Masters around but consider this if your carrying that title. Are you available 24/7 [even on line] to help your "s" with a r/t problem? Are you ready to wire some emergency funds to your "s" to help when needed? Do you let it be known when visiting a new site/chat that you already have "s" and are pleased? Do you devote as much time to after care as you did for the interaction? If on line do you take the time to travel to your "s" when time permits? Do you make that time? Are you open to your "s"s input re technique? These are key items but there are many more. Unless the above answers are principally yes, perhaps Sir might be a better way to go, re salutation. CP These are all very valid statements to base a relationship on, if that's what you choose and agree upon. I actually meet them all. However, if I've negotiated a different kind of relationship, say one where slaves are seen not heard, then that's also a valid thing. We all do it differently. Perhaps you'd find these valid for you as I do. Qualities of a Realized Master. Master Fire

findmedaddy -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 7:59:32 PM)
Thank you for taking the time, Michael.

Focus50 -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/10/2007 8:53:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince Lots of Masters around but consider this if your carrying that title. Are you available 24/7 [even on line] to help your "s" with a r/t problem? Are you ready to wire some emergency funds to your "s" to help when needed? Do you let it be known when visiting a new site/chat that you already have "s" and are pleased? Do you devote as much time to after care as you did for the interaction? If on line do you take the time to travel to your "s" when time permits? Do you make that time? Are you open to your "s"s input re technique? These are key items but there are many more. Unless the above answers are principally yes, perhaps Sir might be a better way to go, re salutation. *Nothing crashes and burns like trying to define the traits unique to a Dominant but surely a* *"Master" should be easier if you qualify it as at least owning a slave.* *But this list here? Seems to me every point works just as well for any ole vanilla husband and* *wife! Perhaps we need those extra key items....?* *Focus.*

gooddogbenji -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/11/2007 4:19:43 AM)
My comment was based on the fact that if you read the OP's profile, lots of statements sound good until you think about them. Then you realize that all he did was write, "I like ham," and then switch any short word with three long ones. It's a lot of noise, but no sustance. BLECH! Yours, benji

NorthernGent -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/11/2007 4:30:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince Are you available 24/7 [even on line] to help your "s" with a r/t problem? Are you ready to wire some emergency funds to your "s" to help when needed? Out of curiosity: 1) How can you be available 24 hours a day? 2) Surely the aim should be to instill in her the ability to organise and manage her finances (rather than tackle the symptom at your expense)? A problem is solved by getting to the root of it, not by tackling symptoms.

leathersmith -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/11/2007 4:43:17 AM)
Are you sure you are not channeling my goldigginstripperho mistress of many years ago, cuz ya sound just like her If this is your idea of an adult relationship much less a M/s rel perhaps you should go buy a clue. I would send you to my therapist but she hates to stifle that much laughter

CelticPrince -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/11/2007 5:05:17 AM)
Simply, I won.! I made a small bet with myself that you would for certain reply and probably is a negative way, but your rant was a surprise. You forgot the 1st rule of communications, attack the content, not the person, oh well! To reply to your retort, No I will not allow any sub to refer to me as Master, simply because I choose not to be what is described in the post. and a big hooray for those that do meet it. What I have a problem with is why a "puppy Love" artist is doing on a D/s site. no need to rant about that, I just wonder. I have been in this lifestyle a long time and have of course come across many D's with your persona, fact is I wonder if your the Michael that I coached in Little League a few decades ago. The St Andrews cross is a nice touch! ever use it? CP

CelticPrince -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/11/2007 5:09:30 AM)
Fire, Agree, there are different approaches available and to be use, it was a generic post to get some folks thinking. Thanks for your input! CP

CelticPrince -> RE: You Might be a Master if................ (2/11/2007 5:12:20 AM)
CD, I have been in the lifestyle for 25 years, been there, done that both r/t and on line. Do you have a point?

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