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Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/16/2004 6:20:50 AM   
LthrDaddyBear


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Status: offline 		I have a couple of questions for the Masters and Mistresses:

  • How many of you shave your subs/slaves or have your subs/slaves shave before presenting to you?
  • Do you include a ritual shaving in the other rituals and ceremonies that you do when accepting a slave at whatever level?
  • What is your opinion of a slave that presents himself shaved for consideration?
  • If you do shave or require your sub/slave to shave, What is the reasons that you do it?

Personally, I am not one for shaving but I understand that many Masters and Mistresses do have their slaves shave. (Actually the slaves I am more attracted to, shaving them and letting it grow out is far greater punishment than keeping them shaved.)

Reason I asked the question is that I have noticed reading through profiles here and on other sites an increase number of unowned gay slaves who are shaving entirely before entering into a relationship. I found this to be rather odd. Now call me Old Fashioned, or Old Guard or whatever, but I was alway under the impression that the Master shaved the house (if that was what he wanted) during the initiation ritual when he takes the slave into his house?

Also, is the shaving situation just a situation that is prevalent in the gay BDSM community?

Thanks ahead of time for replying,
Master Barth
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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/16/2004 6:59:57 AM   
disiresabound


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Status: offline 		Very good question. I prefer my female slaves to be shaved for my personal enjoyment. For male slaves it would is much more symbolic of there submission. To have them presented shaved is of no concern to me because if they are shaved they are doing it for there own pleasure. But leaving it grow out for a few days then tying them up and shaving them myself is fun too. Waxing is most painful and the most rewarding to comfort the slave afterwards... But I always wondered about male full body hair removal... is the pleasure more a mental stimulation then physical?

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/16/2004 7:22:12 AM   
MistressDREAD


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We both are from
the Old Guard Barth
as it is ALWAYS the
Dominant whom
controls how a slave
is presented be it the
ritual of shaving in
the House or caging
or any other ritual and
those subs or slaves
whom choose to be
totally shaven I have
found tend to desire
the more Younger
new guard type
Dominance or
relationship. I have
a hair fetish and
wouldent accept any
slave whom shaved
into My Home or
My contract or
kollar. I control
that aspect of a
slaves body as a
Dominant.

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/16/2004 8:50:37 AM   
Thanatosian


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LthrDaddyBear

I have a couple of questions for the Masters and Mistresses:

  • How many of you shave your subs/slaves or have your subs/slaves shave before presenting to you?
  • Do you include a ritual shaving in the other rituals and ceremonies that you do when accepting a slave at whatever level?
  • What is your opinion of a slave that presents himself shaved for consideration?
  • If you do shave or require your sub/slave to shave, What is the reasons that you do it?

Personally, I am not one for shaving but I understand that many Masters and Mistresses do have their slaves shave. (Actually the slaves I am more attracted to, shaving them and letting it grow out is far greater punishment than keeping them shaved.)

Reason I asked the question is that I have noticed reading through profiles here and on other sites an increase number of unowned gay slaves who are shaving entirely before entering into a relationship. I found this to be rather odd. Now call me Old Fashioned, or Old Guard or whatever, but I was alway under the impression that the Master shaved the house (if that was what he wanted) during the initiation ritual when he takes the slave into his house?

Also, is the shaving situation just a situation that is prevalent in the gay BDSM community?

Thanks ahead of time for replying,
Master Barth


Firstly - Welcome Barth

next, to answer your questions in order

yes, I do

yes, I do

since it is usually done at my request, I see it as an indicator of willingness to serve/obey orders

in no particular order - so she will be more 'naked' for me, so she will feel more exposed and vulnerable and sexy/slutty, to remind her of her status ( that her body is mine to do with as I will (within limits of course)), because it is a fetish of mine (love the bare floors), to enhance her pleasure during intercourse (my pubic hairs rubbing against her bare mound and clit), as a token of her submission to me ( preserving the hair in a baggie with a card written by her stating she give me her pubic hair as a token of her submission to me), dont have to worry about causing unintentional pain (pulling a hair caught in a clamp), to name a few

no, not just prevalent in the gay BDSM community or even the BDSM community at large - it has become 'fashionable' to shave - whether for personal comfort or to hide the fact that the rug doesnt match the curtains (or if you prefer the collar doesnt match the cuffs) or whatever reason

well, theres my tuppence - y'all play safe now y'hear

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/16/2004 12:17:31 PM   
MistressKiss


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Status: offline 		As a submissive, I always enjoyed being shaved by my Master, because it was a scene in itself. He would tell me during the shaving how naughty I was for not keeping myself shaved for him (although I was not allowed to shave). I have a thing about being told to do something and then being reprimanded for doing it - it's a huge turn on for me. So, while I would lay on my pedestal bed and listen to him tell me how bad I was for not shaving, and for forcing him to do it correctly for me, I would get extremely wet. It was a bit ritualistic for us. The shaving always followed with discipline - usually orgasm denial for a long while or being restrained with a vibe on my clit for a long while. It was always fun, though.

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/17/2004 12:08:08 AM   
Sinergy


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Status: offline 		I like to shave my sub primarily because when I go downtown I dont want to trek to a forest to get there...

As usual, this is just me and I could be wrong...

Sinergy

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/27/2004 2:22:46 PM   
Sinergy


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Status: offline 		This may be a bit off topic but I decided to try giving myself my own buzz cuts rather than paying somebody else to do it for me, so I bought a professional quality set of clippers.

After buzzing the big head, I gave Mr. Tiny a buzz cut too. Trying to decide whether I like the look/feel of him having been liberated from the forest.

Sinergy

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/27/2004 10:53:44 PM   
rain


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Status: offline 		After buzzing the big head, I gave Mr. Tiny a buzz cut too. Trying to decide whether I like the look/feel of him having been liberated from the forest. - Sinergy

LMAO- you really have a way with words!

Personally, although i find shaving every day a pain in the, uhm, crotch- i can't imagine ever having my pubic hair grow back....and i do feel very sexy shaved, once the razor burn subsides!

~rain~

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/28/2004 5:48:46 AM   
indigo302


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sinergy
After buzzing the big head, I gave Mr. Tiny a buzz cut too. Trying to decide whether I like the look/feel of him having been liberated from the forest.


Personally, I enjoy shaved testicles, even though I'm not a dominant. It is so much easier to enjoy being there when the road is smooth.

Besides, I've heard ...and it could be a rumor mind you...that cutting down the forest makes the rock formation look larger <g>

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/28/2004 6:05:19 AM   
Thanatosian


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quote:

Besides, I've heard ...and it could be a rumor mind you...that cutting down the forest makes the rock formation look larger <g>


That's why many porn stars trim the hedges

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/28/2004 8:59:58 AM   
DivanDaddy


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Status: offline 		On the above question - we do not, not have ever shared our submissives / slaves.

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/28/2004 9:01:01 AM   
DivanDaddy


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Status: offline 		So sorry, we meant - shaved, nor shared. We find that pubic hair is a great, great turn-on..

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/28/2004 9:20:56 AM   
Sinergy


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quote:

Besides, I've heard ...and it could be a rumor mind you...that cutting down the forest makes the rock formation look larger <g>


I believe the nickname The Rock is already used, so I am going to stick with Mr. Tiny.

Sinergy

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 5/28/2004 11:54:14 PM   
MasterZues


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Status: offline 		I have them kept shaved and it is a part of the training of keeping nothing hidden, in the female that is more prevelant as most women have always been fanatical about keeping there pussy hidden. Legs crossed, hands in lap, etc etc so it helps break down that barrier.

In slaves I have known long periods of time it is not as important and they are often allowed to grow some of it back. Until it goes to their head and they think they can start wearing pants. hehehe

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 6/4/2004 9:37:05 PM   
BlackGoddess


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Status: offline 		1. My slaves shave themselves
2. no ritual shavings
3. If a shaved sub presents himself for consideration, he gets bonus points
4. I cannot stand bushy pubic hair. 'sides, I think it reminds a male slave of his servitude. Some men think shaving is unmanly.

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 6/9/2004 9:13:39 PM   
erebus


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Status: offline 		A sub/slave should always keep herself neat, clean, and presentable.

That can be done with or without shaving, but I prefer a small or no pubic patch. I have shaved a sub and it was erotic, luckily no major blood fest.

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 6/12/2004 6:32:27 PM   
Sundew02


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Status: offline 		Personally for playing pleasure, shaved males are much preferred. As I am not a fan of bushy men, I want their face clean shaven as well. As for other body hair, that I do not involve myself with. If the hot wax leaves them with a bald patch or two, they will have to figure out if going out vanilla would be a problem for them and what to do about it. Sundew

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 7/3/2004 9:29:11 AM   
TimeReality


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I prefer both genders to be shaved while with Me. I personally feel it's very unattractive, and the reasons the hair was there have evolutionarily been removed, though the hair stays. If they come into My house (figuratively thusfar) shaved all the better! Means I don't have to go through a long drawn out process of explaining WHY I want them shaved. (Yes this happens)
I think both sexes look sexier shaved, not to mention it's less to get in the way of play, though I realize some people like to tug on the hair there, I can find other ways to amuse myself with their bodies.

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RE: Shaving your subs/slaves - 7/3/2004 10:23:15 AM   
jillwfsub4blkdom


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Status: offline 		as a submissive, i enjoyed the ritual of being shaved by my former Master. i sense a romanticism involved and an appearance of trust.

jill




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