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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 9:16:11 PM

OedipusRexIt

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ORIGINAL: bettie1959

Have to agree with the others, just block em. I had one that would send nasty mail about my hair and the need to find myself a new hairdresser! You can't be loved by everybody. Just take it with a grain of salt.

...amazing, seeing as how you have such cool hair...

no accounting for taste, is there?

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 9:18:05 PM

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Thanks for all the input....I wasn't so much upset as a bit baffled by it. I have a relatively thin skin but illiterate abuse never makes me feel that bad.

I hate arguments, philosophical or semantic, that deviate from the larger issues, so I won't be arguing with them. Thanks for letting me know it's a common problem

I like it here. I think I'll stay.

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 9:21:29 PM

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ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, god---------

look here, if I was extraordinarily literate............could you see your way clear to let me abuse you?
With my heart on my sleeve,
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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 9:24:41 PM

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SHAME! ppl need to get a life (VLS) folks are really starving for attention. they will do anything so that you notice them, as if they are so original, plz... pass me a bucket. ditto on what
findmedaddy said. there is a dom here who wont quit, he is aware that i am lesbian and that his messeges he sent me of his rape fantasy owith me is a total turn off yet he has all his o/l buddies send me lame msgs and he even started a profile here as a female now that he figured out i do not read malemail any longer. all we can do is be thankful we are not a part of the lonely/loser/empty scene they make up. shame, shame, shame.

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 9:54:47 PM

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*Fast reply* I know everyone has said hit the block button, and I have not had a lot of problems, but my favorite is just ignore. If you block they know they got to you....if you just ignore, it drives them friggin crazy. I have only had one or two, but they gave up after a while. JMHO though.

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 9:59:24 PM

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Deleting the email without ever opening it drives them nuts as well. When they check their sent mail there is a little <deleted unread> message waiting for them. I've had people create new accounts and rant at me under their new username because I wouldn't read their mail. It's pretty sad.

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 10:07:54 PM

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Looking up at thE positon of the posts I noticed that Ron (mnottertail) is sandwiched between fervid and novicecourtesan....There is no God! I know that fervid is not in search of 13 inches of pink steel.....But look at mnottertail.....gettin nasssssy....wit da ladies!

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 10:15:59 PM

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an interesting thought, and probably an entirely new thread, what is the difference between fervid and ferverant?

Is in an age thing? Discuss....

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RE: abusive messages - 2/13/2007 11:12:27 PM

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I think that yanking the wankers back sometimes just inflames them.

I've gotten tired enough of wanker wannabe stalkers to not egg them on with my own passive/aggressive reactions.

I use the same tactic that works with all crazies... I smile and don't let on that I know....

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RE: abusive messages - 2/14/2007 12:34:06 AM

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"wanker wannabe stalkers" = abuse - very well put, thats what i was trying to say, thx!

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RE: abusive messages - 2/14/2007 12:42:12 AM

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bettie1959: What is it with men sending messages to female submissives about their hair?

I must have received at least five messages about my varying hair colors, when I first posted my profile pics. They were mostly derogatory, too - insinuating my changing hair color meant I was not some crystal-white virginal personality (hey guys - the other indication of that could also be that I am on a bdsm wesbite in the first place - like Duuuh!! Like it's anyone's busines at all). Hehe.

bettie1959 - I like your hair - it's cute!

- Susan

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RE: abusive messages - 2/14/2007 1:41:36 AM

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Abusive messages...

What is it that they would like to accomplish?
meeting you, your attention, your passion, your love
or your obediance
I don't think they know what they are saying

I am a man and a strict master, but in the end it is all about respect,
we are all here to enjoy each other company and conversation on a subject that is not widly accepted in the world.
why ruin it for the people on here
(as a master i demand total obediance and respect but i also have repect)

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RE: abusive messages - 2/14/2007 5:25:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, god---------

look here, if I was extraordinarily literate............could you see your way clear to let me abuse you?
With my heart on my sleeve,
Ron

Jesus, Ron, get a room, will you?

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RE: abusive messages - 2/14/2007 6:44:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: bettie1959

Have to agree with the others, just block em. I had one that would send nasty mail about my hair and the need to find myself a new hairdresser! You can't be loved by everybody. Just take it with a grain of salt.

Not to hijack the thread, but, I saw this... somebody actually took the time to send you a nasty-gram about your HAIR? OMG... that's actually kind of funny, in a sad sort of way, I would have laughed so hard at them and the catty-ness of it all... was this a straight man? I would've saved that email for the sheer entertainment purposes...

To the OP: I've received a couple of nasty grams too, not about my hair (too bad, I could use a laugh now and again), and aslo some very persistent emails trying to tempt me away from my Master... oh, well, I am as polite as possible (use a form letter from CM that I'm unavailable) and then delete... if it's nasty enough, I block them.

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RE: abusive messages - 2/14/2007 9:15:40 AM

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Well it's the "hand on cock" theory.....Not very effective...But I understand that it has been deployed several times through out history.....Go to a club, party etc...every woman you meet you shake hands with and place their hand on yo' thang......You will undoubtedly be cursed at, slapped, covered in drinks and possibly arrested...but finally one woman will respond favorably....Same goes here!...Every single women who comes out here you paste and send a message to her telling her what a vile disgusting little sewer whore she is and how you want her to serve you.....It might take hundreds of thousands of years but one day you will get the response you are seeking.

It has worked like a charm thus far for me.....Come to Domiguy!!!......You sewer whores!!!

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RE: abusive messages - 2/17/2007 6:27:53 AM

kc692

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ORIGINAL: stef

Deleting the email without ever opening it drives them nuts as well. When they check their sent mail there is a little <deleted unread> message waiting for them. I've had people create new accounts and rant at me under their new username because I wouldn't read their mail. It's pretty sad.

~stef

I tried that today and it worked wonderfully!!!!!!!! I had a "female dominant"(maybe, maybe not on the female) ask me if I liked to perform a specific activity on myself. I replied that I thought the email was a waste of time and space, and trollish, and do not waste my time with any more emails. Of course she immediately emailed me back, to which I deleted. 5 rapid emails later after deleting all of them, I went to resend my original email (to kind of "poke" her again, as I am bored this morning) and she had blocked me, rfl. I was just amazed she tried 5 more times. Thanks for the great idea!!!

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RE: abusive messages - 2/17/2007 6:36:12 AM

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I received my first really nasty message last week from a Charles Manson look alike "dominant". I won't bore the masses with his comments, but he ended it with, "soooooooooo now I suppose I'll be getting a string of nasty emails from you ms. doormat and your alpha wolf. I'm soooooooo scared."

I deleted and blocked him, but all I could think of was what my Mother always told us about this sort of thing........ "when you respond, you're just letting them know they got to you. So the best thing you can do is to ignore them and that will bother them more than anything." Mom's know what they're talking about.