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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/15/2007 11:06:26 PM

shynewboy

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Mommy is a rather childish word, and I don't think terribly it odd we auto-associate Mommy with diapers.

Now, I'm going to make a sweeping, generalizing statement based off a generaly oblivious young mans opinion (mine). My first thought on where have all the Mommy Dommes Gone? was that most Dommes do it for the power. The societal expectation reversing, I can wear the pants! ect, sort of thing. Thus many Dommes wouldnt fit into a Mommy Domme category easily. Remember, just an opinion, so please take it with as much salt as needed.

Though I do think Mommy Dommes at all interested in diapers are one of the rarest things out there :D

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/16/2007 12:03:13 AM

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I fit a mommy type role with my sub, who I call my "brat" in the most affectionate way possible. I had not really understood the mommy or daddy relationships in BDSM until I realized that that is essential what she and I have. I can't imagine having her call me mommy, though. She calls me Mistress, because I prefer the term.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/16/2007 3:49:32 AM

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I think from this thread that most Domina's prefer to be called Mistress.
We will let the Dom's keep the Daddy name!

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/17/2007 2:10:01 AM

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greetings

they are around you just need to wait, when you see one and they are on here, write a very nice respect note when you do find her good luck

warm wishes
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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/17/2007 8:44:14 AM

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Hi thank you we need Mommy Doms!! and Woman like You!!!

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Hi. Mommy Domme here.
Ashamed? Hells no. There are very few of us, but we are here.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/17/2007 8:55:22 AM

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I think that is right. There actually is quite a few out there. Some are pros and some aren't. I think it can be said also, a great many aren't really heavy into the BD/SM side of things. Because of that, I tend to see more on other sites, rather than here. It is a pretty cool dynamic for my tastes, and have always enjoyed it.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/17/2007 9:01:27 AM

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Jumping in again:
My Mommy status didnt actually begin with the age play. That came later. In our instance at least, I am stepping in to provide some very much needed love and support. Angel's need for a Mommy now has eclipsed his need for a controlling Domme. It doesnt change the fact that he is mine, or owned. The love, support and nuturing is what was missing from his life, and I can give him that. The age play aspect, as wel as gender play, came afterwards. It became something we both enjoy, but it is not the cornerstone of our relationship.
We have a wonderful working relationship outside of the play, we spend time together as s couple. However, I am always Mommy.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/17/2007 3:41:15 PM

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>I don't know of any women that want to be called "Mommy" by their submissive.

I would absolutely love to see more "Mommy/boy" style relationships among adults in the lifestyle, like the "Daddy/girl" ones (as opposed to simple female Dom / male sub). That's my preferred for of submission, in fact (I'm a switch).

Adult baby roleplay is a different thing, and doesn't interest me.

Tristan Taormino suggested a mint-green "Mommy" hankie a few years ago, but it never took off.

Femdoms who will play with men are much rarer than female submissives who will play with men, in my experience (this may not hold true for the whole U.S., or even other countries). I think there is still a lot of gender role stuff at play, and a perception among many people that submission indicates that a man is "weak."

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 2/18/2007 7:03:57 AM

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Is this thread still around? Glad to see all the people that commented on the OP.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 3/14/2007 7:54:05 AM

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I am a domme who loves being called mommy by grown men, and making then cry like little boys over my knee. I usually work with guys (or girls) who have real behavior issues that they want to stop, and feel they need to be punished for. For this we tend to age play with the sub as school age. I have had sessions with adult babys, but I am primarily into spanking and paddling, so school-age or real-age play work best for me.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 3/14/2007 8:53:18 AM

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I think that a lot of the men think that a Domme is the same as a Mommy Dom. Mabey you should start a Mommy Dom room in the chat room and see how many takers you get.

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 3/22/2009 8:11:00 AM

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just to say in reply to the first few posted (not read the whole topic yet) I think a large reason why mummy doms are so rare on here is that if you are seeking an Adult Baby there are sites just for that so if some one wanted to find an adult baby they could go there and to a great extent take there pick as Mummy Doms are a rare thing indead on any site, I should know :P
also it is very, very rare that some one decides to be a mummy dom on there own, most are itroduced to the idea when they found out/are told there BF etc is an adult baby and some seem to like it so much they carry on looking for a new adult baby after that first relationship ends. Of course that is not the way it always happens.
Oh and seeing as the quewstion "who would want an adult baby?" you may wish to try talking to one or two as there is a little bit more to it than you may think (not trying to convert you you anything, I just think ABs get a rought time even from the BDSM world and a lot of it is dased on miss understandings)

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RE: Where are the Mommy Dom's - 3/22/2009 8:13:12 AM

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A 2 year old thread revamp. Wow.

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