RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one"

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one"

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one"

Page: << < prev 1 2 3 4 [5]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one" - 11/8/2007 6:52:14 AM

GentleLee

Posts: 88
Joined: 10/27/2007
Status: offline

In general I don't refer to myself in third person. For the reasons you mentioned, but also because I find it very poor english. How ever, sometimes my Sir tells me to do so, as a part of humilliation. Which gets me creaming every time. If it pleases him, I do it. Simple as that.

quote:

Why refer to yourself as "this one", as if you aren't that important in life?

(in reply to Arastella)

Profile

Post #: 81

RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one" - 11/8/2007 8:22:51 AM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

I think it developed as slaves are not to be focused on self.
It's about losing the big I self image, and being absorbed into your Master. It's a show of respect for your owner to write without being able to have your identity as an individual in your words.

Honestly, I don't need a speech pattern to remind me that I belong to him.

I've always viewed the third person, "girl" and "A/all" as affectations to show other people that they're the ultimate submisive. "Look, I've given up my self identity! I'm the best sub, ever!" (just my view, folks)

Bottom line, they're just words. Your speech pattern means nothing. Ultimately, your actions will always speak louder than words.

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to onestandingstill)

Profile

Post #: 82

RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one" - 11/8/2007 4:02:13 PM

dawntreader

Posts: 3045
Joined: 11/23/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I've always viewed the third person, "girl" and "A/all" as affectations to show other people that they're the ultimate submisive. "Look, I've given up my self identity! I'm the best sub, ever!" (just my view, folks)

Bottom line, they're just words. Your speech pattern means nothing. Ultimately, your actions will always speak louder than words.

Not just your view, i agree as well.

_____________________________

It is choice - not chance - that determines our destiny~
Jean Nidetch

There is a war going on for your mind...if you are thinking, you are winning~
Flobots

(in reply to OsideGirl)

Profile

Post #: 83

RE: Slaves referring to themselves as "this one" - 11/19/2007 6:49:21 PM

Mizziness

Posts: 34
Joined: 8/2/2007
Status: offline

My slave, when given the option, chose to refer to himself as "your boy" because, as he says, he likes the verbal reminder that he IS my boy. Using the third person is definitely not for everyone, and he's the only slave I have had who used the third person.

I, myself, used to see it as something that should never be done, but it makes him happy, and hearing him be so proud of being mine makes me enjoy hearing it from him. Would I want all of my slaves doing it? No! It depends on the slave.

_____________________________

"So go and lay back down tonight
Because you won't know who you are
Until you're down on your knees
And you're begging, 'Please...'"
~Evans Blue "A Cross And A Girl Named Blessed"

(in reply to MasterFireMaam)

Profile

Post #: 84