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MsKatHouston -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (2/15/2007 1:00:37 AM)

For me it's a turn on and I can orgasm from that act alone though not quite as easily as with straight sex.  I wouldn't give up straight sex in favor of anal but it sure ranks pretty high on my list.



WhiplashSmile -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (2/15/2007 5:18:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

For me it's a turn on and I can orgasm from that act alone though not quite as easily as with straight sex.  I wouldn't give up straight sex in favor of anal but it sure ranks pretty high on my list.


I heard this before that some women can have an orgasm from using a strap on on somebody.  Does this depend upon the quality or some specific feature of it? Or is it more of a mental stimulation which leads to this?



MsKatHouston -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (2/15/2007 7:09:57 AM)

I think it's mental for me.  I don't have a feeldo or other type of dual penetration dildo where I am getting a lot of direct stimulation.  It's the action and the reaction of the guy that gets me going.



WhiplashSmile -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (2/15/2007 8:58:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

I think it's mental for me.  I don't have a feeldo or other type of dual penetration dildo where I am getting a lot of direct stimulation.  It's the action and the reaction of the guy that gets me going.


Thanks for the wicked perspective and insight on this topic.



strapthischap -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 4:03:51 PM)

i would love to bend over for you. 



DianeB269 -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 4:17:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DommeChains

I love it!  It is such an act of submission and sensuality.  And so damn hot, nasty and fun lol.



I'm with you 100%...


Diane



fungasm -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 5:40:52 PM)

I think Strap Ons are more acceptable in the same way that any type of anal sex is more acceptable.  We are becoming much more accepting as a society (at least as far as sexuality goes).  I thank people like Dan Savage and his national column Savage Love, as well as Howard Stern and others who were willing to talk about this when it wasn't fashionable.

For me- I love a strap on not for the power, but for the pleasure.  When someone loves getting it, it just rocks to give it to them.

Alison



PairOfDimes -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 6:10:20 PM)

Why is it getting more popular? Because women who have sex with women, and het men who enjoy prostate stimulation are both becoming more visible. :) It can be fun, although it's not at the very top of my list.



switchsecrets -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 6:16:33 PM)

it's good to know that more women are finding enjoyment out of this. still something i'd like to try, but was always too embarrassed to admit in past relationships.



strapthischap -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 6:22:59 PM)

if i lived in new york i would be 100 percent bent right now Diane... love your group. 



DianeB269 -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 6:29:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: strapthischap

if i lived in new york i would be 100 percent bent right now Diane... love your group. 



Thank you, strap


Diane



strapthischap -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 7:50:45 PM)

you are most welcome diane. i just need to find a woman like you here.



malloves69 -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/3/2007 9:08:57 PM)

love strapon play [:)]  i think submitting to a woman whos wearing a big strapon is a amazing exchange of power bending over for her ..love fisting too ..i think being fisted is more erotic and personal actually having a part of her body inside of you ..how much more vulnerable can a guy get into being fisted by a woman ? love a lady in control [:)]  mal



AnalVirginSub -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 8:28:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: fungasm

I think Strap Ons are more acceptable in the same way that any type of anal sex is more acceptable.  We are becoming much more accepting as a society (at least as far as sexuality goes).  I thank people like Dan Savage and his national column Savage Love, as well as Howard Stern and others who were willing to talk about this when it wasn't fashionable.

For me- I love a strap on not for the power, but for the pleasure.  When someone loves getting it, it just rocks to give it to them.

Alison


It is wonderful to see that it can be about sex too  :-)



sublezzie -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 11:52:59 AM)

For myself it is an ultimate sign of submission.  If someone is using a strap on (especially from behind) I feel a surge of control being given to that person, for me it is a very effective reminder of my sub status.



strapthischap -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 12:53:50 PM)

i agree malloves69...the power exchange is very amazing



chiaThePet -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 2:28:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kyang777

I have a feeling that more and more people, even regular couples are into strap on dildo practices.


Yeah it's no secret, Diane gets around.

chia* (the pet) 



Jill805 -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 2:50:43 PM)

It's HOT...........



YesMistressIrish -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 3:38:24 PM)

MM..mm...mmm strap-on.
 
My harness fits me just perfectly, so my clit gets just the right amount of perfect pressure and I can cum when 'doing' someone.
 
So, for me it's the power, the sensations, and just feeling that great dildo, seeing it, touching it and using it like a man would, well, it is so damn sexy!! It never gets soft, I can be as sensuous as I want to, or just plain nasty!
 
I walk around the house with it on sometimes, just for fun.
 
This is me sharing. I am not trying to 'posture'. I really do love my cock! lol.



switchsecrets -> RE: Why Strap on is getting more and more popular, even in 'main stream'? (9/4/2007 7:52:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

MM..mm...mmm strap-on.
 
My harness fits me just perfectly, so my clit gets just the right amount of perfect pressure and I can cum when 'doing' someone.
 
So, for me it's the power, the sensations, and just feeling that great dildo, seeing it, touching it and using it like a man would, well, it is so damn sexy!! It never gets soft, I can be as sensuous as I want to, or just plain nasty!
 
I walk around the house with it on sometimes, just for fun.
 
This is me sharing. I am not trying to 'posture'. I really do love my cock! lol.


a win-win situation! a good part of the excitement is knowing she's enjoying too.



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