LadyHugs
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Dear LadyEllen, Ladies and Gentlemen;
In reference to your post #7, in short you wondered how one could spank really hard and not leave any marks. If memory serves me, I had answered another about spanking and should be in Archives here on Collarme.com.
There are several 'hands' per se, which can be used. It is the rigid hand that leaves marks rather then a flexible hand. Even how the fingers are positioned can make a difference. In warming up a 'bottom's bottom' I favor the 'skip stroke' as to relax the buttocks and the slave. When a person tightens their bum, it will cause more marks and discomfort but, if warmed up it is a increase in tempo and energy the body can adjust without being prone to marking.
When an avid spankee is 'leathered' which means having increased the ability to register pain/discomfort and their skin and body as a whole moves out of virgin sensitivities of spanking, they can take more but, it also requires consistancy. In leathering/conditioning the body it requires consistancy. This applies to caning, flogging, spanking, genital torture and the like.
Although a cane can produce marks at the first stroke--it is often the case the person is using the cane as a baseball bat/tennis racket and putting full weight, speed and force into that first stroke. Nothing artful about it. I have been able to cane with three fingers and only enough energy as holding an envelope, using the other fingers to clap my palm and get intense results. In using 'tipping' as a technique, I do show that the cane does not need to hurt or mark. Using nerve bundles or the human's electrical system, I can use canes with little weight, speed or force, no marks and get the results others have to beat out of someone, thus instilling fear and hate towards caning.
Those wishing to read on the techniques of caning, are welcome to Google my name, Lady Hugs Caning. It is the same similar technique I use for spanking however the description of the hands are differently but the strokes are 'kin' to what I use in spanking, paddling and caning.
Excerpt on "Spanking 101" Lady Hugs author ©righted 2005
The “Strokes.” These strokes are offered as described and taught by those who specialize in “Spanking Clubs” in Europe, to which were peppered throughout and most high societies had for polite ladies and gentlemen. These strokes are not “new” inventions but old ways of doing things.
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The “Passive Hand,” stroke is much like a very limp and loose hand. Like most people who go onto the playground and “dribble” a basketball on the playground when not in play. It is relaxed and with follow through with a loose, fluid and soft hand. Only the lightest touch is required to maintain the control of the basketball. Therefore, in identical manner the “Passive Hand” falls purposefully onto the crown of the buttocks and or peak of the buttocks cheek, then lifted with a relaxed and limp wrist. This is also a warm up stroke, to which can be used in an upward stroke under the breasts, buttocks and male genitals.
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The “Skip Stroke,” also known as the “Scoop Stroke,” is when the hand skips along the surface of the body, such as skipping a rock across the water or if sliding two hand symbols against each other in a parade. It is a curved stroke, to which the hand is passive and much like turning on and off a light switch skims across the crown of the buttocks, upwards on the genitals.
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The “Splay Hand,” which I would describe as your fingers as far apart from each other but remaining comfortable in it is spread. This gives an entirely different sensation as well as spreads the impact across more of the slave’s body.
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The “Closed Hand” is as described. Closed fingers but not as tight and rigid as to become a paddle. It really the best fit of a description would be the hand at rest and relaxed position and not a fist. Most parents spank their children with such a hand “style” of which most people instinctively use when spanking.
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The “Cupped Hand,” is a very interesting hand position. By cupping your hand, as if to scoop something and your hand is like a little shovel scoop, this position gives another sensation entirely. This is recommended for spanking over body jewelry and or piercing, avoiding contact with a previous injury and or genitals. It allows a hollow to where there can be a body displacement upon impact. This also would be a breast friendly stroke as well as male testicle and cock friendly.
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The “Flat Hand,” to which is a rigid hand that acts more like a paddle then a hand. This is one of the harshest of strokes and would not be seen used anywhere other than the buttock, on the back shoulders area and rarely upon the male chest. This stroke can interrupt a person’s heartbeat on the chest area much like a punch, so it is highly recommended to stay on the buttocks --Period!
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The “Hit and Lift” stroke. Probably the instinctive stroke in spanking, paddling and caning you will find around the globe. Once the touch to the target the hand, paddle and or cane is immediately lifted. By doing this the heat of the pain from the strike will dissipate and slightly radiate from the target site.
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The “Hit and Hold” stroke. This stroke is when you hit the buttocks or targeted area and hold it against the skin, not lifting it for a few moments. By holding the hand without lifting, the warmth is maintained and amplified, to which sends the heat more widespread and deeper. This holds true with paddles and canes -- not just hand spanking.
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The “Hit and Slide” stroke. In striking the target site and then slide across, the sensation will feel as if the hand has impacted and heat radiates yet, when it is sliding immediately after the strike, feels like skin is melting and sliding in the direction of the hand sliding off their buttocks. I would not advise this stroke to be used anywhere but the buttocks and maybe a person’s back shoulder area. This stroke is hard to perfect as a spanking stroke however, it is wonderful for paddles and better yet with canes. It is even more profound if there is a textured cane, as the heated skin will feel the texture and will be as if someone is pulling string through a buttonhole.
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The “Hit and Pull” stroke. Now, this stroke can only be used in spanking bare handedly. When the hand strikes the target site the hand is lifted and fingers come together as pulling or gathering items in the tips of the finger. This gentle draw of fingers inwardly gives the sensation of the skin being pulled, yet the dominant’s fingers will be empty.
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The “Punch Stroke,” is when the fist is balled up as to “punch” a site. This should not be used unless the slave is very aware of this stroke. This should not be used anywhere other than the muscled area of the chest, not directly on breasts (male or female), on the muscled part of the upper back and the buttocks cheeks at their crown. The dominant must never wear rings or other jewelry on their hands or fingers with this stroke. It would be a good idea not to wear jewelry period for spanking period.
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The “Pound Stroke,” is the area of the side of the hand, along the little finger and ridge of the hand to the wrists. Not exactly, like a Karate Chop but a balled fist but using the side of the fist.
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The “Back Hand” stroke is exactly that. The back of the hand and relaxed. Again, no jewelry on the fingers. This is especially important for women to remember, with their settings more often are high and off the finger can be crushed, loosing a stone and most importantly will puncture the body of the slave.
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As a Spanker, I use the coloring of the Spankee's bottom as a guage for my duration, intensity and marking. It is also dependent on a person's ethnicity to which the skin's ability to resist marks also applies. Fair skin and blue eyed individuals seem to mark the quickest.
Although in the Spanking 101, I cover more--like gloves and using textures, etc., a Spanker can really provide a wonderful scene and wonderful results.
As Dominants, we have three basic powers--the mind, the voice and the touch. Everything else is an extention of these three powers.
So, in addition to spanking, pinching in between can be done, holding the skin taunt with one hand and spank with the other; pinch a buttock and squeeze then spank the exposed crown made from the pinch. So many creative ways to spank, it can be it's own book.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
< Message edited by LadyHugs -- 2/17/2007 6:04:27 PM >
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