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beltainefaerie -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 12:21:15 PM)
I really want to use a stap-on, but my Love just looks at me with horrified, scard eyes. (A look I kinda enjoy, but since he's not submissive to me, I don't get to do anything about.)

happypervert -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 12:25:47 PM)
quote: However, the fact that he posts so frequently in threads about activities he claims to abhor (even though he claims to have never actually tried them) makes many people wonder about his true feelings and why he might be denying them so vehemently. Or as Shakespeare once wrote: "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." In this case, methinks it means the lady doth wants a stiff cock up her ass.

onestandingstill -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 1:00:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: openmindedslave I was woundering how many have actually tried to train them selves ofr the big guns.What I mean is do most who do strap on play , preety much stay with one size in play or is there like a display of differnt sizes and your subjects train to take on the biggest ones? And also , does any one have any special names for their strap on's . Like calling it "Oh Hell" ,after what your slave calls it after its inserted lol Yes there's ass training that's done to take insertables or you'll rip if someone starts with big guns on you. I was a full anal virgin when I started this path of submission 2/24/05. Since that time I've moved beyond the little insertables as big as your finger hurting me. I'm not doing much anal so I'm sure if you trained more than once in a while you may be moving onto bigger things faster than me. So far I'm only up to a human cock sized toy, but MAN DOES IT BURN LIKE HELL GOING IN. LOL that's as big guns as I've gotten. I've got this phobia I'll have rectum incontinence if I ever reach the point I could take a fist, but have not known any one who takes a fist to ask yet.. Over all I just wanted to say there's definitely anal training necessary to be able to train your asshole to take big guns without ripping you apart. suzanne

onestandingstill -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 1:02:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia Hello onestandingstill, I never realized we are neighbors! *waving hello* from the Southern end of the county. Hello Neighbor Maam, You've got mail :). suzanne

stef -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 3:27:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert Or as Shakespeare once wrote: "The lady doth protest too much, methinks." In this case, methinks it means the lady doth wants a stiff cock up her ass. Not while I'm at work, dear [;)] ~stef

BalletBob -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 4:31:18 PM)
Well just a little. It's too small to smack at times, and my Butt Plugs make me sit partway on a seat, unless a Mistress tells me to sit all the way, for the torment. HA HA HA I guess it goes with my "Little Boy". At least not many people see it, and won't laugh, like when I took a physical for the DRAFT, way long time ago. It does "WAKE UP" when it has to though. How good are you with a Riding Crop? LMCLAO I am much better with my Fingers (Massage, whatever) than at cleaning, though MADAM didn't have any complaints about my Maid Service. Sincerly, Sub BalletBob

openmindedslave -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 4:40:43 PM)
you know that is a great observation by onestandingstill...its always discussed when you talk about play and strap ons, but what happens when the pain goes away. Is there any other side effects ? I remember hearing someone saying that before that fisting can actually make you so stretched out that you can't hold it in any longer? Are there any permant problems that can arrise form play? Other than a bad first experience.

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 4:47:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beltainefaerie I really want to use a stap-on, but my Love just looks at me with horrified, scard eyes. (A look I kinda enjoy, but since he's not submissive to me, I don't get to do anything about.) I have loaned my subs out to females who wanna try using a strapon on a guy for the first time. Diane.

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 4:49:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: openmindedslave you know that is a great observation by onestandingstill...its always discussed when you talk about play and strap ons, but what happens when the pain goes away. Is there any other side effects ? I remember hearing someone saying that before that fisting can actually make you so stretched out that you can't hold it in any longer? Are there any permant problems that can arrise form play? Other than a bad first experience. Not one of my subs have had any problems holding it after years of strapon play. Diane

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 5:29:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia I am curious, I see MILLIONS of posts mainly from submissives about the JOYS of strap-ons. Are there any submissive's around that do not like strap-ons? I am curious. Maybe I will get 1 poster that does not like them. Men? we all know you love strap-ons, no need to tell us any time soon. Thank you. i would never consider this activity since i am a very very straight man. does not sound very interesting at all. None of my subs are gay or bi! Diane

BalletBob -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 5:33:52 PM)
Diane, Do you have a seperate Strap on for each Sub, or use a condom? Do you have some subs that can take a larger one, than another sub? Sitting Empty Butted and Very Curious and Jelious, Sub BalletBob

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 5:43:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BalletBob Diane, Do you have a seperate Strap on for each Sub, or use a condom? Do you have some subs that can take a larger one, than another sub? Sitting Empty Butted and Very Curious and Jelious, Sub BalletBob I own 28 strapons (last count) Yes, each sub has 3 or 4 strapons that I only use on him. I always use condoms on all strapons and wash them after each session too. I do not take chances. Diane

Cedwen -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 5:49:35 PM)
I tie my subs down over the end of the bed. Ankles straps with ropes attatcked then tied to the wheels at the base of the beds end. Wrists similarly held above their head to the bed head or other bed wheels. Gaged and blindfolded My sub likes been tied down at my mercy. It started out as a caning or whipping position till one day I introduced him to the dildo. He did not know what was going to happen till he felt the dildo penetrating him. It hurt him like hell the first few times . He bled the first time like a virgin should But he submited himself again in a few days not knowing what was going to happen, Scared of what might happen Did not do it next time he was punished. The following session I took him again and again. Eventualy he began to like being taken in this manner. I recently bought a double ended dildo so I could enjoy my self while seeing him suffer. He is my husband and sub. Before I became his Domme he used to take me from behind. Now I am incharge its I that take him as I choose. Its the only way he gets sex now. When and how I want it,

DianeB269 -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 5:57:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cedwen I tie my subs down over the end of the bed. Ankles straps with ropes attatcked then tied to the wheels at the base of the beds end. Wrists similarly held above their head to the bed head or other bed wheels. Gaged and blindfolded My sub likes been tied down at my mercy. It started out as a caning or whipping position till one day I introduced him to the dildo. He did not know what was going to happen till he felt the dildo penetrating him. It hurt him like hell the first few times . He bled the first time like a virgin should But he submited himself again in a few days not knowing what was going to happen, Scared of what might happen Did not do it next time he was punished. The following session I took him again and again. Eventualy he began to like being taken in this manner. I recently bought a double ended dildo so I could enjoy my self while seeing him suffer. He is my husband and sub. Before I became his Domme he used to take me from behind. Now I am incharge its I that take him as I choose. Its the only way he gets sex now. When and how I want it, Spreader bars are also fun..... Diane

MzMia -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/15/2007 8:03:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cedwen I tie my subs down over the end of the bed. Ankles straps with ropes attatcked then tied to the wheels at the base of the beds end. Wrists similarly held above their head to the bed head or other bed wheels. Gaged and blindfolded My sub likes been tied down at my mercy. It started out as a caning or whipping position till one day I introduced him to the dildo. He did not know what was going to happen till he felt the dildo penetrating him. It hurt him like hell the first few times . He bled the first time like a virgin should But he submited himself again in a few days not knowing what was going to happen, Scared of what might happen Did not do it next time he was punished. The following session I took him again and again. Eventualy he began to like being taken in this manner. I recently bought a double ended dildo so I could enjoy my self while seeing him suffer. He is my husband and sub. Before I became his Domme he used to take me from behind. Now I am incharge its I that take him as I choose. Its the only way he gets sex now. When and how I want it, Goodness! As it should be!

BalletBob -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/18/2007 7:15:31 PM)
Well Now. Why aren't there any nice Ladies, like Cedwen, Diane and MxMia in southern New Jersey? Cedwen, your story braught back some Fond Memories, but other things happened while Tied to the Bed, Gaged and Blindfolded. Oh Well, guy can dream.....or is it Fantasize? Sincerly, Sub BalletBob

freakgoddess -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/19/2007 12:40:15 AM)
hopefully not every male sub obsesses about playing with plastic toys that give me no sexual gratification whatsoever. although, granted, it does seem like it sometimes.

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/19/2007 12:57:43 AM)
The truth? 1) I am tiny and my submissives are usually big strong blokes. I feel like a poodle trying to mount a German Shepherd. Even if I manage to get the slippery thing up there (without getting lube and shit all over my hands!), I inevitably lose the condom somewhere.......it does not work well for my Domme head space!! 2) However, strap-ons are a great fashion accessory to wear to fetish balls, play parties and the like. I get a queue of boys wanting to touch my "dick". It takes very little prodding to convince them to get on their knees and suck it 3) Being taken from behind is one of those fantasies that can be a disaster in reality. 4) You can only bang away for so long and yell "yee hah!" so many times before it all gets a bit boring. After all, I don't have any nerve endings in my rubber dick. My sub has to really, REALLY love anal play to keep me interested more than a few minutes. 5) Anal play (like all BDSM) is meant to be fun. I know many men who will not let me anywhere NEAR their arse due to a painful scene gone wrong with an inept "Domme". Severe anal tearing, bleeding and infection is a nice fantasy - but make sure you know the difference between fantasy and reality. 6) Strap on play like any anal play is not "gay" if you are doing it with a member of the opposite sex. It can be delicious sensation play if you start slow, stretch properly, use enough lube and keep clean and disease free (condoms) - but good luck getting all that right!

Unrepentant1 -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/19/2007 1:55:34 PM)
A woman after my own heart, makes my heart beat faster, lol.

GuidingLite -> RE: Strap On Strap OFF, subs begging for strap-on chat (2/19/2007 2:16:07 PM)
:laugh: :laugh: YA HA!!! alll rightie then! :rolleyes: Raise your hand if you DONT like arse play. EVERYONE DOES.

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