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follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 10:35:43 AM   
wantedownership


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Status: offline 		hello dear ladys,

last night i have an strange online-show where a couple look at me to check me on if Im possible slave for them.
and they order me to make an little dangerrous show.
they order me to suck and fuck a gun in front of the cam.

i was not sure to make this.

my understanding of my job is, that i must follow all orders...but Im not sure.

what would you say?

thanks for your help.
jan
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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 10:41:26 AM   
MistressFeathers


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Status: offline 		ok. here's my advice.
1. just turn off the cam/window and ignore them.
2. go for a lay down - you are obviously over excited.
or 3. just remember to take the safety off.

hth

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 10:41:35 AM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		I'd say what I've said the whole two years I'm online. I don't web cam, I don't own one, and till I'm owned and it's required of me it's still my choice to just not have one or use it.
I'd also say to you fucking your ass with a loaded gun is very dangerous and way risky of them to ask you while you were home alone, I'd pass on them in a flash.
suzanne

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 10:52:48 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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Status: offline 		This isn't the military.  You will not be courtmarshalled if you don't follow orders you deem to be dangerous or violate your ethics.

Alternatively, the gene pool does need some chlorine.

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 10:54:45 AM   
TrueCalling


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Status: offline 		Obey orders of two people you dont know from a hole in the wall? If this is not a joke, i hope you offered the gun to them, wished them well..and said goodnight. Common sense, i pray..prevails..

Bang, Bang!!
colleen

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< Message edited by TrueCalling -- 2/15/2007 11:07:12 AM >

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 11:05:49 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		Gun play is typically considered dangerous because of the potential for accident resulting in death.  I'm not going to play danger police here but if you have no skill with guns, you have no business playing with them for any reason.  If you do know about guns and this is a hard limit, then you just say no.  Do you want to be owned by someone who goes from zero to gun play without a first meet even?  You can do what you want but I would suggest meeting people in real life before committing to obeying anything.  You have no obligation to do anything when you are unowned.  Even if you are owned you have an obligation to yourself to keep yourself safe.

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 11:10:03 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Following the orders of anyone you aren't owned by or in training to (I personally do not consider online training to be training as I mean it above), is foolish.

To me that would be a clear signal that you are not mature enough to be my slave.

Following orders that risk your life when you are owned shows me that you didn't spend enough time to find an owner who actually values you very much.

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 1:52:18 PM   
wantedownership


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Status: offline 		dear lady kate,

thank you for your information.
i can say you, that i can handle guns, its not new for me to work with them.
so i understand you right, that than i have to follow these orders?

my understand if testing is also, that a prospective owner can go from zero to ...,
its not my choice, i think.

jan

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 1:54:17 PM   
wantedownership


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Status: offline 		dear colleen,

no, its not a joke.
so thats the reaoson why i ask here in the forum.

jan

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 1:55:39 PM   
wantedownership


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Status: offline 		dear tammy,

i understand what you mean and thanks for your respons also tammy.

jan

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 1:58:14 PM   
wantedownership


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Status: offline 		dear lady suzanne,

yes, i know its dangerrous, thats the reason why they want that.
they say, i have to serve in a high-risk-level.
my understanding is also that i have to do that, but Im not sure and so i wanna know what others in the forum say to that.

jan

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 2:06:16 PM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		You asked if you had to follow the orders.  I think the general consensus is no you do not have to.  You may choose to.  If so, then gun play should probably not be on you list of limits.  However, if it is, do you really want to be with someone who would push that limit, especially so early?  You don't even know these people, correct?

They may ask you to do just about anything.  But you have every right to refuse if it goes against your personal comfort level.  If it does not, then you would probably not be asking.  But, you should be just as concerned (if not more so) with finding a dominant who is right for YOU as being the submissive they would like. 

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 3:25:58 PM   
wantedownership


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Status: offline 		dear lady kate,

yes, thats sure, im not absolutly sure...that was the reason why i ask.
my wishing is that i must live in fear (and i know, the most people dont agree with me in this point).
i have a special understanding of this and so i was not sure, if prospective owners would be deterred, if they order and i make all, also without knowing them, and so i wanna see, how other dominated people think about this.

you have help me a little, but the most here say really clear, if a (special thinking) slave like me, really must do it or not.

jan

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 3:34:03 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear wantedownership, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
In the Leather Community where this fad of 'gun' scenes cropped in as extreme--it has been denounced as being too risky.
 
I would not support such behavior as a Dominant and nor would I ever be so casual and or reckless with guns.  Fake or not, it sends a wrong message should it pass beyond privacy expected.  The community, the lifestyle, we in general really don't need more negative press.
 
Furthermore, I wouldn't wish my slave to think that he isn't worth some dignity and safety.  But, that is just me.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 4:45:50 PM   
razzberries


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wantedownership
my wishing is that i must live in fear (and i know, the most people dont agree with me in this point).
i have a special understanding of this and so i was not sure, if prospective owners would be deterred, if they order and i make all

Yes, this is your desire and I know you want to impress prospective owners with your readiness to obey.  But owners will be more impressed if you value who they are.  If you submit to anyone who claims to be dominant, then your willingness to please is cheapened.  You can't honor them if you don't care who they are.

Bottom line: form a relationship before you offer up your soul.

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 4:49:03 PM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		My personal opinion is that they weren't realtime.  They were either just looking for amusement or something to masturbate to.  Many submissives unfortunately get abused in that way.

On a side note, you do NOT have to obey all orders until you consent to belong to them.  Until that time, you are not required to always obey all orders.

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 4:58:41 PM   
hereyesruponyou


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Status: offline 		I assume if you had a gun handy to satisfy this request that you must have some knowledge and comfort using them. BUT please do not feel so desperate for approval from people you don't even know to do something that makes you uncomfortable. It's one thing to push your limits, but quite another to do something stupid and dangerous just for someone elses enjoyment (personal opinion only). 
 
I don't do cams. I have no real desire to watch anyone on their cam, other than in a fairly vanilla way to see someone before meeting. I'm more likely to agree to cam with someone i think will be my friend than to cam with someone who only has playmate only potential.

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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 5:03:12 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Ja, Heil Hitler just in case we lose.

Since you have some knowledge of guns, and even if you don't it should be trivial to insure it is unloaded, then your risk is confined to chipping a tooth or getting the scope stuck in your ass when you try to pull it out....WD 40 should handle that---

Let's not everybody flip out over a metal machine, we still use metal machines everyday.....not everything is plastic.......

Lighten up, for the trolls.

Ron


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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 5:35:07 PM   
wantedownership


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Since you have some knowledge of guns, and even if you don't it should be trivial to insure it is unloaded, then your risk is confined to chipping a tooth or getting the scope stuck in your ass when you try to pull it out....

hi ron,

yes i know, but the point was, that they want that the gun was loadet,
and that have make it dangerrous.

jan


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RE: follow dangerrous orders - 2/15/2007 5:48:28 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Is it friggin April Fool's already????Hell I thought it was just past Valentine's Day!!

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