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Ok... Angel's turn

I have seen posts on tollerence and intollerence, and the tollerant are weak, the intollerent, just bolshy know it alls.

I enjoy visiting this forum... why? Because I can, because I can add my views(with or without disclaimers), because on on the whole, I have never had a problem about the way this site is moderated. I think the Mods do a great job. And no, I am not a suck up, neither am I a Mod myself, nor do I know any personally... just so your aware. I will just say things as I see it.

If I don't agree with what a post says, then I will place over my point of view. Not to condescend it or the poster, not to chase them away for their thoughts. But because I have a voice and can use it.

If I see a flame and I believe that the flame was wrong, I have as much right as the flamer, to post that I see differently.

If I make a statement about my beliefs, and someone dislikes or takes offense to my opinion and flames me, or makes a reply, then I welcome it. Doesn't make their view right for me... but I learn more about that person because of it. They have learnt about me too, even if they would not realise it.

Do I become affected because someone would label me? Well, everytime, yes. Everything we say or do, effects people. To think it doesn't would be naive.

Power. Whether we like it or not people how power over everyone. How I talk/type/write has power over even the Dominants here(shock horror)... We can accept that this power exists, or deny it can effect us. I would never deny that it cannot effect me. What I can and do accept is that I don't have to submit to it.

I could bathe in the power that I have. I could nausiatingly(is that a word?) glide through my life, knowing what is right, morally, what is good... or bad,bad,bad. But whats the point? I could take that moral high ground, but It would bring nothing but pain.

Cheating. Morally wrong? Depends upon who and what you are. Depends on the situation. Depends upon the cheat involved.

Hate. Morally wrong? Depends on who your hating, surely? I mean... don't we have a right to hate a man who kills thousands? Or that woman who just killed an unborn child? Or that teenager who just kicked in the head of that old man who lives down the street from us? What makes our 'hate'... so much more moral?

Pain... OMGosh... how could anyone like someone who finds satisfaction in causing someone pain? Their partner likes it? Urgh... how disgusting... must be a bit mental if you ask me...

Poly relationships? Why? Isn't one person enough? God, I mean... isn't it a bit egotistical for someone to want more than one lover/wife/slave/sub.......?

He wears ladies clothes? FREAKY! Why can't he just accept what he is?

Dominant? What makes Him so high and mighty?

Submissive? Fucking Doormat.

Slave? Nawwwww.... in this day an age, it don't exist. Anyone with a slave, must be an abuser.

Commited suicide? Selfish tosser. What about the family they have left behind? The children? The wife?

In a BDSM relationship and have children??? God those kids must be in danger....

Gay and want a baby? How can two men bring up a child? Child needs a mother... or does it? Doesn't a child need a loving, stable relationship more?

See Angels point? It's all around. You can agree and disagree. But its personal choice. BDSM isn't safe.... it isnt sane... but neither is life.

But unlike life, it is consensual. But life has a horrible way of getting into our safe little 'Lifestyle' doesn't it?