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tattoos? - 3/14/2005 5:49:06 AM   
subbiejenn


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Hi Hi

i want a tattoo but just can't find anything that really does it for me *sad face* -- i want something meaningful -- something i wont get tired of -- something small and hidden.

any suggestions?

what tattoos do you have and why did you choose it?

ever get a tattoo and then wish you hadn't?

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 6:59:19 AM   
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subbiejenn,
My advice to you is to think long and hard about what it is that you want as it is going to be a part of you....FOREVER! I have four....all are original works of art and will not be found on another human being I have an Irish Claddagh surrounded by shamrocks on my calf to state my pride in my Irish heritage. I have flowers backed by some Celtic designs on my breast....hand drawn. I have two fairies on my back....one on my low back and one on a shoulder. They are derived from one of my favorite fairy artists with changes made to make them originally mine.

I don't generally recommend that someone walk into a tattoo studio and pick a piece of flash off of the wall and say I want this...unless you really don't care that a thousand other people may sport the same tattoo. If you do choose a piece of flash, I would personally have some changes made to it to make it more original. The only other suggestion that I have is that when you choose, try to choose something that says something about you. You can look at my tattoos and say."Yeah....those fit erin".

Also, when you go to get one, don't rush down to the local tattoo parlor and take the first appointment open. Look through the portfolios....choose the style of tattooist that appeals to you...go to lots of places before you decide....sit and watch them work on someone. Those things will assure you that you will be happy with the result and that you will get what you want.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 8:28:29 AM   
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quote:

My advice to you is to think long and hard about what it is that you want as it is going to be a part of you....FOREVER!


perfect advice.

I have one tattoo on my inner ankle of my absolute favorite childhood character. It reminds me that I still have that playful nature and not to forget it. I am considering another one that I want to represent my adult outlook on my life, but am still wavering between what i want the design to be, so until I have it for certain I keep putting it off. Good luck in your quest and keep us posted.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 9:52:15 AM   
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Good advise erin :)

I checked out 4 artists before I decided on one. My decision was based on his portfolio, the studio and a recommendation from a former client.

My tat was designed by my submissive and it was done on my lower back 4 weeks ago :)

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 10:33:13 AM   
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well, you've seen mine ;) I ADORE it and have been waiting forever to get it.

I think that tattoos need to be very personal, which is one of the many reasons I waited so long to do mine.

Small and hideable...well, no ideas as to design, but I like the placing of mine- in the middleof my back between my shoulder blades. If it'd been the size I originally intended (1 or 2x 1 or2) instead of what it is (5x5) it would be -very- easily hideable. As it is, it's not viisble in anything that I'd wear to work.

Maybe look into your heritage for a design?

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 3:24:39 PM   
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I totally agree with mystoferin (gotta quit that)
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My advice to you is to think long and hard about what it is that you want as it is going to be a part of you....FOREVER!

It took me 46 years to decide, but none of mine will ever be seen on the wall as flash. My most meaningful one is the one I have on my left upper arm, half a phoenix with half the BDSM emblem, which matches perfectly with the other half, the tat on Shifted Jewel. On the same tat we have the others name with "Forever bound" and shackles. Is that wise...most would say NO...never put a name on you. I would say for most this is valid advice (OK, so I don't mind well..a Dom thing). But yes, be sure you know your artist and his work. Mine, he used to work for me so I know him well (and am still paying him...that's odd).
If I had one suggestion, for your first, should you decide to go through with it..take a couple ibuprofin before going..might make the tension flinches easier..lol. No..it doesn't hurt that bad, hell most of us like pain so that's not an issue, but it is a different feeling. Lastly...here's one I would like to see someone try to debate..IT IS habit forming. You will suddenly be going...Gotta have INK..lmao. Be prepared for that little quirk.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 3:29:02 PM   
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No..it doesn't hurt that bad, hell most of us like pain so that's not an issue, but it is a different feeling. Lastly...here's one I would like to see someone try to debate..IT IS habit forming


I giggled all the way through mine...that was the hardest part was trying to stop the giggles....it feels just like someone tickling your lip to me. and I will not debate their addictiveness....as I am currently working on #5

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 4:59:23 PM   
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LOL..Shifted was the worst..she actually fell asleep when getting a couple of them done. Nothing that will get a tat artist laughing like hearing a snore..lmao.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 4:59:34 PM   
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Tattoos are addictive, and orgasmic. I crawl up in the chair and simply moan "Innnnnnnkkkkkkkkkkkkk". Tattoos are something that you either love or hate. Theres really no in between.

I have beautiful tattoos, most all in roses and vines and the BDSM symbol. People who dont know what it is, think Im some sort of rose freak. People who do, recognize it immediately.

Do I worry about the tattoos? I didnt at first. Im more concerned now as I step back out into the vanilla world in search of employment. Because mine are hideable only by long sleeves, this is a concern.

Would I do it again? In a heartbeat. Any regrets? Only that I didnt start getting them earlier and that completion of my right arm will now have to be put on hold.

Best of luck in your search. My recommendation for WHAT to get is simple. Pick something you LOVE. And find an artist who has a flare for creativity and let Him/Her loose on you.

Tattoos are art forms. Nothing will ever convince me otherwise!!!

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RE: tattoos? - 3/14/2005 6:25:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash


Lastly...here's one I would like to see someone try to debate..IT IS habit forming. You will suddenly be going...Gotta have INK..lmao. Be prepared for that little quirk.


Absolutely. I started with one...took me forever to finally do it...I'm talking 15 years of thinking about it! After the first one I got 3 in the next 4 years...My friends threatened to do an intervention. ::laughing::

I have yet to meet someone with a tat who said they would never get another.

I hunted hard for each of my designs, using art books, the internet, etc...I refuse to ever go near flash. My next ink will be semi-designed by me and drawn by a friend. The idea of carrying the art of someone I love on my skin forever just appeals to me.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/15/2005 10:38:47 AM   
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i'm getting my first ever today...i'm a lil nervous...Master wants me to get a chain link around my finger, where the wedding band goes and the word * slave * on it...that's the part that i could do without...in a vanilla world having the name slave tattooed on my finger just worries me. i can later cover it up with the wedding band and all, but i am sure my friends and family will ask questions since i am sure they will eventually see it.



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RE: tattoos? - 3/15/2005 10:39:43 AM   
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Hey Jenn!

My first one i got in 1985 was pegasus on my right anklem then i got a cloud and a lightening bolt on my left back shoulder, then i got a mountain and water fall scene with birds and a sunrise on my right fron shoulder, i still want one more a calla lilly wrapping my left breast. Then i saw these cute paw prints and added it to the cloud and lightening bolt one where you see the tracks and then under the lightening bolt is a sizzle as if he got fried. lol I know i am whacked, but i love mine. and the piercings and want more of them all.

I played with someone once and he left a mark and now i have an M on my stomach. So i may eventually tattoo that whole thing over if it doesnt fade. you have to like the picture and if it means something to you then thats what you get.



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RE: tattoos? - 3/16/2005 1:18:04 PM   
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You should think long and hard before you get a tattoo. I have several and each and everyone mean something to me. Either something special that happened in my life, like the birth of my daughter or my divorce. When you get something on your body, it is apart of you, forever! Your body is your art work, make it you, your body and your soul.

I wish you luck!

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RE: tattoos? - 3/16/2005 5:45:40 PM   
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Hello Jenn,

Aw, don't be all freaked by some of these posts. If you want a tattoo
find one you really like and for the first one put it somewhere that
if you want to you can hide it. Then you can also see if it is something
you would like to do esle-where on your body.

I say "Go For It Girl!"

Have Fun....~Sterling


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RE: tattoos? - 3/17/2005 6:22:39 AM   
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Hi sis! So now you are thinking of a tattoo--how are the nipple rings? I do not have either--I just can't commit to permanent marks. My sister, Alana, has many tattoos and would love to get a dolphin, she tells me. Maybe she'll post some advice. I think tattoos do become addictive. If you decide on a certain design, come on down and see me and my boss will take you to her favorite tattoo parlor.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/17/2005 6:29:30 AM   
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Hi subbiejen,

i agree with the other posts, they are highly addictive!!!!!

i have a rose on my shoulder with RIP DAD

a purple rose on my ankle just because i thought it was pretty!

a little indian child squatting on my hip, the tatt is a back view of this because it reminded me of my daughter when she was little

a rather large dragon and castle hip to mid thigh cause i love dragons :)
the top part of the tattoo (which is a black starry sky) was a cover-up of a tattoo that i had gotten for an exboyfriend. Well... when he ditched me, i ditched the tatt and got it incorporated into the rest.
i have joked with the kids to use the potato peeler and remove it when i die

i want to get "spank me" on my bottom....but Master wont let me

my advice would be to think about what makes you happy?, what is your most favourite thing in the world? it doesnt necessarily have to be a picture or symbol, is there a word that means a lot to you? BM (Before Master) i was contemplating having the word "faith" across my lower back in old english script.

Take care in choosing as it is with you for life....well not really if you want to pay triple what you paid to get it removed!!!

Wishing you the best of luck


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RE: tattoos? - 3/17/2005 5:50:30 PM   
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Thanks all for the wonderful posts. i don't want to rush into anything even so i do want a tattoo i want it to have meaning. ( i do love the purple rose thing.. Hmmmmmmmm as everyone knows purple is my color)

We all know your wacked Roe but we love ya anyway!

Sis -- my nipple are great!! i love my rings, that is the best thing i ever did. i want to get my clit done also now ;) but the nipple took me years to do so probably will be years for that too!


thanks again all -- think ill keep looking for that perfect tattoo for me :)
~Jenn


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RE: tattoos? - 3/17/2005 7:10:00 PM   
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I think you've gotten some good advice: waiting until you are sure on a design and placement you can live with, placing the first where it can be hidden (until you decide you are ready to 'out' yourself to the non-tattoo world), and in being fairly warned that they can be addicting. Some folks I know have gotten temporary tat where they wanted their first (especially if it's a small design) to get a feel for the look of it. Might be an idea depending on how concerned you are abotu placement.

The only additional advice I'd give is to get references from local friends to find the right artist for you, inspect the parlor to be sure they abide by the common sense rules of the trade (sterlized needles, individual disposable miniature ink cups, and latex gloves for their own protection - most do, but criminally there are still exceptions), look long and hard at the artists book of ink, and don't be afraid to walk out of the parlor if you aren't comfortable. Also very important, is to be very careful how you treat the wound (afterall that is what a new tat is) until it heals. I usually use neosporin for 1 day. then switch to a scentless moisturizing cream for 2-3 weeks. Avoid getting it overly wet in the bath/shower as that may cause excessive scabbing. You artist should be able to give you specific directions as well , each tends to have their own favorite healing techniques. oh, almost forgot - DON'T SRATCH IT WHEN IT ITCHES! lol

I have several tats, all of which are custom art except one piece of flash which I chose becasue I liked the design and, more importantly knew it would effectively cover up my first tat (which I thought meant alot to me at the time but 14 years later was simply an eyesore and a waste of valuable 'real estate'). I must say I am rather happy with my body art at the moment.

I am working on a custom full back design with my inkguy currently, though I'm not sure when I'll be able to afford to get it done. I'm a large man, and we're estimating between 40 & 50 hours of ink or more including the outline, coloring and shading (it will be a mix of B&W and color). I'm probably looking at between 10-15 separate sittings once I begin, oh joy!

Thus far the longest I have sat under the needle was 5 1/2 hours at one time. I was fine for the first 4 hours, but the last hour and a half the endorphins had long worn off and eventually I just wanted to knock his teeth in. LOL

Your body is your temple... why not decorate it?

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RE: tattoos? - 3/17/2005 7:17:20 PM   
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quote:

I usually use neosporin for 1 day. then switch to a scentless moisturizing cream for 2-3 weeks.


This has also been my normal routine. For my last two though I stumbled onto a product called "Tattoo Goo". I must say that I was really impressed with it. I got NO scabbing or itching, just a nice smooth tattoo throughout the healing. I thought it was just wonderful stuff and it was inexpensive too.

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RE: tattoos? - 3/18/2005 1:21:18 AM   
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I got one of my tattoo's at one of the best places in Chicago.
They recommended, PreporationH (s?), that just might be what
your "Tattoo Goo" was Erin.

I chose the white more lotion like stuff than the greasy...I applied
it at first all the time and weaned that down as it healed. I never
had any scabbing or itching.
I mean think about it...It is used for imflamation and healing cracks,
it worked Great!

Also I would like to add, the tattooing process was not really painful
at all for me. I was surprised because back in the day they hurt like
a Bitch.

I'm sure you will find one you really like Jenn and enjoy your new Tattoo!

~Sterling



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