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BitaTruble -> RE: Issues of the Behind (2/19/2007 12:31:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: jane4you
I would not take lessons from some one who had read a lot about flying an airplane but had never actually flown one, Would you? Same difference.
Apples and oranges. Julia is experienced and was qualified to respond to the issue. You just made a mistake.
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Why do you assume I tracked them down? I read them in very short succession from each other that is all.
Details do matter and rather than double check facts, you chose the easy route and just accused one or the other of them as lying.
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...oh, that's right, some newbie might take you seriously and actually do what you suggest.
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Lmao....my point exactly!
Except you were wrong so your point is worthless and moot.
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And yet you spent such a great deal of time trying to prove I was wrong! See below;
You have no idea how much time Julia spent on her search. I'd be much more inclined to believe it was only a few minutes since that's all the time it takes to do such a search via the Collarme tools. I'd wager she was probably surprised at the words you quoted and then attributed to Sinergy. That could be nasty little way of trying to drive a wedge between two people if you want one of them for yourself. Shall others assume such a motive or would you like to be afforded the benefit of the doubt?
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Paranoid julia?
It's not paranoid to think someone who is attacking you, is actually attacking you.
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Did it ever occur to you that a person could start a new profile for numerous reasons? Or that someone could follow the boards for years without ever having made a post on their prior profile?
You came in tossing out accusations that either Julia or Sinergy was lying. What sort of reception did you think you'd receive? Once proven wrong, you could have chosen to apologize with some grace, instead you choose the low road, without provocation and for no apparent reason. Your motives 'are' questionable. I think a valid argument could be made that you are a regular with an agenda, but I'm more inclined to think you want Sinergy for yourself now that your other relationship fizzled out. He's quite a catch. I wouldn't blame you. Just a guess on my part, of course, but one which makes sense from my unbiased viewpoint.
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Here is a link to pages of you speaking about your Master.
http://www.collarchat.com/searchpro.asp?phrase=Synergy&author=juliaoceania&forumid=ALL&topicreply=both&message=body&timeframe=%3E&timefilter=0&language=single&top=300&criteria=AND&minRank=0&sortMethod=r&submitbutton=+OK+
You didn't actually read those links did you. If so, your reading comprehension is questionable at best, if not, then your post is deliberty disingenious. There is a single post among all the pages listed where Julia makes a reference to Sinergy's name having a commonality with 'synergy'. Note the spelling. There are plenty of pages where, if you spelled his name correctly, you can read about Julia speaking of her Daddy (not Master). They just aren't among the ones you listed.
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The name of your Master is no secret to any who read the boards dear.
Sinergy is not Julia's Master, he is her Daddy as anyone who reads the boards can determine quite easily. It also seems Julia is not the only one who can exhibit a little bit of passive-aggressive behavior. What's with the dear? Obviously, you don't like her and such is usually held as a term of endearment. Pot, kettle, black, Jane.
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To be honest I find your passive aggressive style of attack to be quite annoying.
Block her and she will cease to annoy you. It's very simple.
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Your need to always get the last word in is also a bit childish.
Absolutes are seldom true. I find Julia to be very passionate on certain topics, and while she does not always let things go as quickly as she could, I believe it's from her desire to make herself understood completely rather than from a childish motive. That's based on my opinion from reading most of her posts.
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Before you lay claims that i am a disgruntled jilted female, think again, it was friendly conversation only.
Defensive projection. Interesting. I'm a bit curious on whether or not Sinergy would feel blessed or cursed that you were no more to him than a passing, superfical, chat partner.
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I was curious to see what it is about you that turned the dominant man I emailed with to the changed poster i see today.
I'd guess it was a cross between her intellect, her goals and her straight forward, honest attitude. That's just a guess though. Might have been her hot bod. In any event, I didn't know Sinergy two years ago but currently, I find him informative, fun, somewhat caustic, fairly stable, generally giving sound advice and seems to be pretty crazy about Julia, allowing her to err, but also helping guide her on her journey. If that's something he's changed 'into' since meeting Julia, then I'd say she has been pretty good for him. My guess though is that those qualities are what attracted Julia to him in the first place. He's not perfect, neither is she, but they seem pretty perfect for each other and that's the only thing that matters.
Celeste
edited to apologize to Aquatic for the highjack - it won't happen here again, at least by me
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