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juat a question - 2/17/2007 6:51:19 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		Somebody please tell me why you guys into, get a girl on the hook, all the way to IM, then brag about all the amazing women youre meeting...seems to me a lillte discretion would be more usefull, i dont want to meet someone with a stable or two or three others on their hook. im not a damn fish, sheesh!
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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 6:57:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's their way of puffing themselves up.  "I've met a lot of women....I'm desirable....you should desire me like the others do".  You need to realize that men face tough competition (there are many more of them than there are women).  It's a woman's market.  

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:08:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: domahpet

. im not a damn fish, sheesh!


YOUR NOT!!!  DAMN!!!!

throws away the fishing rod........ gets the gun!

LETS HUNT!

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:30:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, several studies have shown that women are more taken with men that have women after them, it's sort of a reinforcement and reassurance thing that validates a womans desire thingie.

Too bad he was so clumsy about it.

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:35:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Studies have also shown that when women view pictures of a man that also includes a woman who is smileing. Find the man much more attractive then a picture of him alone, or with another woman who is not smileing.


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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:47:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lorgrom

Studies have also shown that when women view pictures of a man that also includes a woman who is smileing. Find the man much more attractive then a picture of him alone, or with another woman who is not smileing.


I've always wondered who the study contestants are for these things.  Personally I find a man more attractive without all the personal female bling hanging on.  I'm realistic enough to know that there's no way in hell I'm gonna attract a man like that nor do I want to.  In my own mind I'd come up sort each and every time, and it's not worth the heartache...(been there, done that, et al).

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:50:41 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Ah Ha!!!!!!!

But you been there, done that...............

Not half the point then, is it?

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:51:02 AM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		My ex used to tell me about all the women at work who thought he was the best thing ever and thought I was SO lucky to have him. The answer to that was "That's because they don't live with you." Which did not come from me, but from his eldest.

It's all hot-air being blown to convince you that he's wonderful when he knows he's not really. That kind of insecurity is off-putting.

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 7:59:23 AM   
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all the way to IM


Not being one to play on the net, is this like -8th base or what?

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 9:28:12 AM   
chainedfarida


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Status: offline 		i agree, it is puffing themselves up and trying to say "hey arent you lucky i am interested in you." when  "shrugs" i coud care less how many women You have as long as Your words match Your actions.

sincerely far

ps a butterfly net would work better than a pole or gun  ~grins~ kidding

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 9:49:58 AM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		simple. when a man tell you somethin like that he isnt tryin 2 impress u he warnin u that u can't have him all 2 urself. well some weak MFs might be tryin jus 2 front but u either try to make a woman fell special or not special dependin on ur intent 2 her

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 10:00:10 AM   
chainedfarida


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Status: offline 		Forgive me Sir, but when a girl already knows that He is poly there is no need to tell the girl that so then why do it, it is already established. it comes off as the man needs to make himself look better. no different really than a master that sends his slave to recruit for him cause the women dont want to talk to him.

sincerely far

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 1:58:02 PM   
lighthearted


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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

simple. when a man tell you somethin like that he isnt tryin 2 impress u he warnin u that u can't have him all 2 urself. well some weak MFs might be tryin jus 2 front but u either try to make a woman fell special or not special dependin on ur intent 2 her


that is ridiculous.  if your intent is an honest relationship, or to try and make a woman "fell special" as you so succinctly put it, then that discussion belongs in the first email.

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 2:03:19 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		Another thought occurred to me as to "why" they do it:  Perhaps it's like the cowboys of old who put another notch on their bedpost, and once they've notched too much they realize they don't have a leg to stand on..lol.

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 2:40:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

It's their way of puffing themselves up.  "I've met a lot of women....I'm desirable....you should desire me like the others do".  You need to realize that men face tough competition (there are many more of them than there are women).  It's a woman's market.  


I find it's a man's market, actually, at least in terms of Male dominants/female submissives.  In reality, online or off, people with confidence, humor, and a smile will always be successful in meeting potential partners. 

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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 2:42:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear Domahpet-
 
Is it possible that he's just trying to make clear that he is keeping his options open? Or simply that he doesn't see getting "all the way to IM" as being a binding commitment?
 
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RE: juat a question - 2/17/2007 3:15:17 PM   
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Dear Domahpet-
 
Is it possible that he's just trying to make clear that he is keeping his options open? Or simply that he doesn't see getting "all the way to IM" as being a binding commitment?
 
Stay warm,
Lawrence
Shoot!!...I was going to say that!..phooey...~stomps away~...Tempting

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RE: juat a question - 2/18/2007 2:28:12 AM   
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RE: juat a question - 2/18/2007 3:56:43 AM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		Insecurity, in my opinion. Its not solely men who do it either. I have met a couple of women via the Internet and phone who would constantly talk about how they had all these guys chasing them and took a general attitude that I was lucky they were giving me the time of the day. Once the actual meeting took place, all that was immediately gone and replaced with a clear insecurity over some issue or another, usually attractiveness or weight. They didnt feal they were good enough for me so they compensated by representing themselves as being too good for me.



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RE: juat a question - 2/18/2007 5:02:50 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		i have never been a competitive person and when a potential Dom lets me know who and what i have to compete with i graciously leave the others to the competition.  i am not attracted to men who are pictured with a gaggle of females, smiling or not.  my opinion is, yes, He can attract a lot of women, so it would stand to reason i wouldn't be any more special than the others...just another number... no thanks, been there done that got really bored with it.

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