fourpeas
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LOL I am laughing at the wedding photographer being into BDSM... hey at least there was a silver lining, eh?
Everyone gave you such great advice. I would just like to share that I am also the child of divorced parents and that at one time I felt everything you were going through and felt the resentment, anger, betrayal, abandonment.. you name it. It seems like most people who have posted have felt that way.
I just wanted to commend you for going to the wedding and making a brave choice to attend despite the fact that you didn't want to.
I would echo pretty much what everyone on the boards has already said and encourage you to write that letter to your father and start sorting through your feelings *on your own*... and try to figure out some of the true roots of the anger and the darkest place from which the anger springs.
I also agree with the fact that you aren't really an adult until you can relate to your parents like they are not your parents. And I agree with Topcat that it sucks and I'm sorry you're going through it.
But kudos for attending the wedding AND making your point at the same time. I wish you the best and I hope that you are surrounded by lots and lots of supportive people who can be good listeners to you as you go through this tough, frustrating time of getting to know your father's new wife and making sesne of that.
Good luck...
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