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Nikolette -> RE: justified punishment (2/17/2007 9:45:26 PM)
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janet1965,
I'd say it wasn't parallel to the situation. 200 lashes seem a bit absurd to me. I generally try not to punish my slaves to the extent that they can recall the punishment but not the issue.
Oh.
Wait.
You still... evidentally.. remember what you did wrong. And think it wasn't very bad. And apparently think 200 was unjustified, since you thanked Ron.
So maybe you should opt for asking for 200 more, until you feel like you've adequately paid for the indiscretion.
Or maybe you should have gone home, as he freely offered.
As I said, I think its a bit much, but obviously its not too much because you don't want to leave. Maybe you should ask yourself why exactly you are on the message boards striving to take your punishment frenzied Master's validation away. The dynamic in general doesn't seem adequate. Foggy (seeming) instructions on his part, dubious activities on your part, you looking for comfort from strangers that this was harsh and unjustified on your Master's part.
Are you going to take any of the advice given and actually examine how YOU feel about this and what YOU want from this and go and TALK TO HIM about?
I'd definitely be disappointed if my slave accepted a punishment, and then continued to question my judgement about it. I'd be particularly displeased if my slave then went and asked people what their opinions on it were. I'd question my slave's motivations behind such an action. Especially since you've stated you aren't leaving him.
Did you just want pity? Attention? Because looking for reassurance outside your relationship is probably not the best way to conduct an honest and open relationship. You have to trust yourself, and him and make decisions based on what is reasonable to YOU.
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