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RE: How to handle this - 2/21/2007 4:01:43 PM

OnlyHis

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rollin, I feel for you and what you are feeling. And as i am very protective of Master i can understand to a certain extent you saying you would like to kick her ass around the block. But it seems like you have better sense than that :)
Sooner or later your Master will see this woman for what she is. Here you have to have patience and as someone else said focus on what your Master is to you , that is what matters most. As long as you don't lie to your Master or treat him the way you describe this woman does that is all you need to worry about.
There is a old saying What goes around comes around. And it usually does.
All the best to you.

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RE: How to handle this - 2/21/2007 4:51:53 PM

SimplyMichael

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You are lucky to be owned completely by such a tolerant master and one who is manly enough to have so many submissives.

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RE: How to handle this - 2/21/2007 8:09:47 PM

Arastella

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Don't rant and rave at Him, but DO tell Him your concern. Tell Him how she affects you and tell Him your worry of Her sticking around. Be sure to remain respectful toward Him and still explain your feelings.

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RE: How to handle this - 2/22/2007 8:45:37 AM

Celeste43

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This is his problem. Make it clear to him when he starts to tell you everything that this is his relationship, it isn't yours and you aren't interested. But also make it clear that if doesn't have sufficient self control to not take out on you the upset in his emotions caused by the stuff he allows her to do, you will lose respect for him. And then change the subject.

Every time he starts to tell you about her, repeat word for word. And call him on it when he calls you and is out of control. He needs to grow up and the best service you can do for him is make this clear. He won't appreciate it anymore than a drunk appreciates being told they need to go into rehab, but you wouldn't appreciate having a relationship with a drunk and you don't appreciate or need the drama that comes with his other relationship.

And I'm not sure why he deserves such devotion when he has deliberately disrespected you over and over by detailing his relationship with her instead of focusing on you when with you.

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