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petdave -> If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 4:38:53 PM)
... then how do You decide when to stop? (seriously!) [:-] ...dave

SCDommie -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 4:51:03 PM)
I hate strap on questions. This one is the worst yet. SCD Sorry, but it aggrevated me to death.

paulthesub -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 4:53:36 PM)
When either the Dom/me gets bored, or the sub starts bleeding. [:)]

DianeB269 -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 4:54:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: petdave ... then how do You decide when to stop? (seriously!) [:-] ...dave Some of can have an orgasm while strapping a guy. I've had a few over the years. When I use my Nexus strapon I always have an orgasm. I just know when it's time to stop. Diane

petdave -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 5:38:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SCDommie I hate strap on questions. This one is the worst yet. SCD Sorry, but it aggrevated me to death. We'll surely mourn your passing. Thanks for contributing. i know that it's possible for a Domme to climax from this, but assume it isn't common... this is actually something that my wife asked me after a scene once, and i never have figured out an answer. i thought there must be an answer other than "until your hips get tired or you run out of lube"... ...dave

undergroundsea -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 6:00:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: paulthesub When either the Dom/me gets bored, or the sub starts bleeding. [:)] The dildo breaking would be another critical juncture ;-) Cheers, Sea

MistressDolly -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 6:05:58 PM)
Some pleasurable sensations go unnoticed after a while, or go numb - - perhaps then is a good time to change it up?

MistressDolly -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/19/2007 6:07:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea quote: ORIGINAL: paulthesub When either the Dom/me gets bored, or the sub starts bleeding. [:)] The dildo breaking would be another critical juncture ;-) Cheers, Sea ouch!

millamber457 -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/20/2007 6:12:50 AM)
or when his ass is open and it gets to be like throwing a wet loaf of bread down a hallway LOL

BeachMystress -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/20/2007 11:37:44 AM)
How do you know when to stop watching TV, reading, playing video games or anything else. Either you just know you're done or (if you're a sub or young) someone comes along and tells you to stop. And in the case of the submissive, it is simple. He knows it is time to stop when the device is withdrawn from his rectum.

WalterRego -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/20/2007 11:38:15 AM)
If neither of you are cumming, and afterwards, neither one of you is passed out, wrung out or collapsed, panting on top of the bed, and neither of you can seem to figure out when you should have stopped....then maybe this just isn't the thing for either of you and it's time to move on? After all, much as I might like it, there are lots of other fun perversions to try.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/20/2007 7:56:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BeachMystress And in the case of the submissive, it is simple. He knows it is time to stop when the device is withdrawn from his rectum. Waves to Beach! Good to see you posting and hope all is going wonderfully for you and your's! Thanks for the smile!

BeachMystress -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/20/2007 10:36:27 PM)
Heyya, It has been a while since I posted much huh? I was out with Mercnbeth last Friday and we were talking about the message boards. It made me want to come have a look at them again. It's nice to see some of my fav people are still here! Things are going wonderfully to the point of living in a fairy tale! Our second anniversary is in June. Can you believe it is that long already? Time sure flies huh? Hope things are going exactly as you wish in your life!

mons -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/21/2007 2:23:51 AM)
greetings dave what happen to make you not come was your mind elsewhere, was it not good. did you not have a hard one? so many question so little time and yes woman can come doing this hell yes warm wishes for you dave mons

CoyoteWhips -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/21/2007 7:51:43 AM)
Not every bdsm activity ends in orgasm. There's a chance some people might get some power-exchange action out of strap-on play. Make the point and move on to something else.

mp072004 -> RE: If You don't climax from strap-on play... (2/21/2007 8:25:33 AM)
Initial reaction: People use physical orgasm as a cue to stop having sex??! They don't stop when they're tired or bored or when they have a sense of finality? Huh. Better response: You decide to stop fucking the same way you decide when to stop a spanking, or most any other physical leisure activity. You can do it until you're bored or tired--it works, and it's fine, though not always good for planning or very artful. It can be nice to engineer a climax--where climax means a peak, not an orgasm--and either stop immediately after the climactic moment or treat it as the midpoint of the scene and then cool down from it. You might also set a time period or number of strokes and use that as a guide to stopping. Monica

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