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so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/19/2007 9:50:20 PM

azzmaster

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i don't have any trouble finding subs who likea thik rod up they ass, but its very few women subs who want u to fist em anally. if i run n2 one that neva had it, its cool, but time afta time when someone tell me they don't like it, its cause they had someone fist them that just didn't take time or tease the ass into relaxing. so don't do a botched job if u gonna fist, know what ur doin, TrIM UR NAILS fer crissake and be patient patient patient. if u just start teasin it right with ur fingers the azz gonna wanna be opening to u and u can stick ur arm so far up there u can caress ur lovers heart( well almost) and damn, wash ir hands real real good afta and have a nail brush. no one wants u to touch em with brown unda the nails.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/19/2007 10:31:10 PM

timorous

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umm..... okay. Thanks for that.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/19/2007 11:22:03 PM

painlovingsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: timorous

umm..... okay. Thanks for that.

i think that about said it all. i think i lost a few brain cells reading the original message. *laugh*

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 2:14:02 AM

azzmaster

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there is really an art to fisting, i m not sure everyone appreciates that

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 3:20:21 AM

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You really need to try and write a bit clearer. I'm sure you have something to say, but it gives me a headache to translate it.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 3:40:23 AM

nephandi

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Many dont want to be fisted analy becouse there is some risk involved, not alot if done corectly but you realy have to trust the one fisting you, look at it this way, a whipping session go wrong and the Dom go to far (unless he is real psycho, i am thinking of one that dont want to harm me here.) i end up a bit shaken and perhaps whit a few scars on my back, an anal fisting gone very badly could mean surgery and/or loss of bowl control and i for once would not like to wear dipers for the rest of my life. i enyoy anal fisting but i have to b somone one trust completly. We have not gotten the hole hand in yet but we are getting there, i think trust is the issue here, dont expect a sub to want to be ass fisted by you on the first date.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 4:09:05 AM

Driver1961

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He dips his lid to all, umm anal fisting.

quote:

ORIGINAL: nephandi

Many dont want to be fisted analy becouse there is some risk involved, EDITED
i enyoy anal fisting but i have to b somone one trust completly. We have not gotten the hole hand in yet but we are getting there, i think trust is the issue here, dont expect a sub to want to be ass fisted by you on the first date.

Well said nephandi, Vag fisting, anal insertions etc to be pleasurable generally all necessitate a good warmup with an orgasm or two for relaxation sakes.

Umm, makes me think I should start a thread on a related matter

Personally it's not my gig as I've had gay friends brag about it so have 'tagged it' as not a personal turn on but your comments are basically theirs.

I well appreciate that it is possible and believe My Precious would 'lick her lips' if she saw this post!

Warm regards to all.

Driver1961 Sir to His loving WildChild.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 7:57:12 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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i prefer vaginal fisting than ass fisting.

btw, OP, not trying to be funny or disrespectful however i have to agree with bandit about your postings. if it was much clearer, i wouldn't have a hard time understanding what you're trying to post.

thank you
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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 8:31:50 AM

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if ur a sub and ur dom is not skilled at fisting, vaginal or anal, he really needs to see it done, and he has to have a paitient temperment, cause ur right, it can go real wrong. just like a doctor , a dom should not practice beyond his abilitites. i of course am a proctologist among doms, jus call me Dr Azzmaster

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 10:40:00 AM

painlovingsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

if ur a sub and ur dom is not skilled at fisting, vaginal or anal, he really needs to see it done, and he has to have a paitient temperment, cause ur right, it can go real wrong. just like a doctor , a dom should not practice beyond his abilitites. i of course am a proctologist among doms, jus call me Dr Azzmaster

Would You like a medal? i really don't get the theory behind Your post, and i don't mean to be disrespectful in any way; however, i would think any good Dom would not jump right into something they have never done before with a sub, and i also think that the ideal step would be to practice in some safe way before attempting to do something that can be so dangerous with one. So i would disagree with Your statement that a Dom should not practice beyond their abilities, because when You first try something there is generally no "ability". You claim to be a proctologist and yet You would have had to learn at some point and practice, thereby exceeding Your ability at the time. i appreciate that proctologist was the one word in Your whole statement that actually got spelled correctly. Its really to bad that spell check wasn't working for the rest of Your words.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 10:48:40 AM

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Yo! Word, whassup? You like a tootie in the booty, bro? For-shitzlle!

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 11:23:23 AM

BeachMystress

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Fisting, anally or vaginally, is a scary prospect for many. If done wrong it can cause great pain and damage. I should hope that any sub who put them self into the receiving end would first make sure the Dominant had done it before OR had taken the time to learn about it. (This is true of ANY play. Questioning experience and training isn't disrespectful to someone who actually has taken the time to learn.) There are some good books out there to help those who want to go the ole hand up the ass (or vagina) route.

Trust, the Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing

First Hand: An Erotic Guide to Fisting

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 11:24:57 AM

innatedesire

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quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

i don't have any trouble finding subs who likea thik rod up they ass, but its very few women subs who want u to fist em anally. if i run n2 one that neva had it, its cool, but time afta time when someone tell me they don't like it, its cause they had someone fist them that just didn't take time or tease the ass into relaxing. so don't do a botched job if u gonna fist, know what ur doin, TrIM UR NAILS fer crissake and be patient patient patient. if u just start teasin it right with ur fingers the azz gonna wanna be opening to u and u can stick ur arm so far up there u can caress ur lovers heart( well almost) and damn, wash ir hands real real good afta and have a nail brush. no one wants u to touch em with brown unda the nails.

Your post title is a sweeping generalization rather than a question

Ibonics mixed with some other form of jibberish rather than english

The rest well........all i can do is shake my head and walk away.........chronic cranial rectal inversion at its finest

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 11:56:02 AM

timorous

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there is really an art to fisting, i m not sure everyone appreciates that

There is really an art in appear delusional and conceited.
However you've caught the essence of it absolutely and I congratulate you for that.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 11:56:04 AM

thetammyjo

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*raises hand again*

Question: Why is fisting being associated with the bottom or sub position?

I know many people (male and female) who are in the top or dominant position who say they love being fisted.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 12:06:09 PM

nephandi

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Fisting is a type of sex, some submissives like it, some Dominants like it, some vanilla like it and somones grandmother like it, it is a thing some pepole like, some pepole dont, and some pepole do just becouse their lover like it just as everything else.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 5:05:49 PM

touchthesky

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i have never had a Dom ask me to fist him in the ass.

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 6:04:45 PM

Driver1961

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TOUCHTHESKY!

High Five gurl! better still let's do it properly.

High five, rump bump, turn 180 degrees, high five together, rump bump together, wiggle arses, grap each other's arse cheek (Don't grab hard and spread mine cos umm, I don't like that) turn in to each other , laughing kiss each others cheek.
a top comment TOUCH that will allow me to smile all day in Oz.!

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 6:32:31 PM

petdave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nephandi
We have not gotten the hole hand in yet

Heh... hole hand

w00t!

i guess it's better to have never been fisted at all, than to have been fisted wrong, even if it means never being fisted right. Of course, i'd be okay with getting fisted left, as long as it was done with style.

...dave

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RE: so many subs have never been fisted right - 2/20/2007 6:33:50 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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Not to get off the original thread...ok ..yeah getting off the original thread for a moment..I have a marked suspicion that azzmaster actually can and does speak and write quite normally...I suspicion that he writes in such a way to either garner attention or to deflect anyone possibly thinking there is an intelligient brain at work..But IMO he just does it because he thinks its fun...ok..now back to your previously scheduled programming...

..Tempting

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