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Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:01:27 AM   
Driver1961


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I had a past experience where my play partner was a copious 'Squirter' and desperately wanted to 'feel' a fisting.  

We tried several times but everytime I inserted (whether she'd orgasmed or not) she would orgasm squirt almost immediately.   Now that might sound pretty good but it really frustrated her because when she squirted her whole 'G' spot area became like a strong serpent? or internal monster? (I know it's hard to describe and we'd laugh about it) where that area 'invaded' the rest of her vagina whilst squirt orgasming and immediately (and very strongly) contracted thus forcing my hand out instantaneously.  We were unable to find any way for me to stay inside. If I waited or immediately reinserted she would involuntarily expel me again.  (Mind you it was all pleasurable to her nonetheless)

I was wondering if anyone had actual personal experience with a similar problem (it was a real problem of frustration to her) and would like to know how you/they overcame it.

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:05:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		 Yes but it do sometimes find it difficult. Im not even sure how we manage to do it but i think just going so so slowly until its as far in as you want to go or can get it and trying to hold of the orgasm untill your firmly in place so to speak.  I have to say this is something new we have gotten into and i never knew the orgasms were so intense and addictive!!!! ~Good luck

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:10:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Once a hand is firmly inside of me and made into a fist, I can't expel it no matter how hard the orgasm. Mind you, it might be rather intense for the fist, as I've been told the squeezing is somewhat powerful. It's been a long time since I've been fisted, though.

However, as someone who gushes I can affirmatively say that yes, I can be fisted. If orgasms are too intense, I recommend one or two amazing orgasms to get the muscles to relax, and then deep breathing on her part, trying to stay relaxed and hold off the orgasm.

I found when exploring breath play with a previous partner that I would orgasm SO hard that I would pop capillaries in my face. So I had to learn to hold myself calm and relaxed and have an orgasm without total body tension, or look like I was allergic to my facial soap.  Since I ~was~ able to learn to do that, I think she can learn to  relax her body until you can get your hand in, and anchor your fist inside her pelvic bone. Then let her orgasm to her heart's content!!

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:26:12 AM   
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I tried the anchoring but the only way she could orgasm was by squirting, anything from 1 fl oz up to 7 if hadnt orgasmed for days but every orgasm was the intense G spot type collapse which was like the G spot became a long serpent's head that careered immediately into the centre of vagina while squirting from under the head area plus very forcibily contracted the vagina too,  anchoring was impossible actually.   We tried a bit of the 'fucked over from being fucked over on orgasms' but she still had the same reactions.   Hopefully someone may be this forceful and have overcome it.  We gave up with me trying to make her laugh at her uniqueness!

Warm regards to all. 

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:55:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you take the time to do some training it will happen.
Start with something less than a fist, and work up to larger sizes.
It also a good time for her to learn orgasm control as well.
This is a great test of will power, and control.
Make it a goal, work slowly, and enjoy.
Once I had gotten to the point of fisting maye, the orgasm she experienced with my fist inside her was very intense for her.
A worth while goal.
For the both of us.

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 7:21:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		dont forget that even with someone who is not a 'squirter' fisting can take up to months of practice.

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 7:21:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Elorin

Once a hand is firmly inside of me and made into a fist, I can't expel it no matter how hard the orgasm. Mind you, it might be rather intense for the fist, as I've been told the squeezing is somewhat powerful. It's been a long time since I've been fisted, though.

However, as someone who gushes I can affirmatively say that yes, I can be fisted. If orgasms are too intense, I recommend one or two amazing orgasms to get the muscles to relax, and then deep breathing on her part, trying to stay relaxed and hold off the orgasm.

I found when exploring breath play with a previous partner that I would orgasm SO hard that I would pop capillaries in my face. So I had to learn to hold myself calm and relaxed and have an orgasm without total body tension, or look like I was allergic to my facial soap.  Since I ~was~ able to learn to do that, I think she can learn to  relax her body until you can get your hand in, and anchor your fist inside her pelvic bone. Then let her orgasm to her heart's content!!

What she said.

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 7:42:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Practicing orgasm control might be helpful in this case.

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 8:23:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		exactly, make her ask u 4 permission to cum, or do anal fisting

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 9:03:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

 or do anal fisting


I know it's done and so forthish but all I think when I read that is...OUCH!!!!


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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 1:27:01 PM   
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I fisted a  "suirter' once...just have to learn to get out of the way faster next time, ruined my silk corsette...


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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 2:08:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I squirt, not always, but often enough to classify myself as one. I also love being fisted. So yes, it can be done :)

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 2:45:20 PM   
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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 3:03:20 PM   
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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 3:45:05 PM   
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Squirter- female who ejaculates copious fluid- like pissing but not at orgasm.

This girl I posted about would squirt everytime she came.  With a minimum of say 2tablespoons up to a whole glass, but it was the way her whole vagina contracted etc that caused the problem.  I have been with two other squirters and neither had their vaginas contract in the manner that I have described here


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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 3:48:20 PM   
Driver1961


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ORIGINAL: ELUSIVE1

I fisted a  "suirter' once...just have to learn to get out of the way faster next time, ruined my silk corsette...



Now Squirter, how unprepared! Very funny for your honesty- personally I've never felt compelled to wear any silk corsette (I'm no sissyDom)- but I will keep it in my memory banks though!

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 3:49:07 PM   
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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:08:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've not known anyone with very strong involuntary contractions like your former playmate, but I have fisted a couple of women who like to contract their vaginas firmly, often pushing "out," when they are being fisted (or otherwise penetrated). They find this pleasurable, and some men tell me that they find this clenching appealing when engaging in vaginal sex.

But I've never known anyone with a vagina strong enough to expel my hand if I pushed back "in" as she pushed "out". Were you trying to push against your former playmate's contractions? In my experience, if you want to keep your hand in, you need only to resist contractions pushing it out. The women I've known who liked to deliberately push against hands expressed appreciation when I pushed back, so I imagine they found resistance an appealing sensation. Some can be quite strong--I have a reasonably-well-developed upper body, and with one woman, I noticed that I did have to put up a bit of an effort--and repeated contractions do make my hand sore, but I've never actually been forced out as long as I resisted.

Monica

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:38:52 PM   
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thanks mp072004.  I understand what you're saying and it's been difficult for me to explain what occurred but we both tried several times.  Every time she orgasmed- she very forcibly 'squirted'.   I had little trouble getting my fist in- a fairly adept fister (puts another ticket on Himself smiling) BUT as soon as my fist was in, she would orgasm from the pleasure/pain and in doing so would expel my hand in the manner I have tried to previously describe.   Her whole G spot became like a flailing contracting monster!  We'd laugh about it as she'd never had someone graphicly explain what it felt like.   I have experienced two other squirters who never were so beautifully violent and totally uncontrolled in their orgasmic response.

I think she may well be 'One in a Million'

Warm regards to all

Driver1961, Sir to His loving Wildchild.

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RE: Can 'Squirters' be fisted? - 2/20/2007 5:39:41 PM   
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