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Help !!! - 2/21/2007 2:11:27 PM

submaledavid30

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Hi . Please would it be anybody who would tahe 2 minuts and help a french sub . Well , i wanted to contact a Mistress on this site . She is in my area , and i would like to have contact with her . I wrote to Her through the site , via the messages . But instead sending Her first an INSTANT message , i did sent a NORMAL message . But in Her profile it says that She block all users who do sent messages . For a foreginer as me i couldnt realise at first when i was reading Her profile about that litlle difference between instant message and normal message . So i sent a message . She blocked me .
I just wanted Her to know that , i am confused with all of this . I am sorry .
I was thinking maybe somebody could just type her few words about me . Or maybe to ask Her to have a look on my journal .
Thank You in advance

Regards to all .

Bye

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 5:58:40 PM

SCDommie

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It could be a couple of things. I dont know who the Domme is, nor do I wish to know, but she may not be taking requests for new subs right now.
I do not believe she has not seen your picture. You are very attractive looking, and I am sure she would if she saw that. It is probably that she is no longer taking subs, or is simply busy at the moment and not able to get back to you.
I would continue the search because you seem to have a lot of possiblities.

SCD

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:01:54 PM

RWAble

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Truth be told, most Dommes on this site are fakes and chances are She could give a hoot about your message. Did you send the tribute???Thats what they all want.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:18:13 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble
Truth be told, most Dommes on this site are fakes and chances are She could give a hoot about your message. Did you send the tribute???Thats what they all want.

How the hell do you know what we all want???
I'm a domina and can only answer for myself, since as dominant, every woman dominates to her specifications if she's bad/good enough.

To the OP, stop acting pathetic and desperate. If she doesn't want you, why do you want her? Find another lady and wow her with your charisma. AND Don't invite anyone to chat unless that is the medium you met them on (chatroom). M

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:21:04 PM

RWAble

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Interesting, this tirade from a person that has no profile.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:28:17 PM

stef

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Boy, it's a real mystery why no one has snatched you up

~stef

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:32:10 PM

RWAble

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Did you ever think that perhaps I don't care to be snatched up??? Respect is a two way street.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:34:32 PM

MsKatHouston

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quote:

Did you send the tribute???Thats what they all want.

Glad you have such insight into ALL of us. It is not what all of us want by a long shot.

Now to the OP. If she wanted to reply, she would have. I understand you erred in her instructions but if she blocked you, she probably is not interested for any number of reasons. I'd move on and try elsewhere. Also, get involved in your local community. It's a great way to network and meet people.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:39:52 PM

RWAble

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I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 6:44:11 PM

MsKatHouston

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Well then to bring this back around to the OP, use your block button. No sense getting upset over that which you can not control.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 7:03:53 PM

porthuronsub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

Thats not a domme you would want anyway, IMHO

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 7:07:04 PM

ClosetSinner

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You're right all I want is the money!!! Hand it over!!!....Not really. I find that distasteful. It's one thing if she is helping you create a budget to better manage your money. It's quite another thing if she is demanding it. If a Domme asks for a tribute, she's nothing more than a prostitute. A tribute is a gift from you to her. No one is that special...in my opinion.

OP:Stop worrying about this Domme. I'm sure there are plenty of real Dommes out there looking for someone such as yourself. Chalk it up as a loss on her part and move on.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 7:40:11 PM

MsSonnetMarwood

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

I can offer a smartass reply to this for $50, or a well thought out and sincere reply for $200.

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Deja Moo: The feeling you've heard this bull somewhere before.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 8:08:34 PM

SCDommie

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RW:

That is not a nice thing to say about Dommes on this site. I have met very nice real ones who are very human as I am. I have been engaged to my slave for two years, and never asked him for a tribute.

Be careful who you call fake.

SCD

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 8:38:33 PM

Lashra

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LOL Good to see that the clown brigade is still alive and well. Too bad your jokes aren't as funny as your outfit.

You obviously know nothing about Domme's or people.

~Lashra

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RE: Help !!! - 2/21/2007 8:46:32 PM

BeachMystress

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From: Naples Island- Long Beach CA - Southern California
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

I'm surprised you've gotten enough mail on this site to be so bitter. I know many sub males, and other than the Russian female marry-me spam, they get almost nothing. That is especially true when the sub doesn't bother to post a photo. Perhaps you need to re evaluate your profile or the females you are choosing to contact.

quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

Did you ever think that perhaps I don't care to be snatched up??? Respect is a two way street.

While respect is a two way street, you seem to lack the basic respect for Dominant Women. You started with a bitter tirade about how we're here for tribute. When your vitriolic comment garnered negative feedback you responded not by refuting what she had said, or even, *gasp* apologizing for an ill made generalization, but by attacking her personally with the comment of her lack of profile.

I am constantly amazed at what passes for respect or manners in the mainstream world and even more so when the person is a supposed submissive. Insulting an entire forum of women without provocation seems low class at worst and foolish at best. You need to go and rethink your ideas of respect. You need to show some before you get it in return.

Oh yeah, and by the way, I was also offended by your generalization. I am a real time Dominant Woman who is active in my scene and can provide hundreds upon hundreds of references. I have never once asked for or accepted tribute. I am part of this site and these message boards. I personally know many of the other women listed in southern California on these boards from social events and dungeons. I am tired of bitter submissives- who have no idea how to approach a Domme- deciding that we are not real because we choose not to deal with them.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/22/2007 7:09:48 AM

thetammyjo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

Are you first writing to them or are they contacting you first?

If they are contacting you first, could there be something in your profile that suggests you are interested in prodoms?

If you are contacting them first, what attracts you to these people? Is there a common trait that might also be more common to prodoms than to others?

I'm just trying to say that when all we seem to attract are those types of people we really don't want, the best place to make changes is in ourself. We can't change others but we can adjust what we do and who we contact.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/22/2007 8:06:23 AM

AAkasha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

Are you first writing to them or are they contacting you first?

If they are contacting you first, could there be something in your profile that suggests you are interested in prodoms?

If you are contacting them first, what attracts you to these people? Is there a common trait that might also be more common to prodoms than to others?

I'm just trying to say that when all we seem to attract are those types of people we really don't want, the best place to make changes is in ourself. We can't change others but we can adjust what we do and who we contact.

Tammyjo makes good points. A lot of the times, men browse the site and contact the women that are "too good to be true" (read: hot photo, sexy fetish gear, and a profile that lists all the kinks in great detail --a dream come true, she is into ANYTHING!). If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Those are pros, or they are men who use fake profiles to get cash from unsuspecting horny guys.

Akasha

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RE: Help !!! - 2/22/2007 10:55:46 AM

RWAble

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First off, let me give You an idea of what I received in my messagebox just last week. I received 62 messages. 14 of those were from friends I talk to. 2 were from those Russian spammers, the rest were pro-dommes.
An example of one pro-dommes message:
(Got on your knees you f***ing pig and open your wallet, you are MINE now.) That was the whole message.
I may be submissive, but I am not a f***ing pig and she has no right to address me as such.
My profile doesn't indicate anything about wanting pro-dommes and I do not write any Dommes on here, unless they write me first. It is not my way to approach anybody without good reason.
Perhaps I was a bit out of sorts and behaved improperly. For that I appologize to everyone. I am not a bitter submissive, just one that is here to perhaps meet someone; enjoy the forums and make friends.
Not be verbally abused by people such as pro-dommes. This site is a free site and if pro-dommes want to solicit for money, then they should get their own site and pay for it.
Anyways, sorry if I offended anyone.

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: RWAble

I do understand it is not what You all want. I just get a bad flavor when my message box is full of simple notes like (send me a tribute). I realize there are alot of true to their calling Dommes around, just the wanabees and players make it bad for everybody.

Are you first writing to them or are they contacting you first?

If they are contacting you first, could there be something in your profile that suggests you are interested in prodoms?

If you are contacting them first, what attracts you to these people? Is there a common trait that might also be more common to prodoms than to others?

I'm just trying to say that when all we seem to attract are those types of people we really don't want, the best place to make changes is in ourself. We can't change others but we can adjust what we do and who we contact.

Tammyjo makes good points. A lot of the times, men browse the site and contact the women that are "too good to be true" (read: hot photo, sexy fetish gear, and a profile that lists all the kinks in great detail --a dream come true, she is into ANYTHING!). If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Those are pros, or they are men who use fake profiles to get cash from unsuspecting horny guys.

Akasha

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When the Yankees leave Florida, then we can be free.

Life is a voyage, not a destination.

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RE: Help !!! - 2/22/2007 10:58:17 AM

mnottertail

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quote:

'but I am not a f***ing pig'

Only a Major General, then?

Sgt. Ron

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