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creative punishments - 2/21/2007 3:25:46 PM   
GenuineSoul


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Status: offline 		Looking for any creative punishments that Masters/Doms have for Their slaves. I knew that I would be moving down to her area and W/we started chatting and I took her in. W/we have met in person before. however I have been struggling to come up with punishments for her to do while I am here and can't punish her Myself. thanks to anyone out there that can help!!

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 3:27:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		You're anticipating that she'll be so badly behaved that you actually need a repertoire of highly creative punishments to fall back on?

Or, as I'm guessing, you really mean "fun kinky things to do to herself" rather than the generally accepted idea of "punishment"?

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 3:29:40 PM   
GenuineSoul


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Status: offline 		no, really looking for punishments. things besides just kneeling in the corner. I have not really dealt with a slave that I have not been able to punish in person when need be. so just looking for any kind of ideas.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 3:32:03 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		Its hard to give you ideas because punishments that are actually effective are tailored to fit the crime. You would have to tell us what she did wrong so we could give you a punishment idea. Otherwise, I would be listing endless scenarios and punishments to go with them.

For example, if punctuality is a rule and she is constantly late when visiting your home, you could make her sit outside the house for the length of time she was late before letting her in. Really sucks when its raining or snowing and they show up 30 minutes late to spend the night. I'm not important enough to schedule 30 minutes early to arrive? Then your not important to be let into the house for another 30 minutes.

Or you can use some of the outrageous ideas from the BDSM Fantasy Story Writers that will probably be making their big debut soon on this thread...

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 3:50:41 PM   
brokenandbruised


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Status: offline 		what I'm really looking for are punishments that are more mental then physical

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 4:01:56 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		Okay...

But once again, punishments are used to correct bad behaviors. I just dont punish someone in service to me for whatever reason just because I feal like it. For us to come up with ideas for a punishment, there has to be a bad behavior your trying to correct. Otherwise, like I said before, I am just picking random scenarios of bad behavior listing punishments for them.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 4:09:55 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		Punishments, in my opinion, are best when they are individualized to the one who committed the infraction.  You really need to know your submissive - what her buttons are, what she loves, what she hates, what scares her, what shuts her down, what revs her up.  You should also have a goal of what it is you hope to achieve. Will you want her to learn from these corrections?  If so, what?  Anyone can be beaten and conditioned not to repeat something, but do you want her to learn about herself?  About what brought her to such a place?  Do you plan to pummel her the first time she errs, or bring her along slowly?  Do you want her to fear you?  To adore you?  To feel sorry?  To forgive herself?

I mean, we can all start spouting out punishments, but they are meaningless and potentially damaging to the dynamic if you haven't done your homework.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 4:11:08 PM   
JLION


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Status: offline 		I like the idea of taking my slave to a closet (or corner of the room). Then handcuffing her hands behind her back, then holding something against the wall with her nose (such as a penny, tennis ball, etc). Then I will roll a dice. If it is a 10, she has to do it for 10 minutes. If it is a 6, 60 minutes. EIther way, it is important that she will not be told what number she gets (how long she has to remain). Then she will have to remain in that position, not knowing how long she will be in there. It is good to use a kitchen timer, because the tick-tock might make it psychologically more intense, followed by the alarm at the end.

I also like the idea of having a "time-out" box. Just have one large plastic storage bin or very large garbage bin (with air holes) in it for example. You can purchase this at Wal-Mart. She has to sit in the box for X amount of time (again, randomize the time without telling her). Do not lock the box, but put a vase of flowers and water, or a bowl of marbles on the top cover. So if she is to remove the top cover, there will be some evidence of a spill. This box must only be associated with punishment (or her "time-out"). You can even have a conversation with her while she is in her "time-out" box. You can make the punishment interesting by pouring water on her when her time is up (that's a good thing about a plastic storage bin). You can also pour shredded newspaper, wood shavings, rice, beans, grains, or whatever you choose to make her feel more like an animal, or to increase the discomfort. I think it is very important that this plastic storage bin be used for punishment only, so she will associate this box with that.

Another thing that I think I invented is a type of crawling exercise. She must remove all clothing. She must lay flat on her stomach. There are then two options: handcuffed behind her back, or more humiliating: she must spread her buttocks apart with her fingers and hold herself open. She is then required to "crawl" around holding this position. The rules are at least one nipple has to be touching the floor at all times. I might make her push a marble from one room to another using her nose, or I make her just crawl a few laps around the table.A similar variant of this is make her crawl around with her hands behind her back. She has to move 20 or so marbles from one room into a small corner of the other room, using her nipples to "dribble" the marbles (like in a game of soccer).


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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 4:16:01 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		JLION those ideas may be brilliant for correcting your slave (the box idea sounds kinda hot to me, actually, lol), but to a slave with claustrophobia, the Master is going to have one hell of an emotional mess to clean up.

The marble game sounds kind of fun, actually, lol, I can see my Master having a ball with that one.  But this goes to show - what is devastating and/or humiliating for one is hot and/or fun for another.  Know your subjects, I say, or you could miss the point entirely.

Off my soap box (for now).

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 4:50:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		When a stupid ass submissive cunt really pissed me off, I force her to meet online doms and serve them.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 4:57:21 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		She might think that's hot, Michael

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 5:00:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I prefer the punishment of making her serve a Master who has absolutely no clue as to what punishment is all about

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 5:09:46 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		If she thinks it hot, I will move and leave no forwarding address.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 5:18:30 PM   
ownedgirlie


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If she thinks it hot, I will move and leave no forwarding address.

LOL you're on a roll.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 5:18:52 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		If you have to punish her so much as to need a huge list of things, are you sure she's right for you? For discipline, usually my expression of disappointment is enough. If it's not, I withdraw contact.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 5:23:54 PM   
SumterDom


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Status: offline 		MadRabbit,
I like the way you think. Reminds me of punishment  my sub had to endure once for being late.
I forget the exact amount of time, but I think it was about 15 minutes.

As TIME was the violation, I had a pair of clover clamps attached to her nipples, but had a clock hanging from the chain for the amount of time she was late. She stood up and made sure the clock did not rest against her body.

For whatever reason, she wasn't late again

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 5:26:16 PM   
slaveish


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

For discipline, usually my expression of disappointment is enough.


Ohhhhh, ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow. Very effective discipline, yes.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/21/2007 6:12:43 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Again, as MasterFireMaam said, there's a bigger problem here if the sub is going to be so consistently disobedient and ill behaved.

You don't need creative or wicked sounding elaborate punishment, you need direct understanding, sincere discipline and swift reaction.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/22/2007 8:14:18 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		You need to be a better dom so you don't start demanding things she can't do or doesn't yet know how. That means giving her one rule at a time and understanding that if she's spent 30 years vacuuming before dusting, it will take quite some time to learn to do it the other way. Old habits run deep. In addition instead of just telling her what to do, help her to not forget. In this example tying a bag with a dust cloth and a can of furniture polish to the top of the vacuum cleaner would serve.

What wouldn't work is just mentioning it once, asking about it three weeks later and then claiming she was deliberately disobedient because she hadn't managed to change a life time habit without any help and declaring she needed to be punished for your lack of effective domination.

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RE: creative punishments - 2/22/2007 12:52:39 PM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		The most effective punnishment is one that shows them that you have been "less then pleasing" and are a disappointment.
Definately stay away from physical punnishment, as you both may find later that its something you both enjoy doing and to equate it as a punnishment can leave mixed signals

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