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A question about ball gags... - 3/18/2005 6:02:01 PM

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Anybody have a problem wearing a ball gag after they cum? I can wear one for a while, but after I cum, I choke on it, and have to remove it.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/18/2005 7:14:23 PM

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No, but the one my owner uses is a relatively small one in comparison to many I've seen. Closer to the size of a golf ball than a handball.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/19/2005 5:42:15 AM

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i also become uncomfortable after an orgasm while bound. But, i think part of it is the return of my focus on other things around me. i also know that the few times i've been fortunate enough to be under the control of a Domme, if She kept me helpless for 10-20 minutes afterwards, my full submissiveness returned.

Be careful whenever you feel like you are choking. If you can gain control of your breathing and gag reflex, it will help. But always be able to clear your mouth if i becomes too serious to just control mentally.

i also will tilt my head back to aid in swallowing any saliva. That seems to help no matter what the gag style.

If you are in a relationship where your submissiveness is included, perhaps the Domme/Dom could help you learn to deal with it.

Good luck. Gags are wonderful, but can be a bit of a challenge.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/19/2005 7:31:46 AM

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Try a wiffle ball for the gag, or a bit gag instead.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/19/2005 4:59:47 PM

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As a totaly submissive slave to my Master, i have no choice except for his in regards as to weather the gag stays in or comes out. Most of the time it stays in, He leaves me alone for a bit, then comes to see how His slaveboy is doing. By the time He returns, this slave boy has regained his control of where he is and what is happening and happened moments ago. So i would have to say that there is no problem here with keeping the gag in what ever shape it is.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/19/2005 6:13:06 PM

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Anybody have a problem wearing a ball gag after they cum? I can wear one for a while, but after I cum, I choke on it, and have to remove it.

Here is my perspective.

I have had ball gags used on me before and it seems the harder and larger the ball...the more I tend to not be able to wear it for a long time and I start choking.

I still have my tonsils so perhaps this is caused by the retraction/tensing of this area..

However.... I noticed the soft, soft really rubbery ballgags are much easier to tolerate and I can wear those for a long time.

If the dominant was worried about noise, an additional leather panel over the ballgag would silence any noise from smaller ball size.

Leather plug gags are the most comfortable for me. I never choke on those.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/20/2005 10:09:58 AM

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As a totaly submissive slave to my Master, i have no choice except for his in regards as to weather the gag stays in or comes out. Most of the time it stays in, He leaves me alone for a bit, then comes to see how His slaveboy is doing. By the time He returns, this slave boy has regained his control of where he is and what is happening and happened moments ago. So i would have to say that there is no problem here with keeping the gag in what ever shape it is.

I have to say this because of the safety issue. A gagged sub should never be left alone. It only takes a few seconds for something bad to happen.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/20/2005 2:18:13 PM

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i tend to have difficulty with gags period due to my chronic sinus problems. But, i do believe that i understand what your're saying because my breathing quickens and become so labored when i climax. Is that what you refer to in your post?

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 3/20/2005 7:52:01 PM

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i tend to have difficulty with gags period due to my chronic sinus problems. But, i do believe that i understand what your're saying because my breathing quickens and become so labored when i climax. Is that what you refer to in your post?

Yes, I think that might be closer to the problem. If I try and push it by keeping the gag in, I end up with the taste of vomit in the back of my throat after some coughing. That's what prompts the removal of the gag. I was just wondering if anyone else has had that problem, and what they did to solve it, or even if there is a solution.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/11/2005 12:20:26 PM

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I know that was posted a few months ago but if no-one replies to this I can always start a new thread...

My Mistress and I recently perchased a ball gag...which i was quite excited by...but I can only cope with it for a few seconds before i feel queasy. As I have a very weak stomach that means it has to be taken out or I would throw up. It really upsets me as although She has said She is not disappointed in me, i want to be able to do this for Her. Also the idea really does turn me on. She has been really patient with me and says we won't use it until i'm ready for it but I don't knwo how to become ready. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can learn to wear it for any period of time?

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/11/2005 12:28:07 PM

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Well why exactly do you get queasy? If it's the size putting pressure you can start smaller. If it's your drool activating a gag reflex, learn to drool on the floor. Perhaps your anxiety and nervousness and excitement about the gag itself causes an adrenaline reaction and makes you fluttery.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/11/2005 12:38:13 PM

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Hi,

I was actually the one posting as Tibbser, which I did by accident as I was just checking my mail on that name...it's one I'm soon going to delete you see.

I don't know why I get queasy...I don't seem to drool I just heave. It makes me feel really bad 'cause I know Mistress wants me to wear the gag. It isn't really that big a gag. One thought though...I often do set off my stomach by being excited about things...i seem to get ill when i'm looking forward to something. Maybe thatcould beit. but then, why don't I feel ill every time Mistress gets out restraints or points to the bed or opens the cupboard (where we keep stuff...'cause we have a flatmate)?

I just find it very confusing and don't know how to make myself a better pet.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/11/2005 12:41:39 PM

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I know what you mean here, although I have it often. Sometimes when I have my hands full I will hold one of my keyrings between my teeth while I readjust. Often it takes only a moment or two before I start gagging (and this is not a large key ring, it basically a thick piece of fabric). I don't know what causes it or how to prevent it, but you are not alone.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/12/2005 12:55:34 PM

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i also become uncomfortable after an orgasm while bound.

I find that I don't really want to orgasm at all during play, but after I have anything the dom does after that I find ACTUALLY unpleasant. This is because my orgasms are hard to achieve and VERY intense when they occur. I can't orgasm more than twice in one day (and even that's rare)- so once I'm done with my orgasm, I am NOT in the mood.

It's a good thing I don't orgasm easily.... anyway, going back to that other thread about masturbating before and after collaring- once collared, I rarely masturbate of my own volition because I want to be always ready to be taken. It makes it better for the both of us.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/12/2005 1:20:58 PM

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I find that I don't really want to orgasm at all during play, but after I have anything the dom does after that I find ACTUALLY unpleasant. This is because my orgasms are hard to achieve and VERY intense when they occur. I can't orgasm more than twice in one day (and even that's rare)- so once I'm done with my orgasm, I am NOT in the mood.

I am the same way in that it is very difficult for me to orgasm (specially with another partner doing it) and afterwards I'm way too sensitive and spent to really get into something.

Of course, many a top has taken advantage of that fact for their own sadistic pleasure.

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I rarely masturbate of my own volition because I want to be always ready to be taken. It makes it better for the both of us.

Not sure how masturbating makes you unable to be taken? All you need for that is an open hole.

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/13/2005 11:03:46 PM

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My Master is unable to use ball gags with me because of my braces. What are they like having to wear them all the time or a lot of the time during play?

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RE: A question about ball gags... - 5/14/2005 6:12:39 AM

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Well if you're used to them, they are just awkward, make you drool a lot, can't talk and look weird. A fairly vulnerable place/

If you aren't used to them, they can get fairly uncomfortable in the jaw.

For peoplewho have TMJ or other mouth issues I always suggest a bit gag. It doesn't block sound as much but suits the purpose of a gag well.

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Another question about ball gags... - 5/14/2005 8:41:57 AM

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While we're on the subject, do they all taste bad? I've got a rubber one where the shiny surface has rubbed off (didn't take long, either!) and the taste of that thing is way nastier than the feeling (which I actually like). And then there's the uncomfortable knowledge that that shiny coating has rubbed off in my mouth and gotten into my system, whatever it is.

Should I just take the bad taste for granted or is a sign that it's a lousy piece of equipment? Are there particular brands or materials that are best for ball gags?

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RE: Another question about ball gags... - 5/14/2005 9:14:23 AM

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Hmm not sure which one you mean, the rubberball gags I have seen are pretty pure rubber, perhaps you got a foam rubber type?

They taste like what they are made of. This tends to be why people don't serve up leather and rubber and metal as delicacies.

Poor little subs...

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RE: Another question about ball gags... - 5/14/2005 9:28:51 AM

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Hmm, maybe I should chew a tire and see if it's a "normal" rubber taste.... there's an idea! ;)

What other materials are ballgags made out of?

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