I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte

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SirDiscipliner69 -> I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 1:40:10 AM)
I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted. Has this crossed anyone else's mind? Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 7:28:22 AM)
quote: wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted. Has this crossed anyone else's mind? Ross No, it tends to be pretty obvious which way it is.

hisannabelle -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attr (2/22/2007 1:29:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted. Has this crossed anyone else's mind? Ross No, it tends to be pretty obvious which way it is. amen.

SimplyMichael -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 1:51:53 PM)
Too, wondered I if wether my mindseye dominated my mind or instead did fantasy.

slaveish -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 1:54:48 PM)
I think that even if it is a fantasy, if a sub submits to you, ~you~ will become her fantasy.

domiguy -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 2:19:18 PM)
I never took the time to ponder why the "chicks" do dig the Domiguy so. It's a fucking burden....(domiguy lays on the couch wearing only his silk undies, ascot, and wing tips...snifter of B&B in his left hand and deeply ponders why he is such a chick magnet....Suddenly he jumps up!..Rips the dildo out of sub susie's ass and holdding it like a mic he begins to sing) Nobody can do the shing-a-ling like I do. Nobody can do the skate like I do. Nobody can do the boogaloo like I do. Nobody can do the Philly like I do....... Let me tell you nobody...Nobody but me.

losttreasure -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attr (2/22/2007 2:28:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted. To be honest, it's easy enough to find out; don't dominate (or submit) until after the relationship is established. If they are only looking to have their fantasies fulfilled, they won't stick around long enough.

Driver1961 -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attr (2/22/2007 6:51:03 PM)
He dips His lid to SirDiscipline. Yes, I understand what you mean, so I generally ask the submissive so I can make a judgement based on their replies and self-awareness.

Jasmyn -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 6:53:29 PM)
quote: I think that even if it is a fantasy, if a sub submits to you, ~you~ will become her fantasy. Nicely said slavish

DesertRat -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/22/2007 7:04:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Too, wondered I if wether my mindseye dominated my mind or instead did fantasy. This often crosses My mind. Sometimes I wonder if it is Me or My car or perhaps fantasies of being dominanted by the immense Bulge in My pants. Bob

grinningcat -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/23/2007 3:40:35 AM)
For me it was initially a physical attraction to Him...which lead to a mental attraction then the emotional attachment. Now, i don't think i could separate one from the other.

kinkiminx -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/23/2007 5:45:49 AM)
Some of that might depend on whether it's casual, or a relationship - if it's casual, you might represent the fantasy to some, if it's a relationship, it generally takes some attraction to you as a person for someone to stick around.

Celeste43 -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracte (2/23/2007 7:01:08 AM)
Well, if the people you get into relationships with are this confused it sure doesn't say much for your ability to pick a healthy partner with whom you can have a mutually satisfying relationship. I suggest therapy to learn better people skills.

SirDominic -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attr (2/23/2007 10:34:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted. I'm wondering if it matters, Ross. Or if indeed it isn't a little of both at first. Also, as kinki said, it depends on the depth of the relationship. If one is in a longterm relationship, I would have to say it is the people involved. Fantasy can only last so long before it hits reality in a longterm relationship. Namaste, Sir Dominic

kate -> RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attr (2/23/2007 12:14:49 PM)
ok..for me it is the fantasy....BUT it is a fantasy of being dominated by someone that i was physicaly and mentaly and emotinaly attracted to..... the attraction is part of the fantasy....get me?

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