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How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an... - 2/22/2007 6:13:51 AM

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How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:00:28 AM

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:01:11 AM

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I am very happy to perform oral sex on my Master without expecting anything in return. If he enjoys it and he is happy then I am happy. I do not do things with the expectation of receiving something in return.

Not sure what you meant by the hard limit comment though.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:03:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: susie

I am very happy to perform oral sex on my Master without expecting anything in return. If he enjoys it and he is happy then I am happy. I do not do things with the expectation of receiving something in return.

Not sure what you meant by the hard limit comment though.

Some submissive women refuse to have oral performed on them.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:10:31 AM

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Greetings Sir,

this girl would gladly drop to her knees and perform oral for her Master, were she collared. There would be no need for reciprocity in this. If her acts please her Master and were He to use her in such a way, she would be most appreciative of the gift.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:26:13 AM

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Is the pope catholic?

Sheesh i can smell an oral thread a mile away

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:28:36 AM

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Hol' up---I am writing down names......

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:38:42 AM

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I actually don't look at it as an act of submission. I think i enjoy it too much to call it a chore.

And i don't expect anything in return. I'd enjoy it, he'd enjoy it, end of story, we move on.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:53:23 AM

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As oral sex is pretty much the only way that I reach orgasm with a partner, I'd have to count myself out. Okay, it doesn't have to be a 1 to 1 reciprocity -- which would be wonderful, though I'm being realistic here; but I'm not sure that I could go back to dating a person who had a distaste for giving oral sex but expected to get it.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:56:21 AM

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I don't prefer it as an act of submission. I prefer it when it's reciprocated, regardless of the relationship dynamic.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 8:17:24 AM

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i think i have a fetish for it....

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 8:18:25 AM

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Instead of scrubbing the garbage can? Sure. Instead of spending a day at a spa? Nope.

Next question.

And even in a nonpower relationship you don't do everything on a quid pro quo manner. Just because you are getting up to get some water and ask your partner if they want one doesn't mean your partner has to immediately get up and make you a plate of cheese and crackers in exchange.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 8:21:15 AM

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Of all the things I can no longer do, this is one of the hardest [no pun intended] to deal with.
I loved loved loved MMMMMMMMM loved performing oral sex on a man. If I could it would be a daily activity *grinz*.
Looking up at his face as he is being pleasured by my mouth ohboy what a wonderful sight indeed. Did it suddenly get warmer in here?

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 8:24:44 AM

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quote:

And even in a nonpower relationship you don't do everything on a quid pro quo manner.

That is true, it doesn't have to reciprocated every time. I just feel that if I'm willing to go there, so should he. And I do not enjoy it when I'm expected to constantly do oral service and never have it reciprocated. It doesn't have as much to do with power exchange as it does my preferences and what feels good for me.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 8:28:22 AM

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I just like oral sex - but I definitely have done it as an act of submission as well, and can definitely view it that way.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 8:29:16 AM

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How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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data mining again?

to answer your question, i do it because (a)i crave what my Daddy craves and (b)it pleases Him when i do it out of love and appreciation. it's never done out of submission to Him or expecting to receive oral in return from Him.

hope that answers your question

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 9:08:44 AM

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Being submissive and giving oral sex, pretty much living life with a cock in your mouth.

Not all oral sex is a submissive act depends on the circumstance, mood and other factors but I certainly enjoy giving oral under pretty much all circumstances.

I think you will get a pretty unanimous opinion that no immediate return of favor would be expected. Personally if I thought my Master was doing something like that only because he thought I expected it that would be a very major yuck! Now I enjoy getting oral very much so certainly a Master who enjoys doing it can be part of the compatibility factor but part of being submissive to me is not expecting tit for tat in things and especially in the sexual area.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 10:31:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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I like getting it as an act of submission or as a gift that pleases a submissive.
I enjoy giving cunnilingus but mostly if the woman is in tight inescapable bondage and can't get away from my tongue.
I'm a wicked tease.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 10:40:03 AM

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I don't do oral as an act of submission i do it because Master and i both enjoy it. I don't expect to have it done in return however if Master does return it, i would enjoy it.

Matt's littleone

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 10:49:58 AM

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It think it can be submissive or not as others have noted. I think it would be hard for me to be in a relationship where cunnillingus was never given, but I certainly wouldn't expect that it must occur because I went down on him.

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