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Newbies... - 2/22/2007 2:09:25 PM   
MLSforever34


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Status: offline 		Can anyone point me to a resource to help someone who has dabbled in the D/s lifestyle but really has so much still to learn?  I have had several girlfriends who have experimented with me in the D/s lifestyle, but as I talk to more and more people on here I realize there is so much more I need to learn about being a Dom.  Is there a thread on the message boards or a website someone could forward me to so I may better learn what it means to be a Dom or a Master?
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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 2:14:07 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 2:30:01 PM   
velvetears


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ORIGINAL: MLSforever34

Can anyone point me to a resource to help someone who has dabbled in the D/s lifestyle but really has so much still to learn?  I have had several girlfriends who have experimented with me in the D/s lifestyle, but as I talk to more and more people on here I realize there is so much more I need to learn about being a Dom.  Is there a thread on the message boards or a website someone could forward me to so I may better learn what it means to be a Dom or a Master?


Sure - here are some i like

http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgswest.html

http://www.vanilla-not.com/bylocation/

http://www.fetishexchange.org/groups4.shtml

http://www.dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Masters/

http://dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Rentals/more2.html

http://www.xs4all.nl/~wijnands/rosie/rosie.htm

http://www.darksubmission.net/

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/PTO-19990901-000039.html

http://www.fetishalliance.net/Stories/stories.htm  One of my favorites

http://www.downonmyknees.com/

http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/generalbdsm.htm#terms Another one of my favorites

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/encyclopervia/BDSM

http://www.bdsm-education.com/rights.html

http://www.enslavement.org.uk/essays

http://www.sub-dom.com/d-s-article.htm

http://www.domsubfriends.com/voye/index.shtml

http://www.domsub.info/breastprimer.html

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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 7:59:20 PM   
DragonNphoenix


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Status: offline 		Along with this site, you should check out Castle Realm.  It is a wonderful site.

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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 9:56:02 PM   
sub4hire


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Check out the chamber.

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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 10:40:43 PM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 10:57:40 PM   
CrazyC


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RE: Newbies... - 2/22/2007 11:02:43 PM   
AZSweetie


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Status: offline 		i loveeeeee Castle Realm. When i first started out i lived on this site. Lots of helpful information =)

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RE: Newbies... - 2/23/2007 5:35:45 AM   
velvetears


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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

www.steel-door.com

Check out the chamber.



The links on the site did not work for me, perhaps she is in the process of updating her site?

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RE: Newbies... - 2/23/2007 7:04:22 AM   
sub4hire


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ORIGINAL: velvetears

quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

www.steel-door.com

Check out the chamber.



The links on the site did not work for me, perhaps she is in the process of updating her site?


Apparently she is but there are always ways around things.
This one should work.
http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html

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