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Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:03:04 PM   
kinkntwist


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What is a good way for a submissive to punish her Master?


Do you think that surprising him with 2 Men waiting for him who will then overpower him, and have their way with the submissive while her Master has to helplessly watch, would do the trick?
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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:03:54 PM   
Aileen68


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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:07:08 PM   
kinkntwist


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Status: offline 		why not?... maybe because it is kinky and unexpected, which could make it actually sexy?

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:10:04 PM   
JohnWarren


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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:10:28 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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when you're wrong

http://www.collarchat.com/m_255870/mpage_1/key_punishes%252Cdom/tm.htm#255875
Is there ever a case where a dom punishes himself?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_316886/mpage_1/key_master%2Cmistakes/tm.htm
Dominant Accountability

http://www.collarchat.com/m_156881/mpage_1/key_master%2Cmistakes/tm.htm
So whose responsibility is it?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_494974/mpage_1/key_wrong/tm.htm#495237
when we are wrong

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:10:54 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I would think the end result would be anger and dismissal.

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:14:55 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Why do you want to punish your master? And why like that? Valyraen would kill (literally) the men restraining him or possibly kill himself for not being able to protect me.

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:22:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

Sit down for this one:

What is a good way for a submissive to punish her Master?


Do you think that surprising him with 2 Men waiting for him who will then overpower him, and have their way with the submissive while her Master has to helplessly watch, would do the trick?


There is NO good way for a submissive to punish her master.

Like it or not, the whole dynamic is set up such that the submissive is the one who receives punishment or discipline or whatever you wish to call it, IF punishment or discipline is an entity within the D/s dynamic of a particular couple (or group).  If you feel that your master has done something in error...hence why you feel he needs to be punished...then you should probably ask to speak to him about it.  He may agree with you.  He may not.  He may apologize.  He may not.  He may take your reasoning and show you where you are wrong.  Whatever happens...even if he admits he did something wrong and apologizes to you for it...there is no punishment of a dominant by a submissive.

Were I to walk into a situation such as the one you describe, I guarantee I would be fighting like hell.  And even if they did overpower me, tape my eyes open and force my head into a position where I had to watch...I can tell you that the submissive would be gone from me, at the very least.  There would be a strong possibility that her cohorts would be identified to the police.

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:28:54 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		That does seem rather odd...why on earth would a submissive want to punish his/her Master?

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:31:59 PM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

Sit down for this one:

What is a good way for a submissive to punish her Master?


Do you think that surprising him with 2 Men waiting for him who will then overpower him, and have their way with the submissive while her Master has to helplessly watch, would do the trick?


I read this and thought it had to be a joke. Then I read your profile and was not sure.

All I can say is that any submissive that did something like this would have to be prepared for the end of her relationship with her Master. I cannot see any Master forgiving something like that joke or not.

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:35:37 PM   
scottjk


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Status: offline 		Woah...

I did NOT expect to see John Warren on this site.

Hiya! :)

Okay, the question...

Woah...

I hope it was an intellectual question, and not trolling for ideas. I would HATE to think that some one was looking for revenge on some one under the guise of 'punishing a dom'.

When we get into this lifestyle, and this type of relationship, I'm assuming that all parties know that mistakes will be made in spirit of good intentions. However, if any member of the relationship decides that good intentions are not on the agenda, it's time to bail and pull the ripcord.

Something like this scares the hell out of me, honestly. As a dom, if a sub said something like this to me, I would seriously question her internal motivations almost instantly, out of fear for my safety and freedom. My trust in my sub would be rattled severely.

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:43:54 PM   
kinkntwist


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ORIGINAL: susie
I read this and thought it had to be a joke. Then I read your profile and was not sure.



This was a serious question, Did you enjoy the profile, btw?

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:57:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		All I have to say is ... What the hell?   Okay, no that's not all I have to say ... but still ... What the HELL?  Why would you be in a Dominant/submissive relationship .... you being the submissive if you wanted to punish your Dom?  I'm seriously baffled ... What the HELL?  *laughs* I can't even begin to explain how stupid this question is to me.   If you feel the need to be in some sort of control then maybe you should explore being a switch .... but this question just sounds like you are seeking some sort of revenge ... and revenge is bad in ANYYYY relationship be it D/s .. M/s ... Top/Bottom ... vanilla ... what the freak ever relationship. 

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:58:17 PM   
Evanesce


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quote:

Do you think that surprising him with 2 Men waiting for him who will then overpower him, and have their way with the submissive while her Master has to helplessly watch, would do the trick?


Hey!  That would be a great trick!  You know what would be even better?  The trick your Master plays when he picks up the phone and dials 911, because what you're describing here will put your cohorts in prison for a while.  And I'd venture a guess that you'd be, at the very least, looking for a new Master.
 
A slave punishing a dominant, indeed.  I'm with John Warren.  Walk away until you can buy yourself a clue.

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 3:58:51 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		I would like to know why you would want to inflict that kind of trauma onto someone. Unless the dominant knew about it ahead of time, this crosses all sorts consent bounderies. Not to mention being the only time in my life I feel comfortable calling something topping from the bottom and I hate that phrase...

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 4:03:20 PM   
jadein


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I would like to know why you would to inflict that kind of trauma onto someone. Unless the dominant knew about it ahead of time, this crosses all sorts consent bounderies. Not to mention being the only time in my life I feel comfortable calling something topping from the bottom and I hate that phrase...


That was my thoughts exactly and I too hate the phrase Topping from the bottom.  I'm still going ... What the Hell?

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 4:07:42 PM   
cjenny


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ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

quote:

ORIGINAL: susie
I read this and thought it had to be a joke. Then I read your profile and was not sure.



This was a serious question, Did you enjoy the profile, btw?


I have to admit, reading the profile was helpful.

I think? Maybe I just said that cuz I'm scared?

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 4:13:51 PM   
MASTERLJ


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Status: offline 		OK................WTF???!?? If my slave did that.......she would no longer be my slave, or my wife for that matter. And i would be in jail for blowing 2 men away with a shotgun or slicing them with a hunting knife. I would quite literally kill someone who was in my house, uninvited and unknown to me, and waiting to jump me. And i would rather kill myself than be forced to watch someone "have their way" with my slave........WTF is wrong with you.
AND, since when do slaves/subs punish the master? Hello? geezz..........thought i heard everything..........oh yeah, and nobody has yet told me how to make those quote boxes...lol

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 4:16:36 PM   
onestandingstill


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

Sit down for this one:

What is a good way for a submissive to punish her Master?


Do you think that surprising him with 2 Men waiting for him who will then overpower him, and have their way with the submissive while her Master has to helplessly watch, would do the trick?

IF  
Very big if
for any reason under God's green earth he's done something that you feel waaaayyyy crossed that line for you, you leave him, and end your submission to him, taking back your will and life from his control.
That's the only thing you have the right to do to punish your Dom/Master if you're a submissive to him.
suzanne

 

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RE: Another fancy Question for experts - 2/22/2007 4:17:11 PM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		Click the quote button over the post you want to quote, then type after the last [quote/] bit. Voila, a quote!

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