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RE: Being collared and going to college -- will it work? - 2/23/2007 4:05:26 PM

MadamTee

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My dear ... As a Mistress of many years experience currently in the teaching phase, it is My opinion that your college education is quite an important asset to you and to your Mistress.

When I have a woman who is in college, they are told that they are expected to do well in each of their subjects ... that their attitude and example are a reflection on Me. Time is set aside for their study and sessions are, in a way, 'secondary' to their educational pursuits.

They are punished for low achievement or missing class without reason or approval by Me ... they are ordered what to wear {not slutty} and while they normally wear no panties, if they are to meet with the dean or like person, they will wear them.

If your Mistress would like more thoughts on this, do let Me know.

May wisdome always be your guide...

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RE: Being collared and going to college -- will it work? - 2/23/2007 6:36:21 PM

Belphagor

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It can work easily. I have a wonderful, loving, caring Mistress, i work fulltime and study about 25-30 hours a week completing my PhD, so any one can do it. Thinking about my Mistress does not distract me and when i am with my Mistress she understands how important my study is and encouranges and enables me to do it. Sometimes she puts me in bondage for the whole day whilst i complete my research work... which is fun for both of us and i usually wear her collar when i am studying... maybe u can do something like that. Although the real trick is to make time for ur Mistress and make her feel important in your life. When i have conference papers etc. due, it does not hurt to take 10 minutes to send an email and tell her how u feel and how much u appreciate her or to take a 15 minute break and go and kiss her feet or something similar. It is not as difficult as it sounds... go for it and make the most of it...

Belphagor

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RE: Being collared and going to college -- will it work? - 2/23/2007 7:38:35 PM

ChainedExistence

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Of Course it interferes with college....LIFE interferes with college, but it's like anything else. You manage your time the best you can, and you know that at some point, school will be over, and something else can interfere! Everything is about choices..choose who you are with wisely and they will respect the time and effort that you put in school, and perhaps give you the tools and motivation to experience even greater success with it. Best of luck with your education and your relationship!

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RE: Being collared and going to college -- will it work? - 2/24/2007 12:04:22 PM

PhDslave

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Belphagor, what a great posting.

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RE: Being collared and going to college -- will it work? - 2/24/2007 12:11:33 PM

Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: Vjklander

I wouldn't say education is more important than a D/s relationship. I see them as complementary.

Exactly.

I finally got on strumpet a few months ago about the fact that while she talked a lot about going back to graduate school, she had not actually done anything to make it happen.

I gave her a list of things to do, which she is diligently working on.

When graduate school happens, the dynamic will change to accomodate it.

Sinergy

p.s. I would apply to go back to graduate school but I dont know yet when I will be elevated to Class A (non probationary) status in the union. Once I cross that hurdle, it will be time to start sending out applications.

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RE: Being collared and going to college -- will it work? - 2/25/2007 5:45:17 PM

MadameMonique

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fortifiedsqual,

My boy (Belphagor) is persuing his PHD, so this is a thread we are both able to comment on from experiance, He has presented his perspective for you and brought the thread to my attention.

I took my boy on knowing full well that he is studing and that is a priority in his life. As long as you are upfront about the demands and constraints that your study demands of you so your Mistress has a clear idea of your situation then there should be no problem. I not only demand to know my boys "time table" and "grades" but also how he is going with something. If he is stuggling with a paper or presentation I know that these are times that it would be unrealistic for me to put extra demands on him.

Both your education and your relationship are equally as important but sometimes in "the momment" one has to have priority over the other. When there is a reseach paper due or an upcomming confrence he must present at - these times his study comes first and formost, I dont compete with his study, I find ways to involve myself in it - He often studies in my collar, "dedicated study times" and big sessions as a reward for us both.... He tends to find this motivating and planning it keeps me busy while he is studying!

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