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The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:04:40 PM   
WhiplashSmile


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Status: offline 		I was wondering what others think about in terms of the "sensual and erotic sides of BDSM".  Be it favorite activities, or erotic art and writtings. 

One of my favorite activities is drawing on the body with pens! 

The use canope beds for bondage, or even open french doors as opposed to dungeon play?

Where massages fit into BDSM... and etc...





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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:18:15 PM   
juliaoceania


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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:31:34 PM   
sillygirl09


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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:41:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Talking about a sensual and erotic side implies there is some other undefined side, so I wonder what that is.

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:42:28 PM   
jadein


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Status: offline 		I've just recently been getting into stockings (not nylons or pantyhose) and garters and corsets and the idea of having a Dom (Daddy Dom in my case) pick those things out for me ... helping me dress in the things he's picked, so and so forth.  Stockings are so sexy and feel so sweet and womanly ... even the process of putting on these sexy things is very erotic ... at least to me.   *laughs* the interest in this has gotten so bad I've done research on stocking "lingo" and how to properly care for and put on such attire.

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:46:21 PM   
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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:49:17 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		mmmmmmmm yeah, I never wore stockings much, more when I was skinny, and James my Daddy dom wants to see me in some. We're looking for thigh high or knee high boots. Discovering new things can be deliciouis. I think I have an undiscovered shoe fetish.

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I've just recently been getting into stockings (not nylons or pantyhose) and garters and corsets and the idea of having a Dom (Daddy Dom in my case) pick those things out for me

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:50:25 PM   
azzmaster


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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:51:17 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:54:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

mmmmmmmm yeah, I never wore stockings much, more when I was skinny, and James my Daddy dom wants to see me in some. We're looking for thigh high or knee high boots. Discovering new things can be deliciouis. I think I have an undiscovered shoe fetish.

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ORIGINAL: jadein

I've just recently been getting into stockings (not nylons or pantyhose) and garters and corsets and the idea of having a Dom (Daddy Dom in my case) pick those things out for me



Ohhh Yummmy yummy ... yes I just recently discovered my shoe fetish ... I think for awhile I avoided stockings and lovely high heels because well ... I'm a big girl and have struggled with my body image for quite sometime.  I think I thought I would look clumsy in heels and that I couldn't find stockings to fit me.  I've found some wonderful plus size sites though. 

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 6:58:05 PM   
jadein


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Status: offline 		Ohhh yes yes ... I belong to another lifestyle forum group and there is a whole thread called Stockings 101 and one of the lovely subbies there put in all this really wonderful and useful information.  

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 7:09:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: happypervert

Talking about a sensual and erotic side implies there is some other undefined side, so I wonder what that is.


Primal?

Actually I think there are more than just two sides, but primal was the opposite option which came to mind.

And I love when he allows me to be sensual with him - by way of giving him a massage, cat bath, etc.  I love the intimacy and connection during such moments.  It soothes me to see him relax in such tranquil pleasure.

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 7:52:11 PM   
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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 7:57:13 PM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I was wondering what others think about in terms of the "sensual and erotic sides of BDSM".  Be it favorite activities, or erotic art and writtings. 

One of my favorite activities is drawing on the body with pens! 

The use canope beds for bondage, or even open french doors as opposed to dungeon play?

Where massages fit into BDSM... and etc...


I love sensory play.

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 8:15:17 PM   
MasterC70


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Status: offline 		I think just having a woman strip nude and roam around while you watch is pretty erotic.  I mean, I'm sure most women are pretty limber to begin with but I think they move with more fluid grace with no clothes to restrict their movement.

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 10:56:02 PM   
SimplyMichael


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  1. Being bathed with the scrubby gloves you get from Bed and Bath and then lovingly dried off afterwards.
  2. Brushing her hair while she sits at my feet
  3. All of my ropes have whipped ends that are very soft and depending on how the rope is laid on can be very sensual and erotic
  4. During a sadistic scene whispering about some sensual and erotic act
  5. During a sensual and erotic scene whispering about something cruel and sadistic
  6. Taking her to the Lancolme counter and having her all done up exactly how I want
  7. slowly cutting her clothes from her body, using the blade of the knife on her skin in a sensual way combined with the erotic risk of that same blade.
  8. Making vegan ravioli from scratch
  9. Playing with only my hands, my mouth, my creativity, no toys
  10. Playing with toys like my peacock feathered hand fan.
  11. Using analine dye paint on her some mark of mine
  12. Spanking her hard as hell, throwing my whole body into and then throwing my whole body into the next blow but not landing it.

And to imagine people calling me a fluffy dom!

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/22/2007 11:22:06 PM   
AZSweetie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
  1. Being bathed with the scrubby gloves you get from Bed and Bath and then lovingly dried off afterwards.
  2. Brushing her hair while she sits at my feet
  3. All of my ropes have whipped ends that are very soft and depending on how the rope is laid on can be very sensual and erotic
  4. During a sadistic scene whispering about some sensual and erotic act
  5. During a sensual and erotic scene whispering about something cruel and sadistic
  6. Taking her to the Lancolme counter and having her all done up exactly how I want
  7. slowly cutting her clothes from her body, using the blade of the knife on her skin in a sensual way combined with the erotic risk of that same blade.
  8. Making vegan ravioli from scratch
  9. Playing with only my hands, my mouth, my creativity, no toys
  10. Playing with toys like my peacock feathered hand fan.
  11. Using analine dye paint on her some mark of mine
  12. Spanking her hard as hell, throwing my whole body into and then throwing my whole body into the next blow but not landing it.


And to imagine people calling me a fluffy dom!


EVERY FRICKEN THING THAT MICHAEL SAID!!!

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/23/2007 12:13:54 AM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

I was wondering what others think about in terms of the "sensual and erotic sides of BDSM".  Be it favorite activities, or erotic art and writtings. 

One of my favorite activities is drawing on the body with pens! 

The use canope beds for bondage, or even open french doors as opposed to dungeon play?

Where massages fit into BDSM... and etc...


It has it's place as does raw and savage, fun and silly and every other combination. Variety is the spice of life, after all! I wouldn't want a steady diet of any one aspect because I think it would tend to get stale, so changing things up, doing the unexpected .. all good in my book. :)

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/23/2007 4:06:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sensual and erotic are good.

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RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM - 2/23/2007 4:22:52 AM   
Badkitty0810


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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
  1. Being bathed with the scrubby gloves you get from Bed and Bath and then lovingly dried off afterwards.
  2. Brushing her hair while she sits at my feet
  3. All of my ropes have whipped ends that are very soft and depending on how the rope is laid on can be very sensual and erotic
  4. During a sadistic scene whispering about some sensual and erotic act
  5. During a sensual and erotic scene whispering about something cruel and sadistic
  6. Taking her to the Lancolme counter and having her all done up exactly how I want
  7. slowly cutting her clothes from her body, using the blade of the knife on her skin in a sensual way combined with the erotic risk of that same blade.
  8. Making vegan ravioli from scratch
  9. Playing with only my hands, my mouth, my creativity, no toys
  10. Playing with toys like my peacock feathered hand fan.
  11. Using analine dye paint on her some mark of mine
  12. Spanking her hard as hell, throwing my whole body into and then throwing my whole body into the next blow but not landing it.

And to imagine people calling me a fluffy dom!


*sigh* I think I'm in luuurrrve    LOL

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