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Elorin -> RE: The Sensual and Erotic side of BDSM (2/23/2007 4:48:38 AM)
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The majority of BDSM that Sir and I engage in on a daily basis is on the sensual and erotic side, whereas the more S&M play is reserved for parties or the rarer moments. Some of the things I do on a daily basis include:
1) Taking his shoes off at the end of the day, taking off his socks, and giving a foot massage. I also scratch his ankles where the elastic on the socks left marks. Sometimes this leads to foot worship - kissing, licking, and sucking his toes and feet - and sometimes it is just cool fingers across hot sweaty feet to help him unwind.
2) Shower servant is one of our favorite intimate sharing times. I use the scrubby gloves Michael mentioned before, and I scrub him down, from the back of his neck to the bottoms of his feet, including his armpits and genitals, and then I rinse the gloves and rinse him with one clean glove and one bare hand, making sure all the slick soap residue is off of his skin the way Sir likes. Sir rinses his own wedding tackle to his satisfaction. ~s~ I also shave the back of his neck for him when the hair grows out there.
3) Body massages are a regular part of our life, and have been since long before I was his sub. Now it is a part of service for me. Sometimes I just do spot massages, trying to relax a very tight or cramping muscle, and sometimes I just give an overall back massage as a chance for us to be close and touching. It used to be about once a month but now is more infrequent, that I give an all over body massage, lasting about an hour, including arms, hands, scalp, feet, and all the bits in between.
Body worship is an even rarer thing that we share, but when we do it's always intensely intimate and powerful.
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