petstorm -> RE: asking Dom... (2/26/2007 8:09:30 AM)
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Well, i was actually trained by a Gorean, for those of you who are familiar with the lifestyle. i'm also a firm believer in open communication. Needless to say, i knew before it happened that he wanted to be my Master. Honestly, without protocol, i was his long before then because that's what was in my heart, and i knew it was in his. i kneeled in a dark room lit only by candlelight, and i offered myself, my gift of submission. i don't think i'll ever forget that day, or how softly he touched my face. The way his eyes shined, the warmth in his smile when he looked down at me and said quite simply "Yes, my pet. You ARE mine." Do i think there's a right or wrong way to do this? Nope... but i do believe it has to come from the heart. And when it does, it'll be perfect. Much like a marriage proposal i suppose. i know many people have "traditional" means, and others follow portocol and what's generally accepted. Some have a formal collaring ceremony, and others simply go with the whole "Hey, you wanna? Sure." Done deal thing. Find what's inside of you, and run with it. It'll be a day that you won't forget too.
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