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RE: asking Dom... - 2/23/2007 8:32:07 PM

michaels4evr

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Do what feels comfortable to you..you could write a petition, kneel naked before Him, or simply ask. If its coming from the heart I am sure He will appreciate the gesture..

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RE: asking Dom... - 2/23/2007 9:02:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
Maybe this is a personal flaw, I have just decided that it should not be important to me unless it is important to them. And I was raised to be old fashioned and found it served me better to be that way...lol

Well that makes sense to me- since it's not important to you unless it's important to them, therefore you wouldn't have a reason to bring it up.

You and I disagree on a lot of methods, but agree almost always on the principle. :)

And I'm the queen of "If it works for you, go for it." I just think women should get out of the age where they agonize and get into the age of direct communication when they have something important to communicate.

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RE: asking Dom... - 2/25/2007 9:20:07 PM

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Ask, but be respectful about it. As a Domme, if a male sub asks politely and with respect, I will usually answer him. However, if he just e-mails me and says I want to lick your pussy - I immediately delete his e-mail. If he cannot respect me for my position and his then he is not worth my time.

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RE: asking Dom... - 2/26/2007 8:09:30 AM

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Well, i was actually trained by a Gorean, for those of you who are familiar with the lifestyle. i'm also a firm believer in open communication. Needless to say, i knew before it happened that he wanted to be my Master. Honestly, without protocol, i was his long before then because that's what was in my heart, and i knew it was in his.

i kneeled in a dark room lit only by candlelight, and i offered myself, my gift of submission.

i don't think i'll ever forget that day, or how softly he touched my face. The way his eyes shined, the warmth in his smile when he looked down at me and said quite simply "Yes, my pet. You ARE mine."

Do i think there's a right or wrong way to do this? Nope... but i do believe it has to come from the heart. And when it does, it'll be perfect. Much like a marriage proposal i suppose. i know many people have "traditional" means, and others follow portocol and what's generally accepted. Some have a formal collaring ceremony, and others simply go with the whole "Hey, you wanna? Sure." Done deal thing.

Find what's inside of you, and run with it. It'll be a day that you won't forget too.

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