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Butterthemuffin -> How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 2:00:35 PM)
I am in love with the woman who wishes to be my sub, This is the first D/s relationship for me and it is So intoxicating. What things does a Dom need to say to you to make you his?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 2:04:44 PM)
Just be yourself. If a relationship is to work long term, it must be on its own merits. Keep open communication and go where you feel is best.

AquaticSub -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 2:19:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Butterthemuffin I am in love with the woman who wishes to be my sub, This is the first D/s relationship for me and it is So intoxicating. What things does a Dom need to say to you to make you his? Generally, Valyraen just says "My kitten! Mine!" as he comes up behind me to give me a pounce-hug.

BabyNyla -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 2:23:39 PM)
hmmm ... one night on the phone my hubby (not hubby at the time obviously) said to me ... "so are we boyfriend/girlfriend now?" ... and I said sure ... so that was that.

mystiquenz -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 3:53:09 PM)
W/we are all different ... You will find your own way, that is unique to you and your lady ... Enjoy the romance! Is there such a thing, romance and ownership ... depends where you are, and where you have been and what may be in the future ... silly romantic notions ... dismisses them and carries on with the cleaning!

sillygirl09 -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 5:18:12 PM)
When I was with my last Master it just hit me one time in my head suddenly my voice was just saying over and over in my head "he owns you" this was during play and afterwards when we were cuddling I expressed it to him and he said he felt it too. We were very deeply in love before I felt the true ownership if that helps you at all.

slaveish -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 6:11:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Butterthemuffin What things does a Dom need to say to you to make you his? Ohhhhh, something like "I have the rope, the hood, the clicker, and a stopwatch. Ready? Perform."

FukinTroll -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 6:13:38 PM)
Get a receipt. You never know.

goodpet -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 6:58:27 PM)
Words often wispered sound the loudest. you are mine. you belong to me. i want you. Mmmm i love owning you. what ever feels natural to you wispered when holding her. anyways. works for me.. try a few things and see what works for you and what make her heart race... good luck and enjoy the ride.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/23/2007 7:14:31 PM)
Hummmm..[8\|]....I dont know..how about...grabbing her by the hair, throwing her to the floor and sitting on her until she agrees?...or...you could just be yourself as LA said and let it all stand on its own merits...Tempting

losttreasure -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 12:08:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodpet Words often wispered sound the loudest. you are mine. you belong to me. i want you. Mmmm i love owning you. what ever feels natural to you wispered when holding her. anyways. works for me.. try a few things and see what works for you and what make her heart race... Oh, yes! I absolutely love hearing the simple word, "mine". [:D]

happypervert -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 6:18:24 AM)
quote: I dont know..how about...grabbing her by the hair, throwing her to the floor and sitting on her until she agrees?. I was thinking of something along those lines too. He really asks two questions -- in the subject line about taking ownership, but then in the post he asks what to say. He's probably done enough talking since he says she wants to be his sub, so just shut up and take her!

chainedfarida -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 8:53:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Butterthemuffin What things does a Dom need to say to you to make you his? i think she is already Yours, there is nothing You need to say. forever far

chainedfarida -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 8:55:22 AM)
i love romance......what can i say

DeLust241 -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 9:04:26 AM)
Like many have said...the word mine can be very powerful. When I was told by my Master that I was His Kitten the feelings and everythig change, but always for the better Id hope. DeLust Collared Sub

petstorm -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 11:55:59 AM)
This girl offered her gift of submission, kneeling before her Master. But in truth, i belonged to him long before that because my heart was already in his hands. The first time he whispered "my pet" in my ear, it took my breath away. It still does. i AM his. It can be something that simply happens on it's own, or something that is verbally communicated in some way. If you truly wish to take possession of her, then it's worth asking her to belong to you... perhaps offering her a collar as a symbol of your dedication and of the love you two share. Best wish to you both....

proudsub -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 12:16:45 PM)
quote: What things does a Dom need to say to you to make you his? How about something like "Let me put this collar on you my sweet bitch"

substantialuuuu -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 12:30:12 PM)
For me it is never so much about what you say as the way you say it. Said with confidence and joy it becomes so much more real than when it is uttered in a mumbling stammer that says he is not sure.

MagiksSlave -> RE: How do I take ownership (2/24/2007 11:52:49 PM)
OK you seem new and rather confused you seem to think there is this cookie cutter mold for Doms and subs and that is gunna get you burnt... all this insecurity that is creeping out in these threads you have started is rather un becoming in a Dom (not that Doms cant have insecuritys but is un cool to project them like this) and to adress the title of the thread you cant take ownership of this girl she has to give it to you. Magik's slave

amayos -> RE: How do I take ownership? (2/25/2007 10:56:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Butterthemuffin I am in love with the woman who wishes to be my sub. This is the first D/s relationship for me and it is so intoxicating. What things does a Dom need to say to you to make you his? A more effective exploration would be to consider what a dominant male is. When this prevails inside you, the words and actions of a dominant male come naturally.

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