azzmaster -> RE: How do I dominate a woman I love? (2/26/2007 12:40:10 AM)
the sub is sposed to please u. when she does, u ask her how she would like to be rewarded. its quite simple. if the sub doesn't want to please u. she is not ur sub. which is cool, just be clear on the concept of D/s, and try anything that tickles ur fancy
Daddysjezzy -> RE: How do I dominate a woman I love? (2/26/2007 12:58:09 AM)
I agree that talking about likes and dislikes and needs and wants is an ongoing process. My Dominant also gets me to write him a daily journal of my thoughts and fantasies for the day. Sometimes I write him stories about a kink or fetish of his choosing usually with us as the central characters. Its fun and you can explore your own desires in a non-threatening way. Good luck
WhiplashSmile -> RE: How do I dominate a woman I love? (2/27/2007 9:29:33 PM)
First, you need to get your mind deprogrammed from the stereotypes you have about BDSM lifestyles. Second, if this is something you read or somebody which told you this is the way it works... stop reading that crap or listening to that person.
You are doing the right thing, using this message board! You have already had some great advice!!