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subpete -> Male Chastity (3/20/2005 3:41:34 AM)
As a recent convert into having my penis locked away into a curve and having my erections and more importantly orgasms denied me, i was wondering about duration times for wearing such devices, from both a cleanliness point of view, to a health point of view. I have been locked away now for 5 weeks and dont see any signs yet that i deserve to have this situation changed. your comments would be gratefull from both mistresses and current males wearers

iwillserveu -> RE: Male Chastity (3/20/2005 5:01:53 PM)
General rule of thumb is in two weeks you should be at least milked for the health or your prostate. Actual times vary widely. In other news, if you are approaching that time of life where the Doctor checks your protate, it might be advisable to be milked first so he does not unwitingly milk you. (I never even heard of this happening, but I don't think you'd want to be the first.[:)])

GentleLady -> RE: Male Chastity (3/20/2005 6:15:25 PM)
subpete, I am a touch confused about something. your profile states that you are looking for a Dominant woman which implies that you do not currently have one in your life. If so, then who put the chastity device on you? If you did yourself then I would like to suggest that you do some research before you do anything else to yourself. you did indicate that you are new to things. Gentle Lady

JennyA -> RE: Male Chastity (3/22/2005 12:33:31 AM)
pete, from a cleanliness point of view, you can clean yourself while wearing the curve, try some hand pump soap and q-tips. As far as from a healthy standpoint, I seriously recommend that you ask an MD medical doctor. I have heard some doctors say that a good prostate massage is healthy and keeps things the prostate strong, healthy and soft. I have heard other doctors say that prostate massage does not help at all, and can even be dangerous. So I would ask a doctor that you trust. Now, as a woman I don't know about it's healthy effects, but for me it sure is fun to give a guy a good prostate massage. Please feel free to email me, I will reply to all from collarme. Jennifer Anderson pic attachment deleted due to TOS violation

subpete -> RE: Male Chastity (3/23/2005 12:59:08 PM)
thank you for taking the time to read my mesage.I do hope you will permit me to clear up my current situation. I am now into week 5.5 with my penis locked away into a curve, which was purchased for me by my best friend (ex g/friend - now 40 year old un-happily married)who had known of my interest in male chasity now for some time , as we have discussed this on several occasions. After a drunken evening together, this curve was produced and after being orders to 'masterbate on last time' was then locked away and told to enjoy and suffer, which i am currently doing, so my real question is, that given that i have no health problems and i am not trying to break any records here, what are safe lengths of time that males are/have been or currently locked away being denied erections and orgasms for?? to sum up, i would dearly like to serve someone, as the longer i am kept in the state, the more attentive and alert i am to my friends needs, not to mention the 'unfare' teasing that she has now started to me again, your thoughts and comments are very much appreciated

SweetDommes -> RE: Male Chastity (3/23/2005 1:09:31 PM)
My advice as an RN is this: Cleanliness isn't a big issue, as you can wash around it as someone else pointed out. I would have it removed at least every other week though, to do a 'thorough' cleaning - and I have seen places that advice every week, but every other should be good enough. My concern would be the lack of orgasm/milking/whatever. Being denied release can cause enlargement of the prostate which can lead to prostate problems including cancer. Milking normally counts as release (I have heard that it doesn't do any good, but I have never heard of anyone saying that it is dangerous) and it is definitely better than nothing at all. And forced masturbation/orgasm can be built in as a part of chastity - you aren't actually having sex, and she still has control of your sexuality.

ducky -> RE: Male Chastity (3/24/2005 11:00:55 AM)
the subject of milking or not seems to be a popular topic...not just here but on other sites. the idea is to maintain a healthy prostate. i have not seen any discussion regarding those males like myself who have had a vasectomy. my doctor never said "you have to be milked to get rid of semen and to remain healthy". my body somehow gets rid of it naturally without any discharge (lol, it can't get out). i have always had normal prostate test results...the point is, is it really true a male has to be milked for health reasons?

SweetDommes -> RE: Male Chastity (3/24/2005 1:20:44 PM)
A vasectomy doesn't affect the prostate - it's not the sperm that you are getting rid of when milking the prostate, it's the rest of the semen and a vasectomy only prevents the sperm from getting into the semen. If you should happen to start having problems with your prostate, such as enlargement, consticture of the urethra at the point of the prostate, etc., the treatment is more frequent orgasms - most doctors that I know of would count milking the prostate as an orgasm although not all do. Since the treatment for a variety of prostate problems (including most of the ones that have been shown to lead to cancer) is increased frequency of orgasm, it is rather logical that frequent orgasm/milking would help prevent such problems (not entirely, but every little bit helps, right?).

ducky -> RE: Male Chastity (3/24/2005 3:36:32 PM)
SweetDommes, thank you for the clarification and education. perhaps i should have known this previously. my bad...

highheelfan -> RE: Male Chastity (3/24/2005 4:17:32 PM)
One should note that if you are not circumsized this could prevent proper cleaning and any chastity device that does not allow cleansing, should be aproached with caution. The cb2000 does not allow this and i assume the 3000 also.

subpete -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 3:51:12 AM)
So i now get the milking for the male prosate reasons - so why do i read online that males have been locked away for months on end, without release - or is this just fiction?

SweetDommes -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 7:44:26 AM)
It's probably not just fiction, but it's also not healthy ... I would definitely advise against it (but y'all already knew that from my previous posts). And Ducky - no problem ... most people don't have the background in anatomy/physiology that a nurse has, and most people don't want it either LOL As long as people don't discount evidence and knowledge from someone who has more education on a particular topic, I don't mind explaining things ... the only time I do mind is when someone refuses to listen to/believe information that cannot be refuted (in fact, I lost my job over that about a week ago - blah).

ducky -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 10:57:50 AM)
SweetDommes, very sorry to hear about your job. sometimes the principle of a matter is more important. good luck getting a new position!

MsCameron -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 12:20:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subpete So i now get the milking for the male prosate reasons - so why do i read online that males have been locked away for months on end, without release - or is this just fiction? If you go to the poll area of the boards there is a thread by Sissymaidlola on Chastity and milking. There's a lot of information including studies on prostate health. MsC

onceburned -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 2:29:37 PM)
The thread that MsCameron refers to is titled Sissy Maid Poll... the conversation simply has wandered a bit [:D] http://www.collarme.com/forum/Sissy_Maid_Poll_%231/m_74915/tm.htm

MsCameron -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 3:42:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onceburned The thread that MsCameron refers to is titled Sissy Maid Poll... the conversation simply has wandered a bit [:D] http://www.collarme.com/forum/Sissy_Maid_Poll_%231/m_74915/tm.htm Thanks, I was coming back to edit in the name of the poll but got busy. MsC

onceburned -> RE: Male Chastity (3/25/2005 4:45:15 PM)
I wasn't going to say anything, but I had just finished adding two messages to the thread, and I figured that this would be a way of directing traffic to them. [sm=tongue.gif]

GentleLady -> RE: Male Chastity (3/27/2005 3:38:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes ... the only time I do mind is when someone refuses to listen to/believe information that cannot be refuted (in fact, I lost my job over that about a week ago - blah). I did not think that anyone would ignore or disbelieve basic knowledge of physiology but people constantly surprise Me. I am sorry to hear of what happened and have some idea of how You must be feeling. A couple of years ago I was hired based on My university degree and knowledge....a year later I was fired because the supervisor would not accept the fact that I did have that university degree and knowledge. Although she could not testify in court, I could and this was resented. It took Me awhile to get over the anger and disgust. Gentle Lady

SweetDommes -> RE: Male Chastity (3/27/2005 8:49:36 AM)
The guy who did this was a 20 year old puppy (which is insulting our dog, but I wouldn't dare insult our boy by calling him a boy) - who was convinced that whole night that he was right because HE WAS RIGHT (one of those fun types). At least he got fired because of the incident too.

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