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Brand New Day! - 2/23/2007 7:47:01 PM   
SCDommie


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Status: offline 		Greetings Ladies:

I am excited that tomorrow my slave, My Journey Slave, aka slave_brian and I will renew our Mistress/slave contract. 
The contract has been revised as follows: 
He will enter into 24/7 full chasity.  I am the only one who holds the key to the cb3000 in black.   He has a Male Maids uniform which he will make dinner for me and serve dinner to my guests and myself in that uniform. 
I am proud of him.  He and I have overcome some basic struggles, and I have finally reached the point to where I will be excited to have in in full chasity.
One other thing to note, MyJourneySlave aka slave_brian, will not be available to anyone emailing him without my knowledge or consent.  He is allowed in the FemDom_forum chatroom.  He is not allowed in the subs looking for Dommes chatroom. 
This is not a post designed to brag, degrade, or anger any Mistress.  I am wanting Dommes to be aware that he is my property, and if he comes to you, please let me know right here in my CM mailbox.

Respectfully

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/23/2007 9:37:39 PM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		I am curious, do you have trust issues with your submissive online?
If not, why is he not allowed to go in certain chat rooms?
I don't know how you control someone you can't trust.  You can't stop people from approaching him,
but you can stop him from responding to other Domina's.
All he has to do is clearly state that he is taken and not interested.
Is he capable of doing this?

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/23/2007 9:41:54 PM   
BabyNyla


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I would have to ask the same thing ... I always feel like Dom/mes are worried someone will steal their property ... so they make those little controlling rules.  If my Daddy did that to me, I would feel like he didn't' trust me ... which would make me re-evaluate our relationship.  He should know that I will never do anything to hurt or disrespect him.  And when I was a Domme with subs of my own, I never cared about what rooms they were in and who they chated with ... I knew they would never do anything that would hurt me and I trusted them.


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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/23/2007 11:57:14 PM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		 I hope you have a good day tomorrow. Reaching milestones is great I bet your are very  proud!!!
I think the others have a point about allowing him to talk to others,  I admit I get uncomfortable sometimes if my boy has been messaged by another mistress but then, if it was a vanilla relationship i would get upset by a woman apporaching him then.  Then again its your rules so you do it your way    I find allowing my boy to talk freely on chat rooms etc helps us when he has a problem he may feel he cant come to me with, or if he needs advice about something we are going to do and needs extra encouragement, the same as I get from participating in the same.

Im glad your getting along with the cb3000  its something we are tring very hard to use easier as I want him in 24/7 and he is keen to be like that.  We are just having a few problems with it being very very uncomfrtable on the balls  If you have any advice it would be most appreciated

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 6:03:13 AM   
draba


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Status: offline 		My Mistress expects me to discuss problems with her first, before asking in chatrooms. In fact, I am not allowed on chatrooms and only recently was permitted to use forums. She feels she should know about issues and problems first, since she is my Mistress. She checks my post on occasion to make sure. I always tell her when I've posted. She is also interested in the advice I recieve from others.
Canupleaseme -- I have used a CB 2000 and found it took awhile to get the right fit. Try using no spacers. That works for me. I gives a loose fit. With the right ring that fits around the testicles and penis (Ring A?), it can not fall off.

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 6:05:02 AM   
SCDommie


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Status: offline 		I don't have trust issues with him, but other Dommes.  One of my former acquaintenances is in love with him, and I would prefer that he stay away from other Dommes.  That is very simple and not meant to be hurtful to anyone.  This is a stage we have reached in our two year relationship, and I want full control. I am sure you all will understand.

Thank you.

SCD

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 7:09:57 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		Just My opinion of course - but it's almost like turning a positive into a negative.
 
You're celebrating his submission, and yet you're limiting him even further.  Could he not just stay away from the one Domme who is in love with him?
 
And this is just Me as well...but if a submissive indicates he is with another Domina I back right off.  Just common courtesy.  I understand the feelings of Ownership as well, and I am very protective of what's Mine.  So, I wouldn't want another Domina to feel threatened by Me either.  It's a pity others don't feel that way and *will* try to claim something they know isn't theirs to begin with.
 
So I guess what I'm trying to get at is..yes I know where you're coming from  ::BUT:: after two years of being with this boy...yeah, you gotta trust him.
 
With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 7:21:42 AM   
SCDommie


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Status: offline 		Well Kara:

I have tried to be dipolomatic about this, but I can see it is not going to happen on this forum, and never does.  At times, this can be the cruelest forum  of all.  I do not like that one bit. 

He will be adding his comments to this post sometime today requesting me to grant him additional restrains.  He is a very committed slave. We have a two year relationship, and other than being married, it cannot be  a closer relationship.
I have respected all of your opinions,and the best thing to do in a contract situation which this is a renewal contract where we have guests coming for dinner to observe all of the rituals, is to just be quite and allow me to have my moment in the sun.   I owe you all nothing; however, this slave is now owned property and off limits to other Dommes.  No other comments will follow from me, so if you have opinions on this issue, I do not wish to hear them.   
I don't understand why this forum cannot be a pleasant place for all rather than a point of conflict.  It always is.
That is why I never make statements here, but this was done for my slave.

SCD

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 8:09:40 AM   
MiladyElaine


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Status: offline 		I think some Dommes see a taken boy as a challenge.
I also feel that women subs can get encouragment when men get swayed instead.
Attack Me from all sides but I think the trust issue is different with Male Dom/female subs than it is with Female Domme/male subs.



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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 8:50:57 AM   
DiannaVesta


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From: Mid-Atlantic area
Status: offline 		He's lucky he gets to go online at all. If I placed someone in 24/7 then they would not have time to go online nor would I allow it. I would prefer they do something more constructive with thier time. I've been in the lifestyle quite a number of years and I assure you that allowing them to hang out online only opens the door for trouble IMO. I allow them one hour per day to answer email, do any research needed, etc. Unless of course its part of their work or school.

The only site he/she better be hanging out on is my own. It has nothing to do with trust. They become my property and that is a set rule with me.


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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 8:51:07 AM   
MsKatHouston


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From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		Congratulations on your milestone.

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 9:46:41 AM   
SCDommie


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Status: offline 		Thank you all, and I appreciate the comments.  We have planned all of this very carefully. 

SCD

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 12:34:52 PM   
Misstoyou


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Status: offline 		I read this as a "putting everybody on notice" post, which may not be for everybody, but a specific thread for those so inclined might not be a bad idea.

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 12:45:48 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		wow what trust you have in your boy,a good knot jerked in his ass will keep him at home and are you sure you wish to own anyone that you can't trust...Think about it.smiles..BH

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 12:50:03 PM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		SCDommie:
My purpose was not to inflame or degrade or critique, it was merely to comment and give My opinion.  It was not a bash nor was it a flame and if you read it carefully you will see I actually agree with you.
 
However, having owned two boys - where one's freedoms were totally limited and the other has partial freedoms and can converse with whomever he chooses online (he is not allowed to be intimate with anyone else but Me), I find the latter boy very comfortable in his submission.  The other was not happy.  He *does* love the control, but he loves that I trust him more...if that makes sense!
 
Hope this clears up any negativity - I was just sharing from My point of view.
 
With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 2:25:51 PM   
pinksissyPA


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Status: offline 		Shudder 24/7 chastity.  i have been in chastity but never longer than 3 days as it drives me wild.  Both of my former Owners often required me to serve in front of other Dommes as You are quiring Yours Ms SC.  They even loaned me out at times to other Dommes.

Congratulations,

pink

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 4:23:25 PM   
MyJourneyslave


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   Greetings to all:

     i am slave brian. The property of Mistress Jan. At this very moment, i am locked in a CB3000. i offered this to mistress. it was something i have begged for, for 3 years. The CBb3000 was locked on this evening. I have ACTUALLY  requested, that my chastity be perminant, irrevocable, and coupled with the cruelest teasing and denial that the mind of the human female desires.
    MY desire is the pleasure of Mistress Jan.
    i leave this message for any person, Male or Female:  MISTRESS JAN IS MY QUEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
   What SHE decides to do with me, is no ones business except Hers, and mine.
    i could not be happier at this moment: Mistress has locked me down, and my heart is with Her keys,

   Do not Judge
lest Yea be judged!!
  Go for it!!!
insult Mistress Jan. i am waiting!!!!!



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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 4:36:21 PM   
VeryMercurial


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Status: offline 		you both need help

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 4:52:23 PM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		i can see ur point SC. i suppose i see this in another way.If i had a slave and i saw she was chatting to other dom's in ANY type of flirtatious manner, i would expel her from my household. i would not tell her this.  i feel i would not have to.

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RE: Brand New Day! - 2/24/2007 5:01:06 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		YOU keep sending me nasty email wanting to suck my cock I shall hunt you down and smack your ugly ass...BH

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