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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:51:12 AM   
AquaticSub


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it just seems ironic that there are so many uptite people who don't want graphic sexual postings. i mean be real, this is a BDSM site. if u can't b blood raw on here where can u? think about where u r, this isn't a tea party. now that is not directed at everybody, most of yall r hella cool, just wondering y ANYONE on here would be uptite, it doesn't seem logical


D/s isn't about sex for everyone. If I wanted written wank fodder, I'd go to literotica.com.

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:51:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's really not the members that are the issue. Whether people want sexually explicit or not, the site owner's don't allow it.

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:51:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		ah well, a dom doesn't change up to suit subs, not unless he is a poser that changes up to get maximum response. meanwhile i have gotten 3 interested ass sluts sending me private messages since i posted this. so i m doin just fine thanks

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:51:50 AM   
sharainks


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Status: offline 		The thing is azz many people don't see this as "just" about sex-graphic or otherwise.  Many are interested in the D/s dynamics, some seek to learn other's views on WIITWD.  Other people seeks answers to questions they have about their relationships or ask for input on a question they have.  Some have safety questions and some just like to joke around, shoot the breeze or post on politics or anything else that catches their fancy.

Collarme is wonderful in that regard.  There is a little something for everyone.  When it comes to sex in the end its pretty much about in and out and in and out.  While the reality feels great how much is there to actually say about the topic? 


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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:53:19 AM   
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the question is not about chatspeak, which is quite efficient, but about y peeps get uptite about graphic sex on a BDSM site. lets stick to the subject, luv


well, maybe for the same reason many don't respond to graphic sexual questions in e-mails.. BDSM isn't all about sex.....( for everyone)
( edited because Sinergy had a good point..;)

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:53:46 AM   
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ah well, a dom doesn't change up to suit subs, not unless he is a poser that changes up to get maximum response. meanwhile i have gotten 3 interested ass sluts sending me private messages since i posted this. so i m doin just fine thanks


HEY I am not an ass slut.

lol

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:54:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

its normal chatspeak or textspeak. i didn't make it up i assure u


I hate chatspeak because I view it as raping the English language. I realize that English changes over time, both in it's written and spoken form, however to me this whole "chatspeak" thing is just being lazy. Since I'm quite owned, it really doesn't matter. However, if I weren't owned I simply would not consider submitting to someone who doesn't have time or energy to type two extra letters to say "you", "why", or "are".

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:55:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplySubmissive

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

the question is not about chatspeak, which is quite efficient, but about y peeps get uptite about graphic sex on a BDSM site. lets stick to the subject, luv


well, maybe for the same reason many don't respond to graphic sexual questions in e-mails.. BDSM isn't all about sex.....


On the other hand, SimplySubmissive, BDSM is all about sex for some people.

People do not respond to things they are not interested in responding to.

Sinergy

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:55:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		my theory (and I may be the only one here) is because many people want to post about how they love to give blowjobs, but when you get right down to it, very few people give me blowjobs, and that kinda makes me a little anxious.

Glad to have cleared it up.


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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:56:08 AM   
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I would have to agree with a lot of the comments here ... I usually base how a person is off the way they display themselves on line.  I also agree with the comments that chat speak is lazy ... and why would a sub search for a lazy dom ... but these are just my opinions.  But I also think that texting in a forum is a lot like a profile.  Many people will search over a profile because there is no picture, and they might miss a very good opportunity, but they will never know.  If someone uses "difficult-to-read" font and text speak, other people might read over it as well, and miss your very valuable posts.  But changing your appearance slightly, or making things easier for the majority of people, your thoughts, ideas and opinions may be able to reach more people and perhaps influence them in the end :)


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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:56:32 AM   
Aine


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Status: offline 		Indeed, I think about that as well, Sinergy.
 
But I might as well make some sort of constructive comment regarding the issue at hand.
 
Just because we're all here because of our "lifestyles", doesn't mean everyone does it the same.  Yes, we have free speech here, but at the same time, just because some don't mind being (to me) exsessively vulgar, doesn't mean we all have to be that way or to endure others being that way if we don't want to.
 
There are times and places for it, and perhaps there might be an idea in making a section of the boards where people are more free to be as vulgar as they want.
 
And the other places left to be as un-vulgar as they want.
 
Not a hard concept to me....but that's me.

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:56:52 AM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		to sinergy. whew! i was worried! cause i like u alot more than most people on here. u can dish it out and u can take it. i would hate to have 2 arrest u for any funny bizniss. u put my mind at ease now

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:57:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

On the other hand, SimplySubmissive, BDSM is all about sex for some people.

People do not respond to things they are not interested in responding to.

Sinergy


Very true. Azzmaster, are you talking about people getting annoyed when HNG post things that are supposedly asking for advice when they just want wank fodder, or are you asking about people posting their own illict experiences? It does make a difference in my opinion.

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 10:58:48 AM   
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to sinergy. whew! i was worried! cause i like u alot more than most people on here. u can dish it out and u can take it. i would hate to have 2 arrest u for any funny bizniss. u put my mind at ease now


What I do?

Sinergy

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 11:00:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

my theory (and I may be the only one here) is because many people want to post about how they love to give blowjobs, but when you get right down to it, very few people give me blowjobs, and that kinda makes me a little anxious.

Glad to have cleared it up.

Ron 


lol, world opinion is divided on the matter.

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 11:01:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		if u check back i post about non sexual things as well. not on threads i start but i m a bigtime commenter

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 11:04:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthernGent

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

my theory (and I may be the only one here) is because many people want to post about how they love to give blowjobs, but when you get right down to it, very few people give me blowjobs, and that kinda makes me a little anxious.

Glad to have cleared it up.

Ron 


lol, world opinion is divided on the matter.


Well, NG it takes a village don't it then, Guvnor?
Think globally but act with your dick, locally...
one at a time then.

Ron 


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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 11:08:17 AM   
AquaticSub


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if u check back i post about non sexual things as well. not on threads i start but i m a bigtime commenter


You are a big commenter and most of the things you comment about are actually useful. However it seems like everything you've posted yourself is just about how great anal sex is. That doesn't provoke any thought for me, I already know I like anal sex. It isn't asking a question asides from just "Doesn't everyone love butt sex!" and that's not really a question worth answering. It's just... kinda bland and when you post more then one thread about the same thing it's repetitively bland.

Edited to Add: In my humble opinion of course

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 11:08:45 AM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		ok cjenny, 4 da record, ur not an ass slut. ur beautiful in soul mind and body and i wish u didn't have ur sicknesses cause u deserve better

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RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many u... - 2/24/2007 11:10:25 AM   
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I find chatspeak annoying and lazy as well as incorrectly spelled words.  I also hate profile where the text and background are the same or similar colors.

I don't understand the purpose of posting graphic stories on the forum.  You can most certainly get any question across without getting too graphic.  I have read posts where there isn't even a question attached, it is like people think this is Penthouse forum and they wank off while they are posting their fantasies (which they try to sell off as actual experiences). 

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