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MyMasterStephen -> RE: Falling from their pedestal... (2/25/2007 12:08:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ChainedExistence
Perhaps it might be helpful to know you aren't the first or the last person to question their submission due to a failed relationship.
And, indeed, some of us have questioned our Dominance due to failed relationships.
Yes: shock horror, Doms have feelings too.
I would hazard to suggest that every genuine participant in this Lifestyle has suffered the crushing disappointment of a failed relationship at least once. With our needs being so strong and so individual, it is very VERY rare that two perfectly matched people come together at the first attempt. Sometimes we lie to ourselves and tell ourselves that those niggling little incompatibilities will fade into the background. They don't. Sometimes other people lie to themselves, and tell themselves they can provide what we want despite it not really being "their thing". It doesn't work. And sometimes other people lie to us, and tell us they too want all the things we crave, only to be found out a week, a month, even a year down the line.
Be strong, fi. We are driven to this Lifestyle, and most of us could not turn our backs on it if we tried. When we get knocked down we just have to pick ourselves up again, dust ourselves down, and start again from the beginning. We have no choice.
Stick with it, and it will come good in the end. I hope.
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