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domiguy -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 6:01:19 AM)
I was drunk and I puked....Give a guy a break!...Some people!!!

bandit25 -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 6:03:18 AM)
Nope, they are the fools. Who wouldn't want to meet you?

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 6:08:33 AM)
uh huh you were drunk ...was that you hanging out at the Cubby Bear last night?

curiouslyseeking -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 6:12:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism." What are your pet peeves? *Since you asked..................................[:D]..* *My pet peeve in the "online community" more specifically forums, is.....* *"when submissives choose to do what they want to do, but yet, call it submission, then come to the boards to whine and complain that the dynamic isn't working..."* *"lawdy, lawdy, poor submissive, mean ole Dom"* *When the violin starts my dander goes up.[:D]* On the flip side, not a double standard, when supposedly Dominants are to be in control of themselves and their submisives, but yet do not reflect it in the forums, most assuredly not showing it in real life. shrug...To each His own.

BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 6:17:45 AM)
ITS the pecker heads that won't take a no thanks and get lost,the constance barrage of male slaves seeking to serve us both to get to her..knowing that they are lying about every thing that comes out of their mouths..bounty

mons -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 7:15:29 AM)
greetings to all ok my thing is and i have it bad but let me try at least. it is my writing i am dyslexic . my stucutre of sentence does not always come out right. but i damn well try my best. i had two people i never wrote to tell me out of the blue oh mons is learning disalbe so do not listen or read her post. i was so shocked. then hell who in the world in perfect. i made a mistake with two peolpe i wrote them both and post how sorry i was to make the mistake they expect my replies then some woman comes and writes to me and says ( if you can not understand why is written in front of you reread it again. my reading abities are very excellent but shwe wrote it again. and i am thinking who are these two people? what in tje world do they want so lol that is my thing. i have no problem with someone saying "mons this would help you with your writing or that " i am open but do not be condencing and rude but i wonder who those two were . oh shit the spelling police i am working hard on me . ( now this is only for me my words ) oh oops ,my spelling mistake i feel like a teacher cracked my knuckles with a rulers ouch !!!!!! thanks for listening oh happy easter to all mons

pinksugarsub -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 7:22:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism." What are your pet peeves? Nosey parkers. pinksugarsub

TigressFL -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 8:43:52 AM)
quote: Being told im not a true Domme becasue i like being fisted That was pretty irritating!!! Older Doms messaging me telling me to kneel for them or that as a woman my place is by their feet !! Thats irritating too. That reminds me of another thing that is extremely irritating to me. People that cannot seem to wrap their head around the reality that an activity of any kind such as fisting has absolutely nothing to freaking do with domination and submission UNLESS the people doing the activity “make it” about domination and submission. " It is not what is done, it is how it is done." They need to write 1,000 sentences and repeat this out loud 1,000 times or until they "Get It". Next thing you know a dominant will not “be allowed” to get a back rub because it would be “done to them” instead of them “doing it” and as a result it makes them the submissive. All I can say is… Run with that and let me know how that works out for you! Tigress~FL

raevnn -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 11:42:30 AM)
I get frustrated by the folks who write about their process as if it is The Process for navigating the big world of D/s. And, equally as frustrating, are the people who are not well matched with their significant other and make it a point to go on and on, online (as I've never seen this behavior elsewhere) about how they struggle to modify their behavior so that it is correct (usually this involves 'slaves' who don't wish to be just a servant but who have, somehow (bless the internets) ended up with a 'master' who just really wants an invisible servant). Truly, it seems slightly healthier to wait until one finds the right person, rather than becoming the right person for someone unsuited to one's needs. Thankfully, as I said, I only really ever see this online. Most of the people I know in the 'real world' are happy, healthy and not fooling themselves.

BrutalDemon -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 12:14:26 PM)
Insensitive clods (and clodettes... I'm an equal opportunity disparager) who put 'their' sub through 'too many bad experiences', and drive them out of the lifestyle... The Suicide Girl Graduates, who think that because they've got a bolt through their nostril and a six inch thick layer of purple eyeshadow, that's enough to make them 'experts' at 'bdsm'... The Horny Net Geeks that can't even SPELL 'bdsm'... The Attention Seeking Whores that clog up the internet with their "I'm way too good for you sad acts" attitudes... The Self Important Know Alls with serious Irony Deficiencies who wouldn't recognise a joke if it bit them in the genitals... The Miserable Old Farts that clog up message boards with complaints about how it all used to be so much better in The Goode Olde Days... oh, wait... that's ME... scratch that last one

KaineD -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 12:16:44 PM)
One thing that irritates me alot is girls who spend more time on their profile talking about what they DON'T like and who they don't want messaging them than actually talking about themselves. You realize you've read paragraphs and paragraphs of just plain negativity.

Rose4Mistress -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/8/2007 12:25:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mustardseed People who assign me a role without getting my consent first. If I haven't consented to play either the domme or the sub with someone, either online or in real life, and I get pushed into that role I feel rather put off. People who look at a picture and maybe a tagline, but not the entire profile. Cripes, would it kill some folks to at least run a brief search on page to figure out where their targets put "cybering" on their checklists, or to find out if the person is already partnered and no longer looking? Amen to that. Telling me in a first email that I am going to be one's "Little slave kitty" doesn't go over so well for me. Also, I am an arguer, born and bred, and I absolutely hate it when people continue to send me messages simply saying "ur a stupid biotch" after I have proved them wrong on topic X, Y, and Z.

joyinslavery -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/9/2007 12:41:00 PM)
Q: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" A: The 'Online BDSM Community'

Mysti -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/9/2007 7:36:05 PM)
I dont think y'all have enough time for me to list what bugs me about the online community, so I'll sum it up to two words. My Ex. Never doing the online relationship again. total waste of my time

AquaticSub -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/9/2007 7:56:04 PM)
My personal pet peeve? People who think being in BDSM means the rules of grammar and spelling no longer to them. The written word is meant to convey ideas clearly - not serve your ego or prove your subblyness.

FukinTroll -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/9/2007 7:57:54 PM)
Grahmer notsee's

AquaticSub -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/9/2007 8:02:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll Grahmer notsee's I's not a grahmer notsee! I'm just really fuckin' tired of having to translate something out of "subbese". [;)]

FukinTroll -> RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Online BDSM Community" (4/9/2007 8:03:32 PM)
W/what D/do Y/you M/mean?

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