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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/25/2007 10:47:22 PM   
patina


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Status: offline 		That a lot of dom think they can just right off the bat tell a sub to do this or that.  They want to act like they own you when they don't and they mainly pick on newbie who have no ideas of how to handle it.  And I'm tired of newbies for being so dumb.   


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/25/2007 11:37:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

We'd like to invite you to the South Bay Munch. We have it every second Tuesday and fourth Thursday of the month. The next one is Tuesday, 03/13/07, 7:00 PM, at the National Sports Bar & Grill -3210 Sepulveda Blvd Torrance CA. Newcomers are made to feel welcomed and there are several other 24/7 lifestyle couples who attend. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/south_bay_munch/


Ooo, ooo, can strumpet and I come too?

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Please do! We'd love to have you! This is an open invite to anyone close enough to come. We've had visitors from Canada, the east coast and up north come to the munch while in town. We welcome travelers and locals. I hope to see you there on the 13th!

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 8:01:48 AM   
Reptile


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ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

Many here seem to want to argue and flame, name call, tease and ridicule.
That is why so many never bother to post.
It seems you are not free to disagree or view things differently here.
Things here often turn into a circus or a side show, I need to go get some
more popcorn.


I couldent agree more and this is just why i choose not to post and not to post often. i would rather be contacted by PM or emailed than to have to post, just s sence of personal security that i dont need tarnished.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 8:27:48 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		What I love about online is meeting people I would never get to meet, there are very real and experienced people here who for a variety of reasons one would never meet at a group and I love that.

What I dislike about online is legion but actions here mean little and actions define a person much better than the words they are able to use.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 9:01:01 AM   
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Not much on here irritates me but there is one style of posting that several (unfortunately most are women) are overly skilled at and that is passive aggressive bitchiness. I detest it and loose any respect for the person that constantly uses it. They say something snarky then add some lame little ~smile~ to it. Makes me just want to reach thru the computer and slap em silly. For godsake, grow some and just come right out with the serious stuff or crawl back into the nursery.

If I had another slight irritant it would be people that take themselves too seriously and have no sense of humour. Especially those that get all pissy snotty about others that have excellent senses of humour and make me smile and laugh alot.

It's a BDSM site, not life threatening surgery......chiiiiiiiillllllllllll.


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 9:03:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I find it very irritating that LaT can't reach through her monitor and slap the hell out of people.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 9:39:08 AM   
angeldevil


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When you get a mail saying that if you are chosen by the delusions of grandeur Dom who has written it, you WILL....then a list of expectations. Only buttons he gets pressed are delete and block.

More positively, finding genuine people who are friendly, fun and full of good advice that they are happy to share.



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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 10:41:31 AM   
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Angeldevil, your sig line rocks! ::laughs::

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 10:54:37 AM   
KalynDomme


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Status: offline 		I hate those people who think everything's directed toward them, especially the bad things.

... oh god... that's me...

... I'm hating myself again...

... flogs self with wet noodle 40 times while dialing 912, the mentally hypochondriatic emergency line...

... is put on hold....
Oh and one last thing... people who get all pissy when smartassy people have fun in forums and "interrupt" the "serious" talk.  ya want serious?  Don't post somewhere that people like me can come in and attack with the random gigglies.  :P  Serious and internet are in no way mutually inclusive.  =)

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 10:57:02 AM   
SilverShadows


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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

I find it very irritating that LaT can't reach through her monitor and slap the hell out of people.


I hate agreeing with Troll but I will have to agree with this one!

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 10:59:34 AM   
RWAble


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ORIGINAL: SimplySubmissive

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

oh and i can't 4get dommes who think i really want to dom them when all i m doin is trying to irritate their arrogant ass. i think its a white thing

and if someone said " I think it's a black thing" about anything you do, you accuse them of being in the KKK. I find it interesting that it's ok for you to make racial statements, and not ok for anyone else.


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 10:59:49 AM   
SilverShadows


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ORIGINAL: KalynDomme

Oh and one last thing... people who get all pissy when smartassy people have fun in forums and "interrupt" the "serious" talk.  ya want serious?  Don't post somewhere that people like me can come in and attack with the random gigglies.  :P  Serious and internet are in no way mutually inclusive.  =)


Oh, Oh another one-liner Queen. then again I haven't seen one liners from Kalyn yet. Just me.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 11:02:04 AM   
KalynDomme


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ORIGINAL: SilverShadows
Diana
Who is a Countess in her own mind.  


Can you be a Countess in my own mind too?

OH!  OH!  *jumps up and down* I have another one!!  (this is what happens when I spend too much time on collarme at once)  I just got an email.  It says clearly multiple times in my profile and journals (I even have a mini-grammar lesson in my profile or journal or something) that I can't STAND people who do the "net speak" with the u and the r and the c and the 2... ugh.  That's already been addressed.  What DOES get me is the people who won't read my profile!!  Yes, I realize I talk/type a lot.  I know.  But damn it people if you want to get to know me, read!  READ!! 

*sighs and starts handing out clues*

Oh, btw... for my next munch, I have decided I'm going to buy a bunch of those little cheap barbie knock-offs and hand them out as gag gifts with little signs that say "This is the only Barbie that will ever sub to you."

*cackles and runs away*

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 11:02:26 AM   
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What are your pet peeves?



The idea that the D/s relationship is somehow better or more valuable or more honorable than any other kind.

I think it is the biggest lie of them all,  and perhaps the one that leads to the most heartbreak and disappointment to those who believe it.


I must agree because no one type of relationship is better than another, the type of relationships people have depend on them personally and their feelings and morals and what not. If one thinks he or she is better than others just because they're "kinky" or because of the kinds of kink they're into makes them less into reality sort of. And when reality hits, that it's not all about kink then it leaves them heartbroken.


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 11:03:47 AM   
KalynDomme


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ORIGINAL: SilverShadows

quote:

ORIGINAL: KalynDomme

Oh and one last thing... people who get all pissy when smartassy people have fun in forums and "interrupt" the "serious" talk.  ya want serious?  Don't post somewhere that people like me can come in and attack with the random gigglies.  :P  Serious and internet are in no way mutually inclusive.  =)


Oh, Oh another one-liner Queen. then again I haven't seen one liners from Kalyn yet. Just me.


*arches a brow and pointedly looks at Silver's posts that contain one line... but says nothing... not a darn thing.... *

-- editing just so this is not a one line post....--

< Message edited by KalynDomme -- 2/26/2007 11:07:03 AM >

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 11:10:33 AM   
SilverShadows


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Status: offline 		Everyone is being so rational about what irritates them, most of it being common place rudeness in different forms.

What irritates me is purely irrational and is my issue i.e. I don't expect others to change. It is people who use ton of smileys and other icons. It is so tacky [Personal, irrational opinion]. An occasional smiley face to make it clear your joking or not serious is one thing, but gees, they aren't pretty enough to use as decorations.


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/26/2007 11:18:44 AM   
SilverShadows


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Can you be a Countess in my own mind too?


Absolutely, I would be honored.
And you can be a One Liner Queen in my head.
But I do insist that it be in different realms so I don't have to bow to you.

Diana
Who is a Countess in her own Minds and KalynDomme's


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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/27/2007 5:40:24 PM   
Badkitty0810


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ORIGINAL: KalynDomme

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ORIGINAL: Badkitty0810

I also love the people who have a blank profile and then send an email or request to chat.  How do they expect anyone to take them seriously?  I block and delete them. 


Those people immediately go into my "to be spammed" list.  It's not spam if they emailed you first. ;-)


Oooh, do you send them subscriptions to the International Male catalog or sign them up for beastiality websites?  I've never considered doing something so evil. I bow to you!! LOL

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/27/2007 6:21:08 PM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		just general pompousness, control freaks and passive aggressive behavior... online, in life. it seems like a 2nd class way to conduct urself, come direct or not at all

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 2/27/2007 6:45:39 PM   
Mikal


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Status: offline 		Well, dang it all, I think y'all are talkin 'bout ME! *sniffles... now I can't stand me...*
~smiles~ but that's ok... 'cause my friends and  tell me I'm 2 kule 2 b lafd @ 4evr. 

I'm bored. Does it show much? lol

Edited 'cause I forgot a smilie... they ARE pretty enough for decorations! THEY ARE!!!!! *pouts*


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