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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/25/2007 8:09:30 PM

MasterFireMaam

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If he has a track record of meaning what he says, that I don't think it'd be a bad thing to assume that he means it when he says he's not expecting interaction between you and the other woman. If you don't have the trust, don't do it. If so, feel free, if you're comfortable with it.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/25/2007 8:51:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: petstorm

First and foremost, i am not asking if i should do this, or how. i am simply asking (women in particular) how they would feel about it. A little background first though...

i love my Master. He's every breath i take and the blood that flows through my veins. There is very little i would deny him. That being said, he has a fantasy of having two girls to serve him at the same time.

i trust him, and i have faith in the bond we have. i am not worried about another girl coming in an taking him away from me. And i have chosen to try and find a girl to partake in this fantasy.

Now, here is where my dilema actually lies... i am not even bi-curious. i have the word of my Master that i will not be asked to give to the other girl, and i'm perfectly ok with being on the receiving end under the control of my Master, should she be bi-sexual.

So, my questions then are... under these circumstances, would you partake in such a fantasy? Would you do this for your Master if you were not bi-sexual or even bi-curious? And if you're single and not even bi-curious, is it something you might consider if you knew you would only be there to serve the desires of Him?

i guess i'm just curious to know how others feel about this subject.

My first Master was my husband and before W/we were even married, just living together, He had me having sex with other women. He would find other couples for U/us and He would have sex with the woman and He had me have sex with both the woman and the man. On my 24th b'day, He took me to dinner and then to a bar that had female dancers in g-strings on the bar (of course, He had always taken me to strip clubs and sex clubs, even though i didn't like going to them - never told Him that, just went along, like a good little slave). W/we sat at the bar and He had me put $1's in one dancer's g-string and then made me ask her if she would come home with U/us for my b'day celebration. Another time, He had a lesbian friend of His from the Army stay with U/us for a weekend and had me go downstairs to where she was sleeping and flirt with her. She caught on real quick and told me that she would go down on me but, i couldn't do anything to her.

EVERY Master and Dom, (except for one), that i have ever been involved with, ALWAYS made me engage in bisexual sex, even though i wasn't bi or bi-curious. They almost always made me find the other woman, which was the hardest part for me and i NEVER, EVER wanted to but, i always did what i was told. It really wasn't as bad as i had imagined it would be. And, with the right woman, it could actually be pretty nice, although that was entirely because i saw just how turned on my Master was watching His slave having sex with another woman. i knew i was fulfilling His fantasy and that was hugely exciting and fulfilling to me. It makes it all worth it, for me. i love knowing i am pleasing Him in a way that not many others have or would.

i finally got to the point where i just started calling myself bisexual, even though, in all honesty, if it weren't for my Master wanting that, i wouldn't be sexual with women on my own, ever. It isn't something i even fantasize about. i am only doing it for Him, even to the point of pretending to be enjoing it. Although, i have to admit that every woman has been extremely pleased by what i have done to her for my Master's pleasure. i am not doing it for her pleasure or for mine. When my Master tells me to do something, i do it and i do it to the absolute best that i can and i don't let my feelings show and i don't stop until He wants me to stop. i am always very happy to see how much i have pleased Him and i am always very happy when it's over. i don't feel bad about doing it but, i don't look forward to it either. And, as a fully-owned slave, i feel i am obligated to fulfill my duties, which includes having sex with other women, when my Master wants me to.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 2:49:35 AM

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quote:

petstorm
i am not his submissive, i am his slave.

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And it was ME who brought up this matter. It was my choice to give him this gift,

My comment is directed at these words.
You are his slave- but you will make the decision/choice whether he gets this
fantasy or not?

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 3:02:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

quote:

petstorm
i am not his submissive, i am his slave. .......And it was ME who brought up this matter. It was my choice to give him this gift,

My comment is directed at these words.You are his slave- but you will make the decision/choice whether he gets this fantasy or not?

I have to wonder and agree with swtnsparkling here. I thought the same thing. You are ‘slave’ but want to decide and control even after the offer was made.

If bi was not a limit you set down in the contract that was understood and agreed on, AND you offered the fantasy to him.. Then as it unfolds, in anyway,, with him having you do whatever he fantasizes about for that night.. i would think you would do it and want to do it to please him and do you best to perform and be engaged in the acts fully.

Maybe you won't be turned on, and maybe you won't cum, but you can jump in with gusto and give him the night of fantasy you offered..

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 5:24:43 AM

asubmissiveheart

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Most men that are not bi-sexual or bi-curious are not going for this one.
My Mistress knows that is a line I am not crossing for her.
But then we discussed this before we became involved and this is not anything she
would be interested in.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 7:43:37 AM

petstorm

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For those of you commenting and wondering... yes, this was a limit set down long before i began to walk this road. As his slave, i have very few limits. Most of them are things that are in place because they must be. Obviously, i have other things going on in addition to my own life, like children to think about.

But it is because this was a limit for me that it was, and is, my choice to do. And because of the love and respect he has for me, and the fact that this is my doing, he has left it to me to do.

Honestly, i have made my choice and if he were to take control of it, i would quite willingly follow his lead... a matter that he and i actually discussed last night. We have complete open communication, which is something i feel is vital in any kind of relationship. He will keep his word, and keep me safe. But that isn't the reason i posted this thread.

i wasn't asking whether or not i should do this, if you return to my original posting. i was asking if, given the same circumstances, others would do the same.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 8:32:27 AM

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Our background is poly, and two relationships in the past have included another woman. In the first, she and I were both straight, and although we routinely engaged in 3somes, she and I only served him, and did not engage each other. In the second relationship, the other woman was bi; it was known going in that I was straight, and not bi curious. But as time progressed, and I became comfortable with her, and I saw how turned on my husband was by the idea of us together, I became willing to give it a try. It was not a bad experience at all. Like any "virgin", I was nervous. But his reaction to it made it well worth it. Once I made up my mind, I decided to go all the way, so I took turns with her being the aggressor in all the sex play, rather than being a passive recipient. I can't say that the experience really felt sexual to me. It felt more like something along the lines of a cross between a full body massage and a playful wrestling match. We did this on several occasions, during the time the relationship lasted. Since that time (YEARS ago) I have not felt any urge or curiosity to venture down this path again, but if a similar set of circumstances occured again, I probably would be willing.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 10:00:53 AM

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Not in a Million years would i ever do this. I am crazy in love with my Master, but before i accepted his collar one of my hard limits was no other women, and Master agreed to it he is a one woman man.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 11:46:59 AM

kate

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azz....i have very poor spelling.. but i have no idea what you are talking about...what is n2? and str8?...maybe i'm just not cool enough to get it, lol...but could you make this a little more clear please?

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 12:00:13 PM

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Though i loath the type of writing that azz is doing to answer your question kate, n2 is into and str8 is straight.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/26/2007 8:27:01 PM

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I wouldn't. But I am not the type to have a master, I prefer dominants.
I would not, because I am almost pathologically straight. Or that is, absolutely paranoid about a female touching me. My psyche could not handle it.
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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 2/27/2007 2:49:45 PM

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If that's what makes her happy, then sure, i would....and have

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 5:59:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: petstorm just obey

First and foremost, i am not asking if i should do this, or how. i am simply asking (women in particular) how they would feel about it. A little background first though...

i love my Master. He's every breath i take and the blood that flows through my veins. There is very little i would deny him. That being said, he has a fantasy of having two girls to serve him at the same time.

i trust him, and i have faith in the bond we have. i am not worried about another girl coming in an taking him away from me. And i have chosen to try and find a girl to partake in this fantasy.

Now, here is where my dilema actually lies... i am not even bi-curious. i have the word of my Master that i will not be asked to give to the other girl, and i'm perfectly ok with being on the receiving end under the control of my Master, should she be bi-sexual.

So, my questions then are... under these circumstances, would you partake in such a fantasy? Would you do this for your Master if you were not bi-sexual or even bi-curious? And if you're single and not even bi-curious, is it something you might consider if you knew you would only be there to serve the desires of Him?

i guess i'm just curious to know how others feel about this subject.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 6:20:04 AM

Mustardseed

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

azz....i have very poor spelling.. but i have no idea what you are talking about...what is n2? and str8?...maybe i'm just not cool enough to get it, lol...but could you make this a little more clear please?

Just some guesses, based on what looks like 1337 5P3@k or text speak:

n2 = into
str8 = straight

It's oddly phonetic, but it doesn't exactly flow when read the first few times.

I guess that since "two hot bi babes" is such a strong fantasy for a lot of guys, that this is something that I would have mentioned upfront in negotiations or online checklists immediately if the idea really disgusted me. However, if I were okay with the idea, assuming certain restrictions, then yes -- I'd do it.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 8:23:16 AM

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Hmm, I just saw this thread. Must have missed it when it was generated. Yes, I would do what my Master wanted. It will happen for me, too, and I have been adequately prepared for it.

As for being on the receiving end only, I would wonder what third party girl would want to do that - to come in just to give and to receive nothing back from the girl she is giving to? What a lopsided offer.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 9:08:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

As for being on the receiving end only, I would wonder what third party girl would want to do that - to come in just to give and to receive nothing back from the girl she is giving to? What a lopsided offer.

not really...this slave totally understands the mentality that some folks are seriously into it for the giving----to be allowed to just give, without having to deal with receiving is what they "get". to some, receiving is very uncomfortable.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 9:09:04 AM

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I don't know. It would probably depend on the girl. I'm monogamous and that is a condition of our relationship. I probably wouldn't do it because, depending on the girl, she might get very bored of always giving and never getting and it wouldn't be fair to her.

seconding this unless she does it anyway with acknowledgment her master is pleased thereby she feels good of his happiness.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 9:17:43 AM

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as a slave i would do as told .if he said give her head i would said yes master and kiss his feet

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 9:32:40 AM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

As for being on the receiving end only, I would wonder what third party girl would want to do that - to come in just to give and to receive nothing back from the girl she is giving to? What a lopsided offer.

not really...this slave totally understands the mentality that some folks are seriously into it for the giving----to be allowed to just give, without having to deal with receiving is what they "get". to some, receiving is very uncomfortable.

Funny you say this, and I understand it, too. I guess I was looking at it from my own point of view...in that I could not see being on the receiving end from a third person, and not feeling like I should be giving something back.

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RE: Adding a girl when you're not even bi-curious - 4/18/2007 9:49:54 AM

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What guy doesn't like two women, even if it's rationalized by claiming "It's for my sub/slave", truth is the dick has no conscience

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