A good majority of slaves and subs want total control. If you let a sub get away with a mistake or bad behavior, they tend to sometimes either step all over YOU or leave for a stronger woman. It's not about being a bitch, its about carrying authority and letting the subbie know they will NOT be getting away with anything. Thats how most like it.
PhDslave -> RE: Too nice? (2/26/2007 10:22:43 PM)
Since i'm seeking a long term relationship only, i'd probably have better luck with a kinder, gentler Mistress.
bacchas -> RE: Too nice? (2/28/2007 7:24:42 PM)
If both you and your sub are having fun then you're just nice enough.
freyjasdottir -> RE: Too nice? (2/28/2007 7:37:17 PM)