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need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 3/22/2005 8:53:50 AM   
Kittywithklaws


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Status: offline 		What are some good ways to make sure I keep my sub in check? He's a lil defiant, but thats mainly because hes challangeing me to do somthing. Need some creative advice:) Keep in mind....I have a 2 yr old around and for the moment theres a roommate. It makes it pretty difficult.
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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 3/22/2005 9:06:56 AM   
LadyShoshin


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Status: offline 		The sub sleeps on the floor on a mat with a blanket and a pillow rather than in the bed, if that doesn't work, take away the pillow, if he is still defiant, take away the blanket, still defiant, take away the mat. Timeouts in the corner of the bedroom with his nose in the corner until you release him.

Speaking of which, there is always milking his prostate and not allowing him to ejaculate.
Cut a very knubbly plastic floor runner into the shape of a menstrual pad and have him wear it inside of tight women's panties with the knubbles against his skin, take him for a walk in the mall wearing his punishment panties, make him sit on hard chairs with the punishment panties on.

He will realize you are serious.
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ORIGINAL: Kittywithklaws

What are some good ways to make sure I keep my sub in check? He's a lil defiant, but thats mainly because hes challangeing me to do somthing. Need some creative advice:) Keep in mind....I have a 2 yr old around and for the moment theres a roommate. It makes it pretty difficult.



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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 3/22/2005 9:07:08 AM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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ORIGINAL: Kittywithklaws

What are some good ways to make sure I keep my sub in check?


Well...it happens to be my thing, but I would suggest paperwork. Have him write up a contract...get him to sign it. Have him do lines if he doesn't live up to his end of the contract.

Train in him positions and rituals...

Lot's of stuff you can do without raising too much of a rucus...

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 3/22/2005 10:16:05 AM   
stormsfate


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Status: offline 		Sit him in the corner by himself facing the wall and have him write 500 times with a big fat crayon (like your two year old unmentionable probably uses) "I will not..........".




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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 3/22/2005 12:11:06 PM   
luckyslaveboync


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Status: offline 		lucky really thinks You will get the best control by using the direct method, which is requiring Your sub to buy and wear a lockable chastity device. These will fit under his clothes and not be a problem with the roommate, children, etc. you mention. As perhaps you know, chastity training and equipment is the specialty of the Altairboy site at www.altairboy.com or http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/newstuff.php.

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 3/22/2005 7:25:27 PM   
liltxsubby


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Status: offline 		Find out what his least favorite form of punishment is. WHen he begins acting up, threaten to start counting. If he continues, whatever number you get to is his punishment. You can administer immediately or stretch it out over a day, week, etc. If he keeps repeating the bad behaviour, he no longer gets a warning and you just start counting.

For me, I hate being hit with Fangs' switch. Whatever number he gets to, I get that many whacks. So far the most accumulated over 2 weeks was 13. Now I rarely get to even 1.

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 3:05:23 PM   
awomanssslave


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Status: offline 		Mistress, what is the attitude of the roommate toward your type of lifestyle? Perhaps your roommate is more receptive than you think. If so, the two of you could gang up on your submissive and make him mind. Being naked, collared and cuffed always works for me.

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 4:04:09 PM   
Mylee


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ORIGINAL: LadyShoshin


Cut a very knubbly plastic floor runner into the shape of a menstrual pad and have him wear it inside of tight women's panties with the knubbles against his skin, take him for a walk in the mall wearing his punishment panties, make him sit on hard chairs with the punishment panties on.

He will realize you are serious.



* Whimpers in sympathy for your slave*

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 6:03:29 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Talk to him and teach him better habits of obedience. That's the only way to work it long term.

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 6:20:09 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		1. e4 d5 2. Bb5 will put your sub in check right away.

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ORIGINAL: Kittywithklaws

What are some good ways to make sure I keep my sub in check?


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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 10:45:57 PM   
lonewolf05


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ORIGINAL: LadyShoshin

The sub sleeps on the floor on a mat with a blanket and a pillow rather than in the bed, if that doesn't work, take away the pillow, if he is still defiant, take away the blanket, still defiant, take away the mat. Timeouts in the corner of the bedroom with his nose in the corner until you release him.

Speaking of which, there is always milking his prostate and not allowing him to ejaculate.
Cut a very knubbly plastic floor runner into the shape of a menstrual pad and have him wear it inside of tight women's panties with the knubbles against his skin, take him for a walk in the mall wearing his punishment panties, make him sit on hard chairs with the punishment panties on.

He will realize you are serious.
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ORIGINAL: Kittywithklaws

What are some good ways to make sure I keep my sub in check? He's a lil defiant, but thats mainly because hes challangeing me to do somthing. Need some creative advice:) Keep in mind....I have a 2 yr old around and for the moment theres a roommate. It makes it pretty difficult.


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rather than in the bed,


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i always have to laugh at this. what's a bed? seriously? my 1st Mistress had me sleeping on the living room floor, in the winter and the dungeon tile in the summer. what is a bed?

wow. some of the things going on today! boggles my mind.

the wolf

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 10:55:08 PM   
SteelBondager


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

1. e4 d5 2. Bb5 will put your sub in check right away.

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ORIGINAL: Kittywithklaws

What are some good ways to make sure I keep my sub in check?




You almost always make me laugh. Thanks.

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 11:04:49 PM   
Senko


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Status: offline 		ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

1. e4 d5 2. Bb5 will put your sub in check right away.


OK I dont get it.....

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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 11:08:04 PM   
Lordandmaster


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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/6/2005 11:11:42 PM   
SteelBondager


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Status: offline 		Be consistent in everything. Use your domme voice. Practice progressive discipline. Eat your wheaties. Discuss your relationship!


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RE: need ideas to keep sub in check or train - 7/7/2005 5:06:09 PM   
MrThorns


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Status: offline 		Consistency...communication...and always doing the next right thing, even if it hurts.

If that doesn't work..

Butterfly boards and 16 guage needles.

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