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How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 8:18:17 AM

Arastella

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I've had previous Masters who've wanted me to wait until commanded to release. I've never been able to figure out how... does anyone else have this problem?

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 8:32:34 AM

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Ahhh, the wonderful joys of control orgasm........ *chuckle* Astrella, my dear, i think we should talk more privately as i have experience in this and it's not really an issue that is appropriate for the message boards.

However, i will say this... it takes time, work, and training. Not only your body, but your mind as well. It can also have a negative reaction that can (not always, so don't bite me head of girls!) make it hard for you to naturally orgasm. Unfortunately, if you reach that point, you have to have someone to tell you to cum before you can release, which gets extremely frustrating.

But if you learn to control your orgasms and it's not an everytime thing, it can be quite intimate and intense when you both release at the same time. Not only are you sharing a physical explosion, but you're also sharing the energies that go with it.

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 8:57:40 AM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_588912/mpage_2/key_orgasm%252Ccontrol/tm.htm#592158
orgasm on command?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_412753/mpage_1/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#412758
cum control

http://www.collarchat.com/m_313958/mpage_4/key_orgasm%252Ccommand/tm.htm#318568
cum on command

http://www.collarchat.com/m_400934/mpage_1/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#400996
orgasm on demand

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 9:11:18 AM

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This explains orgasming on command without being touched, but I think it can be of use here too.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_801439/mpage_1/key_orgasm/tm.htm#838674

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 12:00:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: petstorm

Ahhh, the wonderful joys of control orgasm........ *chuckle* Astrella, my dear, i think we should talk more privately as i have experience in this and it's not really an issue that is appropriate for the message boards.

However, i will say this... it takes time, work, and training. Not only your body, but your mind as well. It can also have a negative reaction that can (not always, so don't bite me head of girls!) make it hard for you to naturally orgasm. Unfortunately, if you reach that point, you have to have someone to tell you to cum before you can release, which gets extremely frustrating.

But if you learn to control your orgasms and it's not an everytime thing, it can be quite intimate and intense when you both release at the same time. Not only are you sharing a physical explosion, but you're also sharing the energies that go with it.

okay then.... message me if ya want! thank you

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 12:18:08 PM

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Practice, practice, practice. And that means by both of you. Lots of patience also.

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 3:39:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

Practice, practice, practice. And that means by both of you. Lots of patience also.

Thanks but I dont even know how to go about beginning to practice.... ive NO idea how to do it......

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 3:58:28 PM

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HAH! I have issues with this, but then again, I don't even practice.

Read those links that were provided in the thread. Reading is awesome, and they provide some helpful insight as to where to start and such!

Good luck :)

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RE: How does one go about controlling orgasms? - 2/26/2007 4:40:20 PM

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I guess i am lucky My Master lets me cum when i need to. It is hard for me to do it myself it is much eaiser if he is here and does it. Teasing is fun as long as you get the ultimate release. Sometimes teasing before can bring a bigger release though.

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