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Bribes - 2/26/2007 10:10:10 AM   
duckykarma


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Status: offline 		i know there was a post on here about giving gifts for the sake of giving them, i am interested to know if there are any Dom's or Dommes out there who accept gifts from their slaves or subs who offer them purley for the intent of getting out of a punishment? are there any subs out there that if their Dominant allowed that would you take advantage of it?

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 10:12:37 AM   
MsOpal


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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 10:20:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I could see enjoying that as a GAME- perhaps the slave spilling some juice on the floor, me teasing that I'm going to punish him for being so clumsy, and him licking it all off my toes as a way to "get out of the punishment."

There, it's very obvious on all sides that we're just teasing and having a good time and playing on archetypes.  That could be fun.

But I wouldn't get into it for serious punishment.

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 10:29:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		well i ask because i was talking to a prospective Dom last night while he was at work and i asked him if any of his subs tryed to give him gifts to get out of punishment and he responded that that is something i could do...i wasnt asking for my personal advantage i was just wondering if anyone had tried that before and if they got away with it...If i didnt want to be punished i wouldnt try to bribe him to get out of it i would just simply follow the rules....

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 11:01:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		well dang I learned another new thing ......... bribes...... hmmmm just did not think of it in this way ...... what gift can I give larger than submission ?

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 11:03:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Whats the point.. BDSM relationships dont have to have punishment as part of them if you dont want it then dont have it but to have it as part of the relationship just to allow this sort of thing seems pointless and counter productive

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 12:16:48 PM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		Oh yes. I do that. But in general I call that motherhood. When my teenage son gets in trouble, I let him buy or trade his way out of punishment in some favorable manner. He can clean the house or bring in th wood or do a host of things that will lesson his house arrest sentance. lololol

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 12:39:19 PM   
duckykarma


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quote:

ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

well dang I learned another new thing ......... bribes...... hmmmm just did not think of it in this way ...... what gift can I give larger than submission ?


i am meaning monitary gifts, like you physically go to the store and buy something for them to get out of a harsh punishment because you did something wrong....lol and im not meaning this as a new trick to be in good spirits with your Dom...it was just something i had read on here and asked my prospective Dom if someone has done this and he took it as i was aksing if it was ok...

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 12:43:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: duckykarma

quote:

ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

well dang I learned another new thing ......... bribes...... hmmmm just did not think of it in this way ...... what gift can I give larger than submission ?


i am meaning monitary gifts, like you physically go to the store and buy something for them to get out of a harsh punishment because you did something wrong....lol and im not meaning this as a new trick to be in good spirits with your Dom...it was just something i had read on here and asked my prospective Dom if someone has done this and he took it as i was aksing if it was ok...


Lets see if I understand this.

submissive misbehaves

I spend time and effort coming up with a correction for the misbehaving.

submissive offers to go to the store and get me something.

I spend time and effort figuring out what I want that will make her misbehaving all better.

Seems odd, she is the submissive but I end up doing all the work.  Im not sure I would be into it.

But then I like to be surprised by things, so if she wants to surprise me with something bribe-like to get out of being punished, that might work.  Well, that and I am not particularly punitive.

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 12:47:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sinergy for example your sub did something that deserved a punishment and on the day or at the time of the punishment she came to you with a gift would you take that gift in lue of her punisment? or would you say nice try and make her punishment that much worse?

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 5:23:02 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: duckykarma

Sinergy for example your sub did something that deserved a punishment and on the day or at the time of the punishment she came to you with a gift would you take that gift in lue of her punisment? or would you say nice try and make her punishment that much worse?


I will take the second question first.  I am not particularly punitive, so I am unlikely to make the punishment worse.

On the other hand, I might turn it in to a good natured interrogation scene getting her to deeply examine and describe her misdeeds from a strictly Socratic or Taoist perspective.  I might demand that she explain this while tied up and being spanked.  It is difficult to say.

As far as the first part, I love surprises and efforts to please me.  But it violates the whole mind fuck principle to be too definitive.

Life is too short.

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 7:07:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: simplewhispers

well dang I learned another new thing ......... bribes...... hmmmm just did not think of it in this way ...... what gift can I give larger than submission ?


I fully agree that nothing i can give is larger than submission.  Besides, no bride whatsoever would work with Master.....

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 7:15:55 PM   
duckykarma


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Status: offline 		Sinergy thank you once again for your reply...and all the others who took time out of their busy schedule to answer my questions

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 7:21:02 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Personaly I would have NO repsect for a Dom that would take a bribe.. if you deside to have punishment in the relationship, then have punishment but not Ill punish you unless you buy me something relly nice I mean isnt that called a tribute??

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 8:06:49 PM   
duckykarma


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Status: offline 		Magic i totally agree with you....If i knew i could bribe my self out of something that would just mean that i was in control of the situation and the relationship and well thats not my goal as a submissive..i expect my partner to be stronger than me and to know when i was trying to play little tricks like buying him off to get out of what i rightfully diserve if i did something that was warrented for the punishment in the first place...and then i would want to know and expect a harsher punishment for even trying to buy him off...

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 9:10:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		If my girl attempted to get out of punishment by offering a bribe, she'd get worse for attempting the bribe itself.  Simple.    

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 9:18:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		You have to think about this the right way. Dommes take tribute, I take bribes.

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 9:21:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have never taken a bribe of any kind...But this a very interesting topic...I can't wait to see what responses are forthcoming.

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 9:52:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		let the punishment fit the crime and trying to bribe Daddy is never allowed from this daughter.  i have never tried and i'm not about to either because i take responsibility when i've done wrong.

a submissive/slave should take responsibility for their actions when they have knowingly made a mistake or they are doomed to not learn anything from them. 

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RE: Bribes - 2/26/2007 10:35:46 PM   
duckykarma


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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

You have to think about this the right way. Dommes take tribute, I take bribes.



LOL of course you do Troll....gotta give you something for wanting to cross over your bridge...Thank A/all who have posted and cant wait for more responses.....


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