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A very strange question.... more for amusement of the a... - 2/26/2007 10:29:58 AM

tulipgoose

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Hi everyone. I am just curious to know if there are any subs out there who have decided to become Dominant merely to ask a submissive to Dominate them in the future? I have been pondering quite a while if such a thing would be effective as so many people claim they will do ANYTHING for that special Someone..........

Thanks for any thoughts on the matter!

M/meggy *giggles evily*

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 10:37:56 AM

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It happens.

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 10:40:13 AM

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Such seems to be very dishonest to me, but I know it happens.

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 11:21:35 AM

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I feel I need to make clear I am would *never* EVER dream of doing such a thing to someone. I agree it is incredibly dishonest. I guess I was more asking along the lines of: wouldn't it be nice if it were so easy and everyone ended up happy?

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 11:24:28 AM

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i have been approached by male submissives who say they will do "anything" and while i clearly state i am a submissive in my profile an evil thought comes into my mind that i really need the brush cleaned out of my back yard.....

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 11:44:01 AM

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wouldn't that be a switch question?

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 11:44:58 AM

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I have had such a troll in the past. A fellow who said he was submissive messaged me and wanted to know if I was interested. At the time, I didn't have a Sir or Master but I sure wasn't interested in a sub so I declined. He then said he would be willing to Top the right submissive so I, a sub, ordered him to change his profile to "switch" instead of sub. He did it. ~chuckle~ That pretty much ended that communication.

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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 12:27:40 PM

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I think I've spoken to about 3-5 guys a week like that.
I'm glad it's not just me as I was beginning to wonder why people think I'm interested in being a top.
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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 12:31:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

i have been approached by male submissives who say they will do "anything" and while i clearly state i am a submissive in my profile an evil thought comes into my mind that i really need the brush cleaned out of my back yard.....

LOL that's the only time I consider I wish I was more toppy, think of all the sex just the way I want it and chores done for me on top of cooking my meals and doing my dishes for me..
Then the reality of me being in charge when scening and being on the giving end come back into play. I just am not into giving spankings or stuff from the tops point of view.
I guess I'll keep doing my own chores and stuff as I may not liek it, but it does not creep me out like spanking someone does.
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RE: A very strange question.... more for amusement of t... - 2/26/2007 12:34:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tulipgoose

Hi everyone. I am just curious to know if there are any subs out there who have decided to become Dominant merely to ask a submissive to Dominate them in the future? I have been pondering quite a while if such a thing would be effective as so many people claim they will do ANYTHING for that special Someone..........

Thanks for any thoughts on the matter!

M/meggy *giggles evily*

Turn it around. How would you feel if you had a Dom who was really a submissive who was playing Dom to you (without your knowledge) merely so he could ask you to dominate HIM in the future?

BTW.. the activity of 'switching' is where this game is played.

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