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Stephann -> RE: ok, i have another question (3/5/2007 7:12:45 AM)
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People usually enter a relationship focused on 'something.' What we're most familiar with, is the romantic relationship focus. This is usually a man and a woman (as an example, gender isn't the issue here) who meet, are attracted to each other, and share an interest in becoming more than simple friends. They share an (often vague) concept of romantic love, and over time establish goals for that relationship based on mutual romantic love; first date, first time making love, first month together, first birthdays, first christmas together, introducing to the parents, etc etc leading up towards marriage. Obviously, most relationships never make it that far.
Typically, a Daddy/lil girl interaction will follow many of the same elements of this pattern. The focus isn't on 'what Daddy can give me' but rather, 'how does he make me feel.' Granted, some people don't make a distinction between the two, but children (as a parallel example) don't choose to love their parents or not, based on the quantity or ticket value of their gifts. A more generous parent, isn't necessarily a better parent.
The 'Pro' on the other hand, usually enters relationships with men with designs similar to, say, a stripper in a dance club. To make the largest amount of profit from her time and effort as possible. She may very well like the man, she might have even dated him in a more conventional setting. If, over weeks or months, he makes suitable financial contributions to her, she may take a deeper interest in him the same way Anna Nichole Smith did in her ex husband. Rarely is there any illusion of a romantic relationship in the long run; it's a financial transaction sealed with a kiss. Quite frankly, this is usually what both client and provider desire. Couples where the woman is a 'trophy wife' is another example of such an arrangement; though not usually with so much introspection.
Take care,
Stephan
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